First time doing this - what's the ettiquite

[premp_01]

Hey all,
After a long time thinking about this I realize getting with an escort is something I want to experience. I notice they usually put up their phone number and emails, what's the best / ideal way to contact them? Should I include any specific information in the first contact?
Thank you

 

[stinkynuts]

Hey all,
After a long time thinking about this I realize getting with an escort is something I want to experience. I notice they usually put up their phone number and emails, what's the best / ideal way to contact them? Should I include any specific information in the first contact?
Thank you

No need for etiquette per se. It makes their lives easier if your texts are direct and clear. Ideally, no more than a couple texts to confirm an appointment. Read their ad and visit their website first to see if it contains the information you are looking for.


Example:

I always need bbbjcim, so ask even if they say it is available. That way they cannot refuse to do it.


Me: “Hi, can you tell me your menu/services and restrictions? Do you do bbbjcim? Thanks.”

If they say yes to bbbjcim and I like their menu, I set up an appointment. If not, I don’t. It’s actually very straightforward.

If you are black, you may want to tell them upfront. Many refuse black clients. Better that they reject you now then at your appointment, or you might get a very bad experience. Same goes if you are handicapped or have special needs, or are very old.

 

[luvyeah]

Read reviews, get a sense of what you want. Looks, acronyms and rate. https://terb.cc/vbulletin/archive/index.php/t-370.html
Double check services, some list them, others play the ymmv game and if you are too care free they will play you and take all your money.
Indy's can discuss it, agency's typically won't.

It is most important to be polite in your texts but straightforward.
Try not to share too much information.

For a first time, check out the TTT or terbs best lists:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?698931
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?675561
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?698933

And if you are feeling lucky:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tLf9Ka6dI6Tb4XLFr18cuPruHrMyUZwxC6Q1VsOMBSk/edit

 

[AdamH]

Emails are rarely answered same day in this industry. I don't know why exactly. If it's an agency then they're probably too busy on the phones. If it's an indie you're trying to email then she's probably working.

Only some agencies respond to text (although more and more are accepting appointments by text every year), if they do respond, they'll indicate it in their ads, but (again) the response might be a long time coming.

Also worth noting, many indies also have twitter accounts and often respond to twitter messages.

I personally don't discuss menu options when booking as menu should always be considered YMMV anyway. Your best bet is to see if there are any reviews on the girl you're interested in and try to gauge your mileage expectations that way. Then, the day of your appointment trim your pubes, wash your junk like crazy, wash again like crazy when you arrive, and be clear with what you would like the SP to do and things should turn out alright. I've never been refused CIM by a girl who had reviews indicating she did such things, but I've also heard/read horror stories from some of these girls about guys who come in with dick cheese, barely rinse off in the shower, and still expect BBBJs (they get refused).

 

[shack]

I'd say a newbie is better off starting with a reputable agency of longer standing, such as Passions, Cupid's Mirage, Sexy Friends, Select. The girls have bosses to answer to. And with larger rosters you have more options to choose from.

Once you know the ropes better, move on to indies, where you have less recourse in case of displeasure, but you will have more experience with which to make a good choice.

 

[Thackeray]

Yeah, agree re agency. Indies basically won't see you without full ID - driver's license etc - or a really good referral.

So you're basically down to agencies anyway, and it's a HELL of a lot easier to try out girls at agencies. They tend to show up on time, provide listed services, have reviews, etc.

First step I'd say to invest a few hours in reading Terb reviews, getting a sense for what you think you'd like (location, ethnicity, etc.) then just straight up ask a few guys for recommendations at an agency that looks promising.

Remember the pictures generally bear no resemblance to the girls other than skin colour and fat/skinny.

Also CONSIDER starting with a massage parlour - it can be a lot less intimidating and more relaxing.

MOSTLY though - clean yourself up when you get there (brush teeth, mouthwash, clean your junk and butt), be respectful as hell, get there and leave on time, etc. Even if the girl is really into you (and let's face it, she's probably not), it's a job and etiquette goes a long way.

 

[Toronto Girlfriends]

From the perspective of a woman, and an agency owner, I recommend you check out the website of the provider you are interested in first. Read as much information about their procedures and requirements. We generally know if a client is serious or not by the first email when they have a time and date in mind already. I advise you include that information.

 

[shack]

Yeah, agree re agency. Indies basically won't see you without full ID - driver's license etc - or a really good referral.

So you're basically down to agencies anyway, and it's a HELL of a lot easier to try out girls at agencies. They tend to show up on time, provide listed services, have reviews, etc.

First step I'd say to invest a few hours in reading Terb reviews, getting a sense for what you think you'd like (location, ethnicity, etc.) then just straight up ask a few guys for recommendations at an agency that looks promising.

Remember the pictures generally bear no resemblance to the girls other than skin colour and fat/skinny.

Also CONSIDER starting with a massage parlour - it can be a lot less intimidating and more relaxing.

MOSTLY though - clean yourself up when you get there (brush teeth, mouthwash, clean your junk and butt), be respectful as hell, get there and leave on time, etc. Even if the girl is really into you (and let's face it, she's probably not), it's a job and etiquette goes a long way.

My only disagreement is with this. I used the term "reputable" agencies and listed some that I have used with great success. Reputable means that the pictures these agencies post are the actual girl that you will see. Most will probably not show the face and maybe, but not necessarily, have a touch of photoshopping, but when you meet them, you will know that they are the actual girl you wanted to see.

 

[Grimnul]

My only disagreement is with this. I used the term "reputable" agencies and listed some that I have used with great success. Reputable means that the pictures these agencies post are the actual girl that you will see. Most will probably not show the face and maybe, but not necessarily, have a touch of photoshopping, but when you meet them, you will know that they are the actual girl you wanted to see.

I agree with this. I’ve used Cupid’s numerous times and every time, the girls were recognizable from their pictures. Obviously some touching up done, tattoos and face covered, but otherwise accurate.