Feeld
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I used it for a month back in Jan/Feb and sent a bunch of pings to people but got not a single reply.
I thought maybe it was a scam or something. But I just signed up last week and 2 days later I got a like from a woman about 45 minutes from my house
We chatted a bit, exchanged kinks, talked logistics and made a tentative plan but she's gone silent on me for the last 2 days.
At least that shows me it CAN work. The issue is those pings get expensive and most women will ignore likes.
Update: she just got back in touch and said she was busy with work. Maybe something will happen but I'm not trying to force it.
I will say I am excited at the prospect of having free casual sex with a stranger, something I haven't done since I my very first time when I was 17.
The cool thing was once we started chatting, I was trying to be cool, thinking like normal dating app approach.
She went right to what's your kink? What kind of punishments have you given etc
I was like OK, I guess were getting right down to business.
I am going to keep working it and see what I can make happen. Would love to have a regular FWB thing going on.
I think one of the issues for me before was I just recycled my photos and bio from my dating app profile. Feeld has a lot more edge to it. I need to up my game a bit on the profile and pics to fit in.
I did that a bit and I think that's why I got this one chat, and once I do more I can get more hopefully.
Are you on it?
I have a similar experience with Feeld.
A huge amount of time and effort with little return. One ligit chat similar to Newguy but nothing came of it.
My hunch is the ratio of guys to women is massive, and the most of the female profiles I saw were for BBWs.
I guess a younger very attractive guy might have a chance to be seen through all the noise, but alas I am not one of them.
I agree on all counts. And to be clear, I am not one of the young attractive guys of which you speak, and the woman I am talking to is nowhere near as attractive as the SPs we see.
But if anything seeing SPs has opened my mind to being open to more kinds of women.
I am still very picky too in terms of what I want: no spectators or participants, any couples looking for extras are a hard no.
I signed up for a 1 year subscription so I'm going to try it out. The things is, it is a very inclusive environment.
There are all kinds of women, not just conventionally attractive ones, so they are not going to get the young attractive guys either.
And I am specifically looking for a couple flavours of kink and people on there are very open.
I'll report back if I have any success.
Much like fetlife there are tons of chatbots who's sole purpose is to keep you interested and make sure you keep logging in.
No, not on it but was thinking about. Yes, I've overdone the hobby in the past 2 years and looking for more organic fun now...although I've never been a dating apps guy.
Organic fun? As in going on 15 dates and you still get no action?
Are you speaking from experience? Because I think it's safe to say dating women is the mother of all YMMV activities.
One of my friends has partaken for the last few years. He's a quiet artist type in h is 40s, and has had blazing sexual relationships with a couple of wonderful, attractive, interesting women. Good for him.
I've had 2 close ones so far. One woman liked me, we exchanged kinks over text, set a tentative date, then she ghosted me. The chat is still open but I haven't heard from her and I'm not chasing
Second one was last weekend. Had a nice woman respond to my ping looming for FWB. We were planning to meet for vibe check, but I messed up and went too quick and spooked her.
So for I'm 0 for 2 but at least I'm getting some interest. I'll get there eventually.
My goal is to get into a FWB situation so I can sometimes have relationship like sex and dates etc, and also keep seeing escorts at the same time.
I realized that I like the freedom and excitement this hobby provides, but sometimes want a bit more traditional dating stuff.
We'll see if I can actually do it and be happy, but I'll have fun trying.
Second one was last weekend. Had a nice woman respond to my ping looming for FWB. We were planning to meet for vibe check, but I messed up and went too quick and spooked her.
So for I'm 0 for 2 but at least I'm getting some interest. I'll get there eventually.
My goal is to get into a FWB situation so I can sometimes have relationship like sex and dates etc, and also keep seeing escorts at the same time.
I realized that I like the freedom and excitement this hobby provides, but sometimes want a bit more traditional dating stuff.
We'll see if I can actually do it and be happy, but I'll have fun trying.
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I just heard about this platform tonight.
I recently asked my wife what she thinks of non-monogamy, and she's not closed to the idea. So, for the first time in two decades, I might be hitting the dating scene. Fleed got recommended to me because of its inclusivity, and very neuro-spicy affirming space... that's really important to me these days. I hope I can give it a whirl. Not just for selfish reasons, I really feel like my wife would really enjoy exploring her sexuality more. Alas, we're just not sexually compatible with each other - and I really want her to get laid! I wouldn't mind getting laid too.
I recently asked my wife what she thinks of non-monogamy, and she's not closed to the idea. So, for the first time in two decades, I might be hitting the dating scene. Fleed got recommended to me because of its inclusivity, and very neuro-spicy affirming space... that's really important to me these days. I hope I can give it a whirl. Not just for selfish reasons, I really feel like my wife would really enjoy exploring her sexuality more. Alas, we're just not sexually compatible with each other - and I really want her to get laid! I wouldn't mind getting laid too.
Congrats man, hit the jackpot. Good timing for this thread. I got a date coming up this week with a woman I met on Feeld. Seems really cool and open.
My goal is to be able to keep seeing SPs but also have some companionship off the clock.
Hopefully it works out for both of us.
I would imagine that her success in getting laid by another person will vastly surpass your success.
Right???!!? Ha!
I hope so! We're still at the "I'm open to the idea" phase, which was derailed with "I'm still mad about that stupid thing you did 14 years ago (which we haven't spoken about a couple of years, and that you totally weren't prepared for me to bring up again at this time)".
The conversation hasn't really progressed beyond that point yet.
In fairness, it was stupid. And I am sorry. And I thought I made amends...
She really needs to get laid.
Damn! 14 years! Just when I start to think marriage wasn't so bad after all, the universe corrects.
Are you prepared and will you be okay with the numbers and the vast differences in action between her and you?
Once she starts, she cannot be un-fucked.
