Escort etiquette

Iamyou

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Hey all. I am wondering if anyone has got freebies from escorts before? Like not a few minutes but like hours/sleepovers even. If yes, is it normal/common? What are the appropriate responses to it? Can PM me as well
 

LTO_3

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It's free only in your dreams. Would you give away your services for free that puts money in your pocket to pay bills and buy food? Kinda a dumb question that tells me you better find a different hobby if you expect freebies especially from someone who's been on this board since 2019.

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Iamyou

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Not asking for freebies. I'm just wondering what the most appropriate response to getting them would be. I am assuming the consensus would be to shut up and take the freebies but at the end of the day we are all paying for service and it feels weird to get it for free.. is there an expectation for it to evolve into something like a pimp situation? I have been around for a while so the few extra minutes to cleanup is always nice but I dont know what the response to longer time would be.
 
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Callmerey

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Not asking for freebies. I'm just wondering what the most appropriate response to getting them would be. I am assuming the consensus would be to shut up and take the freebies but at the end of the day we are all paying for service and it feels weird to get it for free.. is there an expectation for it to evolve into something like a pimp situation? I have been around for a while so the few extra minutes to cleanup is always nice but I dont know what the response to longer time would be.
What dr*gs are you taking?
 

Iamyou

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FUCK DUDE! I thought you would be worried about this evolving into some sort of relationship issue...THIS is your go to? Worried about being her pimp? :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

Just take it and make sure you throw in extra $ here and there.
I am a very pessimistic guy lol.

Just making sure I am not being fed for slaughter. Thanks for the reassurance!
 
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kherg007

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I had a regular where we'd go get a late brekkie/lunch afterward. She never charged for her time but I'd always shout her meal/drinks.
But that's rare.
 
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bpninja

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OP…can you elaborate a bit? Is this just some hypothetical question, or is this an actual situation you are facing…and if so, give us some more background?

hard to get to a consensus or best advice when it’s all just hypotheticals…
 

Iamyou

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OP…can you elaborate a bit? Is this just some hypothetical question, or is this an actual situation you are facing…and if so, give us some more background?

hard to get to a consensus or best advice when it’s all just hypotheticals…
I am intentionally trying to be a bit vague but it is not hypotheticals lol. I am just curious on if this has a bad ending to it.
For more context I can say its happened more than a handful of times and as @kherg007 mentioned I'd buy her food/drinks after without any charge for her time. I am assuming since its been a few times already I am good but I am just double checking here if anyone has encountered any bad experiences
 

predicted12

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I went to a massage pallor and the attendant basically fucked me for free because I only paid for a massage. I didn’t expect her to fuck me tbh. I thought she was just gonna suck my dick when she put the condom on.
 

Iamyou

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I went to a massage pallor and the attendant basically fucked me for free because I only paid for a massage. I didn’t expect her to fuck me tbh. I thought she was just gonna suck my dick when she put the condom on.
Feel like this thread has taken the wrong direction.. I was more curious about potential issues with freebies not whether people are getting them lol
 

Ohcanada905

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Hmm I also read this as it's something that's already happened and you're worried about it. I'd cut it off tbh. The girl knows how it goes, sounds like she's trying to get out of the game and sees you as a sucker. Or worse you're taken advantage of someone that doesn't know better. Let it be what it is. I had a girl I couldn't get it hard for offer me a freebie but I never went back. I don't want to feel like I'm taking advantage of someone doing sex work, seems scummy.
 

Meekfreaks

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I had a worker offer it for free in exchange we make content together which turns a profit, that’s it. Don’t be cheap.
 
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alekzandrios

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Not asking for freebies. I'm just wondering what the most appropriate response to getting them would be. I am assuming the consensus would be to shut up and take the freebies but at the end of the day we are all paying for service and it feels weird to get it for free.. is there an expectation for it to evolve into something like a pimp situation? I have been around for a while so the few extra minutes to cleanup is always nice but I dont know what the response to longer time would be.
... she probably just likes you you silly idiot. Why are you here asking us instead of being an adult and asking her yourself? No shes probably not expecting you to be her pimp, how would you even expect to be forced into being one anyway? No she probably doesnt have an ulterior motive and no she probably doesnt want to play you. Put your thinking cap on. Just because shes a SW doesnt mean shes not a person, and people catch feelings. Go fuck her again, buy her lunch, and have a discussion with her about it.
 

Iamyou

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... she probably just likes you you silly idiot. Why are you here asking us instead of being an adult and asking her yourself? No shes probably not expecting you to be her pimp, how would you even expect to be forced into being one anyway? No she probably doesnt have an ulterior motive and no she probably doesnt want to play you. Put your thinking cap on. Just because shes a SW doesnt mean shes not a person, and people catch feelings. Go fuck her again, buy her lunch, and have a discussion with her about it.
Maybe you've had all great experiences with SWs and that's good for you. I on the other hand have not always had the best experiences with SW and have been robbed a few times. I understand she's a person and she could catch feelings. This post was more of a curiosity on potential bad outcomes of this scenario. Maybe I was being too cautious but I'd rather ask dumb questions rather than find out I'm about to take a huge L. But thanks for your input!
 
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alekzandrios

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Maybe you've had all great experiences with SWs and that's good for you. I on the other hand have not always had the best experiences with SW and have been robbed a few times. I understand she's a person and she could catch feelings. This post was more of a curiosity on potential bad outcomes of this scenario. Maybe I was being too cautious but I'd rather ask dumb questions rather than find out I'm about to take a huge L. But thanks for your input!
Ive been robbed too, probably half of us have, or most of us and we dont like to admit it. Anyway bad outcomes of a woman hanging out with you and fucking you for free? Thats how I got married, albeit she wasn't a SW.

Im personally not handsome, charming, rich, or have a perfect enough cock for them to stop charging me so far, so you must have something going for you she likes. Though theres a whole heap you haven't really shared with us so its not easy to speculate.

For all we know you are a dumbass flashing a wad of cash in a BMW and always take her to your 6 bedroom house with a heated pool in the back and always take her out right after to spend 300 bucks on dinner, asking us why shes fucking you for free.
 
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Iamyou

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Ive been robbed too, probably half of us have, or most of us and we dont like to admit it. Anyway bad outcomes of a woman hanging out with you and fucking you for free? Thats how I got married, albeit she wasn't a SW.

Im personally not handsome, charming, rich, or have a perfect enough cock for them to stop charging me so far, so you must have something going for you she likes. Though theres a whole heap you haven't really shared with us so its not easy to speculate.

For all we know you are a dumbass flashing a wad of cash in a BMW and always take her to your 6 bedroom house with a heated pool in the back and always take her out right after to spend 300 bucks on dinner, asking us why shes fucking you for free.
Yeah so I'm in the same boat. I don't have any of those things going for me either. I've always done incall. Never risking an outcall unless its in a hotel. And the most I did was fucking IHOP so none of that fancy shit either. The only thing I actually paid for was 1.5hrs of her time. I have an average 6 inch dick so I'm not sure thats it either. She mentioned the sex was good but I am a pessimistic person and I feel like SWs say that to everyone lol. Again, I only asked on here to get a feel for how to navigate the situation and possible games being played. If I get to fuck for free I'm all for it lol. Beats having to pay for it but I'm not pretty enough for that lol
 
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