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Which is most important in order in your opinion?

Should have been more clear.

Which of these traits is more important on a man who is just looking for a hook up?
 
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1. Face. It's pretty rare you'll find a girl with a very pretty face and a terrible body.
2. Body. Especially if we're talking a 1 night thing.
3. Personality. This would be closer to 1 in a long term relationship, though.
4. Height. Anywhere between 5ft and 5ft9 is good for me. Shorter than 5 is too weird
and any taller changes up the dynamic too much.
 

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Trade the body, for the beef, for the cash, for the hate!
 
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Wisdom says: "Somebody that loves you is better than somebody you love"
 

Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...
I’d go a pretty face and a great personality…. Pretty eyes and a nice smile trying to fuck your brains out wins every time.
 

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Which is most important in order in your opinion?

Should have been more clear.

Which of these traits is more important on a man who is just looking for a hook up?
Are'nt you asking what is the most attractive to women of those four traits? The replies all seem to be about what the guys like in the ladies...
 

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Personality - I've had enough hookups to last a lifetime or three, but even so, personality wins every single time.
Face - Doesn't matter if he can't engage my interest first, but a nice face means more than body type or height.
Body - I've banged and dated a range - to say the least. It doesn't matter. Skill and personality trump this by far.
Height - Also been with short dudes, tall dudes, and everything in between, made no difference.
 

Valcazar

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A little unclear if "just a bang" is hiring an SP or not.

Hiring an SP, Face/Body -> height -> personality.

Just a bang someone I meet? Personality ->->-> all the rest.

Personality brings you back (especially since so much of great repeated sex is about personality meshing).
But if I'm just paying for the fantasy, that often is going to be a physical look I'm paying for if it is just a one shot.
 

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Which is most important in order in your opinion?

Should have been more clear.

Which of these traits is more important on a man who is just looking for a hook up?
Personality - everything else is tied for last place.
Chico Marx was not tall or good looking with an average body, but he drew women like flies. He was a talented pianist with a fortunate penis...
 

xmontrealer

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For hookups, all that matters is looks - physical attractiveness. This is true for males and females.
First, I'm glad I'm not a bird, cuz in the bird world it's the male who has to have the fancy colorful plumage to "get lucky".

I don't have fancy colorful plumage. When I was younger I was a 6, maybe dressed up to an 8, and had little luck at picking up women for hook-ups. It took an hour or two of my charming personality and sense of humour on a fix-up or blind date for me to get lucky, usually by the third date, if it was gonna happen at all.

For a lot of guys, myself included, and especially when I was younger, the fundamental axiom was "Fussy guys don't get laid"!
 

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First, I'm glad I'm not a bird, cuz in the bird world it's the male who has to have the fancy colorful plumage to "get lucky".

I don't have fancy colorful plumage. When I was younger I was a 6, maybe dressed up to an 8, and had little luck at picking up women for hook-ups. It took an hour or two of my charming personality and sense of humour on a fix-up or blind date for me to get lucky, usually by the third date, if it was gonna happen at all.

For a lot of guys, myself included, and especially when I was younger, the fundamental axiom was "Fussy guys don't get laid"!
 
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Robert Mugabe

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For hookups, all that matters is looks - physical attractiveness. This is true for males and females.
I used to go to bars and get rejected or ignored. I thought. "should work on myself more. Especially personality. Cause I didn't think of myself as bad looking. used to hook up once in a blue moon. with 5's and upwards to a couple of 9's Actually a couple of 10's judging from the reaction of people I saw looking at them. . Had other problems. Education. Career. Interesting life. One moment stands out. Saw the tall blonde of my dreams. Went over and chatted to her. She was very polite and brushed me off by saying she had to go. And headed for a 6'4" good looking brute. I realized at 5' 7" I was a shrimp in a bar full of sharks. What was I thinking?
 

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I used to go to bars and get rejected or ignored. I thought. "should work on myself more. Especially personality. Cause I didn't think of myself as bad looking. used to hook up once in a blue moon. with 5's and upwards to a couple of 9's Actually a couple of 10's judging from the reaction of people I saw looking at them. . Had other problems. Education. Career. Interesting life. One moment stands out. Saw the tall blonde of my dreams. Went over and chatted to her. She was very polite and brushed me off by saying she had to go. And headed for a 6'4" good looking brute. I realized at 5' 7" I was a shrimp in a bar full of sharks. What was I thinking?
Robert, own that 5’7 brother. It ain’t a thing.
 
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surferboy

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Younger chicks want the face & body, women 30+ want personality over the rest.

Funny example on a golfing trip years back myself & another guy from our foursome went to the hotel bar every night & had a contest on how many numbers we could get

He’s at least 15 years older, average height, average looks but has as much charm as anyone I’ve ever met. I was in the best shape of my life, 6’4, full head of hair & on the cover of calendar at the gym I worked out at. Long story short his numbers were slightly better than mine. Albeit more 30+ than the demographic I was getting but none the less still some fine ladies.
 
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