Eager to see a girl, and then...

[rexscott]

You've been really horny.

You go online to see what the SP action is like and are intrigued by the MA's.

The girls' profiles on the spa web sites get you even more horny.

You read some reviews on TERB and get even more worked up.

You narrow down a girl you're very interested in and work yourself up into a lather at the thought of spending time with her.

And then... You've been so worked up, you decide to jerk off. And once you do, you're no longer horny, no longer interested in seeing a girl, and cancel any plans.

Has this happened to anyone else?

 

[arius2021]

You've been really horny.

You go online to see what the SP action is like and are intrigued by the MA's.

The girls' profiles on the spa web sites get you even more horny.

You read some reviews on TERB and get even more worked up.

You narrow down a girl you're very interested in and work yourself up into a lather at the thought of spending time with her.

And then... You've been so worked up, you decide to jerk off. And once you do, you're no longer horny, no longer interested in seeing a girl, and cancel any plans.

Has this happened to anyone else?

This is how you build your retirement funds, by saving some money

 

[B00blover]

I try to explain this to my wife. When men are horny we are completely different people. As soon as we bust a nut it's like a switch is flipped. More than once I have been extremely excited to fuck the girl I'm with, but once I'm done all I want is to get away lol.

It's such a weird phenomenon and we have no control over it. Similarly, once you bust a nut your brain starts to think of all the other things you could do with that money and the plans are cancelled. Sure, you could not relieve yourself, but then you may not last long enough haha. Rock and a hard place.

 

[tdoxent]

I try to explain this to my wife. When men are horny we are completely different people. As soon as we bust a nut it's like a switch is flipped. More than once I have been extremely excited to fuck the girl I'm with, but once I'm done all I want is to get away lol.

It's such a weird phenomenon and we have no control over it. Similarly, once you bust a nut your brain starts to think of all the other things you could do with that money and the plans are cancelled. Sure, you could not relieve yourself, but then you may not last long enough haha. Rock and a hard place.

The male penis wants to be ejaculated on average once every 3-4 days for your body to keep sperm rolling. Unlike a female, males are in a more needing to do it state regardless of whether u know it or not. Which is unfortunate because that’s why sex can sell.

 

[YOWGuy613]

Post nut clarity

 

[enricotheman]

I try to explain this to my wife. When men are horny we are completely different people. As soon as we bust a nut it's like a switch is flipped. More than once I have been extremely excited to fuck the girl I'm with, but once I'm done all I want is to get away lol.

It's such a weird phenomenon and we have no control over it. Similarly, once you bust a nut your brain starts to think of all the other things you could do with that money and the plans are cancelled. Sure, you could not relieve yourself, but then you may not last long enough haha. Rock and a hard place.

I try to explain this to my wife. When men are horny we are completely different people. As soon as we bust a nut it's like a switch is flipped. More than once I have been extremely excited to fuck the girl I'm with, but once I'm done all I want is to get away lol.

It's such a weird phenomenon and we have no control over it. Similarly, once you bust a nut your brain starts to think of all the other things you could do with that money and the plans are cancelled. Sure, you could not relieve yourself, but then you may not last long enough haha. Rock and a hard place.

its weird. once i bust i regret it and just want to get out the door

 

[B00blover]

its weird. once i bust i regret it and just want to get out the door

Yup, been there. Had many regretful drives home.

 

[Zegema Beach]

So this is what happens to me daily...I wake up at 5am or 6am horny as fuck and am ready to see a SP. Problem is that there are never any available at that time so I end up watching porn and jerking off then I have no desire the rest of the day to see an MA or SP. The lack of available SW at that time has brought me lots of frustration but has saved me hundreds of thousands of dollars.

 

[B00blover]

So this is what happens to me daily...I wake up at 5am or 6am horny as fuck and am ready to see a SP. Problem is that there are never any available at that time so I end up watching porn and jerking off then I have no desire the rest of the day to see an MA or SP. The lack of available SW at that time has brought me lots of frustration but has saved me hundreds of thousands of dollars.

I run into this problem at night time. I like to nut before bed but a lot of the typical providers are done by like 9 or so and the more seedy ones come out to play. I don't always feel like chancing it so I end up missing out a lot of the times.

For you, I would suggest finding a provider you want to see and asking if she can be available in the morning for you. May need to see her once or twice so she knows you're reliable and will wake up for you, but that's what I would do.

 

[Pinkpanther80]

You've been really horny.

You go online to see what the SP action is like and are intrigued by the MA's.

The girls' profiles on the spa web sites get you even more horny.

You read some reviews on TERB and get even more worked up.

You narrow down a girl you're very interested in and work yourself up into a lather at the thought of spending time with her.

And then... You've been so worked up, you decide to jerk off. And once you do, you're no longer horny, no longer interested in seeing a girl, and cancel any plans.

Has this happened to anyone else?

i don’t see sps anymore because I always jerk it before I even look and then looking is pointless! I’m done with the hobby because no matter who it’s with I always regret it when I’m finished and just tired of throwing away easy money to women.
just not worth it anymore

 

[Selfishslutxxx]

You've been really horny.

You go online to see what the SP action is like and are intrigued by the MA's.

