i'm just curious. who do you think is more appealing to women? a fat guy with a sense of humor vs a goodlooking guy with no sense of humor?
It really depends on the woman...
If she is someone who has had her fair share of men who looked fabulous but had the wit, and charm of a sack of turnips... She may just surprise you.
If she is someone who is not looking to have more children, but is looking for someone whom she would like to spend time with in a long term situation... She may just surprise you.
If she wants to have random sex with limited strings... It may be an easy answer.
If she wants to have eye candy on her arm when she is clubbing... It may be an easy answer.
I absolutely love how there is the assumption that because of 1 trashy little whatever in an elevator who clearly saw something that she wanted to ride until it was broken in... That it applies to the rest of the world.
I know more then my fair share of men and women both who lean towards the "chubby chasing".
With all of that said though... I will say the original poster is correct in some respects. Being biased and commenting negatively upon someone who is over weight, or especially obese... is considered the last "acceptable" thing one can do. We're not "allowed" to make racist jokes, or sexist jokes, etc. etc. but darned if we can't make fun of someone who's not what we deem they should be. The interesting thing is... The "fat" people out number and clearly outweigh the "slim" people... And yet the "fat" people have been programmed to "accept" the nasty behavior and comments from the "slim" people.
Such a conundrum.
NOW... To paleofreak... Try the deodorant crystals... You can get them at the health food stores. Pheromones good... Bacteria that causes smell... Bad. One can work out like a mad fiend, sweat like a waterfall is coming from them but there is no smell when it is applied to damp skin post shower... You can even get a couple in different coloured packaging or whatever... one for underarms, 1 for groin/arse, one for feet. Work the system my dear... It's far sexier and kinder to those of us who have heightened olfactory receptors.