Finishing quickly, will this be a problem?

JBird343

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Hey guys, new here and just made an account, a friend told me about this site. I am looking to get into the "hobby" as you call it, but I don't last long at all during penetrative sex (a few minutes, tops). Anyone have any experience with this and seeing an SP? It's something I'm kind of embarrassed about and I'm not sure how it would be received, especially if I was paying for an hour and only lasted a minute or two. Apologize if this is the wrong forum for this. Any advice is appreciated, thanks!
 

KTDoy

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If that is your problem then many of us have the same problem :) :) Really that's why they have the whole pleasure package from SF2, sensual massage, foreplay, kissing etc..before the wallop. If your time is not up, many providers might offer some extra activities or just more relaxing massage.

Don't worry you are paying for the services and the girls ae there to entertain, laughing at your package is included

Enjoy
 
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JBird343

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If that is your problem then many of us have the same problem :) :) Really that's why they have the whole pleasure package from SF2, sensual massage, foreplay, kissing etc..before the wallop. If your time is not up, many providers might offer some extra activities or just more relaxing massage.

Don't worry you are paying for the services and the girls ae there to entertain, laughing at your package is included

Enjoy
Thank you! :)
 

Cool_De_La

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Hey guys, new here and just made an account, a friend told me about this site. I am looking to get into the "hobby" as you call it, but I don't last long at all during penetrative sex (a few minutes, tops). Anyone have any experience with this and seeing an SP? It's something I'm kind of embarrassed about and I'm not sure how it would be received, especially if I was paying for an hour and only lasted a minute or two. Apologize if this is the wrong forum for this. Any advice is appreciated, thanks!
Do what I do, book 15-30 minute sessions. I find hour long sessions too much.
 

asuran

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I think it may be wise to find someone that could become your regular. Tell her your situation and ask if she could help 'train' the little guy, as you want to see if you could get him to last longer.

Or if it persist, may be seeing MA can satiate your sensual cravings as the sessions are, in a way less intense, so to speak.
 

gibarian

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This isn't something you need to worry about. Quite a few providers would take that as a low-key compliment, and most of the rest are probably completely indifferent to the length of time you last. Also, this is logistically preferable to the opposite tendency (which I sometimes experience) of taking forever to finish.

In terms of planning your sessions, just include more foreplay if you're worried about finishing too early and not being able to go for a second round.
 
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massman

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In contrast to most of our fantasies, the cast majority of SPs are not in the business to get sexual satisfaction. So she wouldn’t care if you finished quickly, and often prefer it. Now for you, if you are ok paying for an hour and finishing in a few minutes, fine. However you might want to let her know about this quality, and ask if you can focus on other things for much of the session, oral both ways, maybe a massage before, making out etc. And a nice bit of cuddling, or shower together after. That way you will not be left with the feeling that you didn’t get the time / enjoyment you paid for.
 

jjw99

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hey jbird what the rush slow down
and enjoy the beautiful lady you with
you can kiss have oral both ways or 69 and cuddling
then if you have time do it all again
i never had a 15-30 minute sessions never will
i like the 90 minute sessions
the fun you can have in 90minute
just take your time
you have more fun for sure
 

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boomboom

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short sessions are a 1 way satisfaction in my opinion for you, unless you are doing DATY for most of the session. many have the same issue & prefer longer sessions for MSOG
I treat every meeting as a 2way pleasure session. If I just want to get off, I can do that myself for free. Its about touch & connection in many ways... Just my $0.02
 

itd131

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Hey guys, new here and just made an account, a friend told me about this site. I am looking to get into the "hobby" as you call it, but I don't last long at all during penetrative sex (a few minutes, tops). Anyone have any experience with this and seeing an SP? It's something I'm kind of embarrassed about and I'm not sure how it would be received, especially if I was paying for an hour and only lasted a minute or two. Apologize if this is the wrong forum for this. Any advice is appreciated, thanks!
Quick answer - definitely no, it won't be a problem.
 

DirtyMiind

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If you go for the hour you can usually pop at least twice in the hour, and hopefully the 2nd go round will last a bit longer, and as other said there are filler activities too. What I've done previously is book 1.5hr sessions so by time I get to round 3 I can last for quite a while as I'm now more relaxed. I've never repeated but I would suspect repeating would help too. I have no issues lasting with the wife hahahaha.
 

queerbox

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Hey guys, new here and just made an account, a friend told me about this site. I am looking to get into the "hobby" as you call it, but I don't last long at all during penetrative sex (a few minutes, tops). Anyone have any experience with this and seeing an SP? It's something I'm kind of embarrassed about and I'm not sure how it would be received, especially if I was paying for an hour and only lasted a minute or two. Apologize if this is the wrong forum for this. Any advice is appreciated, thanks!
To most of them you're doing them a favour if you're done in 5-10 mins 🤠 they're going to love you
 

Demonoid007

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Hey guys, new here and just made an account, a friend told me about this site. I am looking to get into the "hobby" as you call it, but I don't last long at all during penetrative sex (a few minutes, tops). Anyone have any experience with this and seeing an SP? It's something I'm kind of embarrassed about and I'm not sure how it would be received, especially if I was paying for an hour and only lasted a minute or two. Apologize if this is the wrong forum for this. Any advice is appreciated, thanks!
A big study encountered that, for men, the average (median) time before orgasm was about 6 minutes, and ranged from 6 seconds to 53 minutes. The majority of men lasted between 4 to 11 minutes, with anyone lasting longer than 21 minutes being considered an outlier.

Personally, I prefer to take my time with a beautiful woman to enjoy the experience. Chat a little, maybe get a massage or a dance... no need to rush it and make it only about a quick penetration.
 

JBird343

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Thanks everyone, really appreciate the advice and it has assuaged my anxieties to a great extent. Thanks again!
 

Red Spyder

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What I used to do is just finish before I arrived. Then i can last.
Now I just finish quickly in the session, and then I am able to finish again near the end of the session.
Most providers allow for it.
 
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billie69

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That’s why it’s best to get msog with the hour.

Avoid an sp that only allows 1 sog during the hour because you’ll play for an hour and get 5 minutes.
 

jalimon

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This is why I only see girl that accept CIM and of course msog. It's my way of not worrying about SOG. Number of times I came within the first blowjob ;)
 
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