Emotions - 1 step further - getting duped

[Oogabooga]

(I can hear the blues playin')

Hey guys, ever fell for a chick in the trade? Ever been fed lines about how they really dig you - only to have to face that it's just lines thrown at you - like givin' a dog a bone?

This thread is where you can tell your tale. The stripper which professed feelings - only to see it was for "brand loyalty. The MP who says that 'someday, I'll give you more than I'm allowed", the SP who you end up liking a bit too much...

I have a tale of my own about a dancer, but before I tell it... are there any other dudes out there who know this tune?

 

[bjsk90]

Yeah, sure, used to know an SP back in the early 90's, Kathy. Real adventurous gal, that one. Had no fear of doing anything once (and often more than once). She was giving me a lot of services for free. I was pretty easy going about it for most of that time, I wasn't taking it seriously, we were just having fun. Then one day out of the blue she gave me BBFS, and I was hooked after that! I knew it, she knew it. It kept going like that for months, and things were normal. Then one day she got into trouble, and she needed to move. She asked me if I could loan her some money and that she'll pay me back with a session later on. I had no reason to doubt her, so I gave her the advance, and she took off with it. Never answered her phones, or called me back. And that was the end of that. It wasn't a lot of money, just the amount of a single session, but it was enough to piss you off that she'd just blow you off for such little amount of money.

 

[Oogabooga]

BBFS? You had sex with an escort w/o a rubber???

Well, that's one thing I'd never do. But that's an easy thing to say, of course.

My story is a stripper at the Den. Man I feel for her hard. It got to the point where other dancers were wanting to talk to me about it. These days, she's got another 'sucker' just like me last summer. He likely feels the same way I did (though he's a bit of a 'stay away from my girl' kind of bozo).

Anyone else have a stripper tale?

 

[bjsk90]

BBFS? You had sex with an escort w/o a rubber???

Well, that's one thing I'd never do. But that's an easy thing to say, of course.

Well, why do you think I got hooked on her? She said, "I gotta surprise for you", an then she sat on it. It was just about the only thing (even in those younger, naiver days) that could get me hooked on a girl. And since it happened back in the early 90's, and I'm still around to talk about it, I guess I lucked out of it, none the worse for the wear.

 

[Oogabooga]

Well good for you!

Too bad you got duped though. That sucks. Ever fell for a stripper (I got the stripper blues today - must be the rain)?

 

[bjsk90]

Well good for you!

Too bad you got duped though. That sucks. Ever fell for a stripper (I got the stripper blues today - must be the rain)?

I've certainly had my favourite strippers, but it never went outside the SC. I've fallen for SP's and MA's though.

 

[Oogabooga]

Really? Like who? I've yet to find an SP pretty enough, though Maya @ Lamora's is one MP who has crush potential!

 

[bbclown]

Really? Like who? I've yet to find an SP pretty enough, though Maya @ Lamora's is one MP who has crush potential!

Maya left the board and does not want us to talk about her.

 

[bjsk90]

Really? Like who? I've yet to find an SP pretty enough, though Maya @ Lamora's is one MP who has crush potential!

Well one of the SP's was that Kathy I was telling you about first. She's long gone, no idea where she is these days. After that there were a few others, some of whom I can't even remember their names anymore. You gotta realize, I've been around a long, long time, old as the hills. Many of those girls no longer are around anymore. And just like the hills I've been trampled under foot by a lot of people.

And no, not all of them were gorgeous goddesses of mythology. In fact, DDG need not apply, very little chance that I'd ever fall for a DDG, they tend to have an overly high opinion of themselves. I usually needed a mental connection with them. Way too many DDG's tend to be of the life philosophy that it doesn't matter what's in their head, as long as it's a pretty head.

 

[Danolo]

I fell for a MPA in the 60's

Back then, the late 60's, Toronto was booming with MP's all over Yonge Street. I was a young buck and wandered into one of these places somewhat under the influence.

I met a young woman who blew my mind. She kissed me, and cuddled with me and let me DATY, (unheard of, in those days!) and treated me with a loving approach that melted my foolish heart.

So, my next visit was as soon as I could scrape together some cash, and in fact, I didn't have the full amount, but went anyway.

As you can probably guess, I got the basic service and was rushed out the door.

Ah well.... I didn't learn my lesson. I continued to fall for a few MPA's over the years.

There's no doubt that some MPA's manipulate a man's feelings, and there's also some who are vulnerable to their own feelings, even though its with a client.

These days, my testosterone level is lower and there isn't quite that same frantic urge anymore, and frankly, its saving me money and keeping me from getting involved in in-appropriate situations with the women who work in this industry.

Now, I look for quality and a level of intensity.

For example, I met a MPA in Quebec City last summer.. a woman about 30, who spoke very little English and, combined with my fractured high-school French, we spoke very little. The session lasted about an hour and she really rang my bell. I hope to find her next time I'm out that way.

