Ever Been Burned by a SP or MPA?
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Sorry to hear about that.
Sometimes it's good to remind them the penalty for extortion includes imprisonment but you may have more to lose then their incarceration.
I've had my own outing episodes and other kind of drama, but nothing as direct as you. (My boss wouldn't give a shit but he might ask for her number eventually).
Happened to me a while back. Idiot had the wrong guy. Got threats about exposing me to work and family. Full of shit and wasnt even me they were pissed at. Phone calls with the voice altering thing, like a kidnapper in the movies lol. Nice try
Word of caution, some of d'em bitches b crazy. If you aren't careful you could be investigated or charged with a harassment type charge. I was recently threatened with that shit but I knew beforehand that the possibility existed so calls/ texting would only pertain to relevant matters. Once someone says don't call it is your first and last warning. Of course my sp thought that it is only one way and she could call/ text whenever she felt like it.
It actually put her in a bad situation because after that there are very few avenues.
It actually put her in a bad situation because after that there are very few avenues.
I hate to admit it but, yeah, there are some nuts in the SP world. My ex frequented SPs and there was one he had become close to before we started dating, she had a rough home life and had gotten use to his support (money) and when he backed off while we were in our honeymoon phase she went nuts. Got insanely jealous and slandered me to hell, told him I was using him for his money (ha) all sorts of things, even months later he would show me messages from her asking if I was out of his life yet, etc. Wackadoodle. No, she did not know me, I was not SPing then, complete strangers. Generally I would say it is always better, as SP and client, to keep things somewhat professional. It does not ensure this wont happen but far less likely. Set boundaries.
Talk about being burned, I was almost robbed I think once by a member of a certain race. He came to my door and was all antsy and woudln't take off his shoes. He was dressed in an over bulky jacket on a hot summer day and asked me if someone else was there. I always dislike it when someone asks me if someone else is here because I wonder what ulterior motives they might have so I told him Yes I had a male roomate and then he bolted. I had just talked to another escort who had an unsuccessful robbery attempt on her by a man like him and somehow chased him out with a baseball bat even though he had a gun and he had asked her the same question- are you alone. She is a really gutsy woman though and I wonder if she should have fought him if he had a gun. She always carries a baseball bat . She did call the police to give a description and they weren't much help alhough they combed the area.
So a word to the wise. When you ask an escort "ate we alone?" please know it sends off alarm bells in her head and she will become edgy and might be suspicious of you throughout the session.
So a word to the wise. When you ask an escort "ate we alone?" please know it sends off alarm bells in her head and she will become edgy and might be suspicious of you throughout the session.
Ok, so now I'm into my SP for $8500 in loans, She needs a car, I tell her that I could help her out with a car 9K. She then stiffs me on a date, posts about her BF which she claims she doesn't have. So I go to her house to see her ( invited ) and it turns out that she lied about where she lives. So I don't give her the money and she starts with threats that I stalk her and she is calling the police, I mean pages of text messages. She also wants to sue me for the money I didn't lend her for the car that she is driving.
Things can get ugly in a hurry, so you need to be careful.
Things can get ugly in a hurry, so you need to be careful.
:Eek:you're giving Nobody and DB some competition as my favourite poster ....
If that is a challenge, Madam, I accept.
Hey some of my best friends are members of a certain race. Race may or may not come into play, saying "race" detracts from the point. There are scammers in all four corners of the earth.
This happens to me all the time. I usually just whip out my trusty flame-thrower right there and then, and burn everything right to the ground, then detonate a small thermo-nuclear device to ensure there is no evidence left that I was ever there, or even existed at all in the first place. Or anyone else for that matter. That usually learns em' that extortion don't pay, baby!
Incredible, some of you guys are in deep. You have to ask yourself how you got there. It takes two you know??
Gonna go out on a limb here.
Got there due to a predilection for sex with beautiful women, combined with the pleasure gained from having said same beautiful women treat you like you're special and tell you how awesome you are. Looked at like that, its hardly surprising that it happens.
It happens because guys let it happen.
No matter what anyone says about pay for play being "just business" or "just like any other job"...it ain't. It's an inherently personal and intimate activity. It's easy to let down your guard.
Curiously, I have never gotten close to someone from seeing her in session. All my personal relationships developed outside the room, usually with ladies I never saw professionally or had but not repeated.
