Spiritual guidance, and touting their good works on Terb?What other ways are you referring to...?
Ever Been Burned by a SP or MPA?
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These stories are reminding me of a 1987 movie, "Fatal Attraction," which was a gross record breaking movie of that year world wide. The film centers around a married man who has a weekend affair with a woman who refuses to allow it to end, resulting in emotional blackmail, stalking, and an ensuing obsession on her part with a cliffhanger fatal ending of her after she nearly destroys he and his family including his children. Has anyone here ever seen it? It just goes to show you never know who you are dealing with. I had a stalker. I had to change my name and do other things many years ago.
Well me think in Marla's case and all escorts for that matter, its called working.@marla, Keep in mind though the vast majority of people in this hobby have neither the interest nor time to become stalkers. Were too busy posting on terb.
I assume and know it's the same for the majority of escorts even when there are strong confusing feelings involved.
So I guess in summary don't forget to think with your head, trust your instincts about people, and have a safe happy time hobbying.
Meh. Stereotyping and developing situational paradigms are natural survival instincts. We should still recognize the unique qualities of every individual, but there's a reason why high school guidance counsellors consider personality traits in vocational advice.
I really think that, like everything else, it is better not to generalize things. In my experience, there are SPs you can trust and some you cannot. My personal opinion is - it is always case by case. Unfortunately, sometimes we do can get burned by being too trusting.
The problem with the issue is that it's difficult to warn anyone else about the SP's you can't trust. There is a fairly recent case of a young well reviewed SP in the region that has a habit of asking to borrow money from her regulars and never repays but when one of her past regulars posted the info in terb, the post was deleted and the member banned. If specifics cannot be discussed here, I'm not sure anyone can be warned other than, it's every sucker for himself when it comes to that. Personally, I never give my personal info other than my first name. I also don't even mention my terb handle. Everything is done off terb.
To be clear, what I mean is that it's fine to generalize things upfront. Don't go in trusting. If, over time and from watching their actions, you develop a personal relationship and believe you can trust her, go for it.
But, as I and apparently many others here have experienced, even with a personal relationship, they can still bite. Hard.
Obviously, but certain businesses are generally populated by a higher percentage of trustworthy people. My doctor says she will do something, I believe her and it gets done. My drug dealer...not so much (it's been like 14 hours since he PROMISED he would get back to me, just saying).
Better to be pleasantly surprised by someone's character/reliability/honestly than constantly disappointed. Sure, try to be positive, but be aware
I was the receipant of the stalking threat. After realizing that I was being ripped and gathering the evidence to support the assertion that the monies loaned ( by contract ) were by way of grifting, I texted her to ask her for her solicitors name. The answer was I'm calling the police, you are a stalker, I have a son. etc etc. Well hold on there missy. You borrowed money from a guy that you thought may hurt your child..... wow good mother. You claim I followed you home, why bother when I can ask for you addy on Kijiji when you were selling shit. Yes I need to know where to serve the papers and thank you because now I also need to know what area of the city I have to avoid at all costs.
Talking with other people you realize that there is no F'in way in hell you are going to get your money ( she tells other girls about how she takes money from guys ) and even if you sue and win, what a judgment on her credit report.... that is so low, well you get the picture. The funny thing is she can't understand what the issue is, short her $20 on a session and all hell breaks loose.
Things can get ugly fast and before you know it, you find yourself on the wrong side of the law for doing someone a solid. If it was the same scenario but it was two males, stalking would not come into play as a way to avoid legal action.
I know... that was the reason for my last sentence - from personal experience. ;(
Let me tell you, there's also allot of female civies out there, that can rip you off as well.
Just like there are Johns, that can rip off the provider. I'm sure many ladies on this board would like to share those stories.
I met with a provider couple of weeks ago, that was in tears because the last client AKA A-H. who was there stole back his money without her realizing.
When he was gone the money was gone. If your plan is to have a relationship with an sp or any women for that matter do your homework.
I've know guys that have been married for twenty some years get ripped off by their wives before the official separation. It exists all over....
Just like there are Johns, that can rip off the provider. I'm sure many ladies on this board would like to share those stories.
I met with a provider couple of weeks ago, that was in tears because the last client AKA A-H. who was there stole back his money without her realizing.
When he was gone the money was gone. If your plan is to have a relationship with an sp or any women for that matter do your homework.