And when it was all over, I kissed her on the cheek, said "merci" and drove away a happy guy.

I think the lack of communication kept the experience on a strictly physical level.

Just my opinion...

 

[bjsk90]

Back then, the late 60's, Toronto was booming with MP's all over Yonge Street. I was a young buck and wandered into one of these places somewhat under the influence.

Was that a new type of service back then? What was there before that?

 

[Oogabooga]

Sometimes, though, when you're not even looking or considereing anything - BOOM. A woman will go out of her way to convince you that she's sincere. Sh'e'll tell you anything she think would convince you otherwise, and some (particularily the one who had me) can be very good actresses, even conjuring up tears!

 

[alexxxis]

i personally would never "dupe" anyone. I like to think I have a professional attitude. Now that being said, there has been a gentleman in the past who's company I may have enjoyed more than others, and I have invited him to return at no cost to him. I'm not telling this man I love him, or want to be with him, I made clear my sexual intentions. What I would never do is mislead someone just to get their money. Like i said, this guy no longer has to pay for my company but at the same time we do not have a "relationship" and we're both ok with an occasional romp. If this person were to ask me to stop escorting or "take it to the next level" i would as sweetly as possible let him know those aren't my plans. Too bad not everyone is on my wave lenght...honesty is a big thing. Watch out guys. Most times things that appear TGTBT...are.
(MOST times, not ALL)

 

[antlerman]

i personally would never "dupe" anyone. I like to think I have a professional attitude. Now that being said, there has been a gentleman in the past who's company I may have enjoyed more than others, and I have invited him to return at no cost to him. I'm not telling this man I love him, or want to be with him, I made clear my sexual intentions. What I would never do is mislead someone just to get their money. Like i said, this guy no longer has to pay for my company but at the same time we do not have a "relationship" and we're both ok with an occasional romp. If this person were to ask me to stop escorting or "take it to the next level" i would as sweetly as possible let him know those aren't my plans. Too bad not everyone is on my wave lenght...honesty is a big thing. Watch out guys. Most times things that appear TGTBT...are.
(MOST times, not ALL)

ok...ok...ok....I did not get any PM's....and no one bothered to ask.....but I have to admit......that I am not the person that Alexxxis is talking about.....

 

[Oogabooga]

Me neither - we haven't met - but one romp with her and she'll be BEGGING me to stay!

 

[antlerman]

AWAY..........hahahahahaah

 

[bjsk90]

Sometimes, though, when you're not even looking or considereing anything - BOOM. A woman will go out of her way to convince you that she's sincere. Sh'e'll tell you anything she think would convince you otherwise, and some (particularily the one who had me) can be very good actresses, even conjuring up tears!

The problem is, they may actually be feeling that way -- for that moment. Many people I've met, not just women, are kind of flaky that way. They have extreme emotions that are gone at another moment. So those tears that are conjured up may actually be their real emotions, but again, just for the moment.

 

[Oogabooga]

That's even more strange when you think about it, actually. Woah! She''s said to me "I'm not insincere, I'm not that good of an actress." Yet pulls the same thing over and over again.

I wonder... is this some kind of 'skin trade chick" survival method they use? (mps, sp's and strippers included). Use real feelings, then flush them away.

Now I kind of feel bad. I mean, if there WAS any sincereity in her, theres a chance that I actually DID hurt her feelings.

oops...

Then again... if you saw her, you'd know why I'd think it was too good to be true.

There was another dancer who tried to do this - but was way too flaky to pull it off. Cute kid, another drop-dead gorgeous one - but not the brightest bulb in the chandelier (she's a daytime reg at Barbarella's).

So... I guess the whole thing is left unanswered then - only she knows how she really feels - IF she feels anything.

 

[bjsk90]

That's even more strange when you think about it, actually. Woah! She''s said to me "I'm not insincere, I'm not that good of an actress." Yet pulls the same thing over and over again.

I wonder... is this some kind of 'skin trade chick" survival method they use? (mps, sp's and strippers included). Use real feelings, then flush them away.

Now I kind of feel bad. I mean, if there WAS any sincereity in her, theres a chance that I actually DID hurt her feelings.

oops...

I wouldn't say it's a "trade" thing. Many people are like this, with no concrete feelings for anything. Every feeling is a moving target. Unfortunately, it may also be true that this emotional changeability makes them extremely well-suited to do this type of job.

Yeah, you might've hurt her feeling, but then she probably would've forgotten all about it in a moment.

So... I guess the whole thing is left unanswered then - only she knows how she really feels - IF she feels anything.

Well, that's always the case, only person that knows their feelings is themselves. But then those people with flaky emotions wouldn't know their own feelings from moment to moment. It's best to not even worry about the feelings of flaky people. If they can't be bothered to figure their own feelings out, why should you bother?

 

[Oogabooga]

Wise words, my friend. Wise words.