The girls' profiles on the spa web sites get you even more horny.

You read some reviews on TERB and get even more worked up.

You narrow down a girl you're very interested in and work yourself up into a lather at the thought of spending time with her.

And then... You've been so worked up, you decide to jerk off. And once you do, you're no longer horny, no longer interested in seeing a girl, and cancel any plans.

Has this happened to anyone else?

And that's why many of us don't book last minute with first time customers or are reluctant to text more than the booking requires.

 

[rexscott]

I try to explain this to my wife. When men are horny we are completely different people. As soon as we bust a nut it's like a switch is flipped. More than once I have been extremely excited to fuck the girl I'm with, but once I'm done all I want is to get away lol.

This is perfectly explained by the saying, "Men don't pay a prostitute for sex. Men pay for a prostitute to go away after sex."

 

[rexscott]

Yup, been there. Had many regretful drives home.

You regret ejaculating with an SP? Why? Because afterward, it just didn't feel worth it, or live up to expectations? Perhaps some kind of "post-ejaculation malaise/depression" is at play.

 

[rexscott]

i don’t see sps anymore because I always jerk it before I even look and then looking is pointless! I’m done with the hobby because no matter who it’s with I always regret it when I’m finished and just tired of throwing away easy money to women.
just not worth it anymore

Sorry to hear of your overall disappointment with your experiences. I too often have such feelings after a visit. I think it depends on the state of your personal affairs and why you went there in the first place.

If you're lonely, don't have a girlfriend, and make a visit with an SP/MA out of this sense of desperation, then no, a visit will never satisfy you.

But if you can accept a visit for what it is and nothing more, I think it can be enjoyable and worthwhile. Despite the notion of "GFE," she's not your girlfriend. She can't soothe any heartache or real loneliness.

But she's a beautiful, young woman, perhaps even a type you really go for. Who if you saw out in the world youd think ""Geez, Id do anything to be with her!"

And YOU CAN. You can be with an absolute dream girl. A girl who's willing to share some incredible intimacies with you. Count your lucky stars and enjoy yourself.

Just take it for what it is. An hour where a girl is willing to let you fulfil a fantasy, even if there's nothing beneath the facade.

 

[B00blover]

You regret ejaculating with an SP? Why? Because afterward, it just didn't feel worth it, or live up to expectations? Perhaps some kind of "post-ejaculation malaise/depression" is at play.

Regretted staying instead of walking when I saw the place/provider. Not all nuts are good nuts.

 

[B00blover]

And that's why many of us don't book last minute with first time customers or are reluctant to text more than the booking requires.

Actually, this is why prebooking is a problem, no? If I'm horny and in the mood and come across your ad, reach out, and you're available now, I'm coming. If you tell me to wait a few hours, or a day, it's during that time that I might relieve myself and decide against coming.

Impulse buying is a real thing and being horny makes men very impulsive. Of course you're not capable of always being available for an impulse session, but they are valid. Personally, I only book same day and I will usually start reaching out in the afternoon for an evening date. If it can't be accommodated it doesn't happen and I try again tomorrow. Many times it is a matter of 1-2 hours from my initial text to me walking in your door. I don't want to prebook then simply not be in the mood for it, so I wait until I'm in the mood then find who is available. I know I'm not the only one.

 

[thedude35]

its weird. once i bust i regret it and just want to get out the door

Ha! Glad I'm not the only one! I don't have any real shame or anything, it's more about the money and the time I just spent. Between setting it all up (could take days) to driving there, to sitting in my car waiting. Then over in 20-60 minutes and my wallet's a lot lighter.

The build up and (usually) the event is worth it AT THE TIME lol. Then it's an hour of regret, I forget it and move on.

 

[asuran]

Impulse buying is a real thing

Impulse buying is when one would regret most afterwards cuz you're thinking with the little head instead of the big head, in this case.
Read too many "I got scammed" threads on here due to ppl going on impulse and not doing their diligence.

 

[thedude35]

Impulse buying is when one would regret most afterwards cuz you're thinking with the little head instead of the big head, in this case.
Read too many "I got scammed" threads on here due to ppl going on impulse and not doing their diligence.

For me, it's not about being scammed. It's about the experience rarely living up to what I envisioned. Often it's "good enough" but 9 times out of 10 I walk away thinking ehhhh... It's mostly me, not the provider, I know that. But I think a lot of guys are similar. It's one of those "seems like a great idea at the time and she seems nice" then $160 or whatever later and I'm thinking I can cum better by myself lol. There's a reason knowing your partner usually makes for better sex!

 

[B00blover]

Impulse buying is when one would regret most afterwards cuz you're thinking with the little head instead of the big head, in this case.
Read too many "I got scammed" threads on here due to ppl going on impulse and not doing their diligence.

Without a doubt. It's how the scammers capitalize but it's also a way that smart business women, and men, capitalize, too. It's not the seller's job to manage the buyer's buying habits imo.

It's the reason sites like Amazon institute one-click buying. Too many steps to complete a purchase provides the customer with more time to second guess their purchase and often times they will back out. One-click purchasing eliminates that. That's why a good rule of thumb is to wait for 48 hours before making a large purchase. If you still want it then it likely wasn't *just* due to impulse.