I've know guys that have been married for twenty some years get ripped off by their wives before the official separation. It exists all over....
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I generally agree with what you have said above. The problem is when clients have this mindset before starting the session and beleive that they can win over her or are gods gift to all women.Exactly. The experience is just a mirage. A fantasy of sorts.
Guys need to get past the foolish notion that she is the only one for them. The reality is ..... she is fulfilling a business transaction. Get you off and get you out.
She has done this business transaction with hundreds of men. Quite possibly with thousands of men. Get the picture.
And TAX FREE too .....
This is NOT like a scene from Pretty Woman with Julia Roberts....
The best approach is to see it as a fantasy as a business transaction create a safety net to have it end as soon as the hour is finished and you say your goodbyes.
The part that I disagree with in general from comments on here is seeing all the industry girls as purely jaded sex workes who see thousands of men, are in it JUST for the money, or have little ability to enjoy your company or have you make them feel honest and good if your chemistry connects. I know it is hard to beleive but there are girls who enjoy doing this and get something in return out of the experience, maybe a memory, maybe a moment or just a good fuck, but they do get something as well. Nobody just works for money even though it is high on many peoples motivation to do a job.
Every industry girl is different and IMO it is a foolosh mindset to generalize the women like this. We like boxes putting the 6 walls around everything we think or do or try to figure out as it brings us comfort.
My best sessions have been each time I noticed that the girl had a genuine smile after the session and enjoyed spending time. I can now be jaded and cynical and say ohh the are all faking it, they are all pros and do it for the money, they all see 1,000s of men and can't be genuine , but I know I would be taking the pussy way out and only doing this to try to protect my emotions and running from hurt or potential hurt. I say fuck no to this, if there is fire bring it on and let's dance to our fire dance. If you wanna play with fire bring it on as it is not my first time dealing with shady hoes that wanna fuck with me. I am getting too old to be worrying about this nonsense as I don't want it to ruin a potential mind blowing experience.
Really? I thought this was a review board meant to educate others in the hobby on who to avoid. I guess I just have to avoid being a regular of a young well reviewed SP then.
On the other hand, I don't get how someone making probably $200 an hour could be in need of borrowing money. Makes no sense unless it's a game just to get more.
I have been seeing this high-end sp in Montreal for 7 or 8 years. Once a month. almost like clockwork. As you guess by now we know which buttons to push for each other to provide the maximum pleasure. We also know real names and non-work phone numbers and e-mails. I am a widower with an adult daughter. She is divorced with an 11 year old kid.
Last fall I required surprise brain surgery on an emergency basis and was in a coma for a week, almost 'touch and go' there awhile. She begame worried when I missed my appointment and didn't call her. She phoned my cell and my daughter answered it. She introduced herself as a friend and my daughter filled her in on what had happened. She flew, on her dime, to TO to see me in the hospital. She never met my daughter in person but she got updates from her regularly when I was learning how to talk again.
I now fly her here when Porter is having those roundtrip seat sales. Do you think I even think about not trusting her? One other retired sp visited too. She sells real estate, and still likes to dress a little sexy. I am sure the nurses were wondering about these two because, having put in catheter in me themselves they knew "that" wasn't out of the ordinary.
Yes it's a bizarre profession/hobby but people are people, there are good ones and bad ones in most any walk of life. Be careful when you try to paint everybody with the same brush.
Last fall I required surprise brain surgery on an emergency basis and was in a coma for a week, almost 'touch and go' there awhile. She begame worried when I missed my appointment and didn't call her. She phoned my cell and my daughter answered it. She introduced herself as a friend and my daughter filled her in on what had happened. She flew, on her dime, to TO to see me in the hospital. She never met my daughter in person but she got updates from her regularly when I was learning how to talk again.
I now fly her here when Porter is having those roundtrip seat sales. Do you think I even think about not trusting her? One other retired sp visited too. She sells real estate, and still likes to dress a little sexy. I am sure the nurses were wondering about these two because, having put in catheter in me themselves they knew "that" wasn't out of the ordinary.
Yes it's a bizarre profession/hobby but people are people, there are good ones and bad ones in most any walk of life. Be careful when you try to paint everybody with the same brush.
I always assumed there was a cost associated with the term hobby.actually despite the fact that I am a sex worker, I am actually hobbying too. I don't date conventionally, you guys are all the sex I get... it's totally a hobby for me too
I never realized we could partake and get paid for it. You learn something
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