Fun you say, lmao!!! Let me tell you a story that will have you laughing so hard your stomach will hurt.
There was a man who used to hobby in KW after discovering the industry in Hamilton. He had a very bad habit of connecting with the women that he met. He would see one woman exclusively for long periods of time. Over the years he made the mistake of falling in love, yes more than once. Many terb members and SPs alike admonished him saying "this is not the place to look for love". He didn't agree, because he felt these women were people too. The must have needs and desires other than money and sex. Some of them must want to have someone love them with no prejudice as to what they do for a living. As time passed this man learned a great deal about himself. He learned that no matter how hard he tried, even after 20 years, he couldn't make himself love the woman he was with, so he left. After that he learned that it was impossible to make an SP believe that he had more love to give, than she could ever handle. It appears that SPs have become so jaded and have heard all the "lines", that they wouldn't know the truth if it was right in front of their face. So the man stopped hobbying and went looking for love. Offers of friendship to past SPs were spurned because they would continue to believe that there must be a hidden agenda. It was impossible that someone would want to be just a friend and want to help them.
So this man tried to move on, continuing his quest to find someone capable of accepting real love in a world of cynics. Months ago he started a dialogue on msn with a wonderful women in Montreal. Months went by with endless messages both during work hours and late into the night. Plans for the future and desires were shared. The tension of being apart was becoming unbearable. So plans were made for a visit. The best of hotels was booked, the drive was made. The room was great, four dozen scented candles burning, rose petals on the floor and even a massage table set up. The wine was chilled, the glasses set out and even the massage oils were warmed up.
And then the phone call came......her boyfriend had just called her at work and said he wasn't going out after all and would see her at home.
So my friend, hello from Montreal. Apparently if you are looking for love...it is not to be found in this industry or out of the industry.
True love only exists between a parent and a child.