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papasmerf

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Men telling me to hush up and count the wine bottles became a hot button for me before I hit puberty.

Funny how men think what they care about is worth talking about but what we consider important is not.

I guess the is at least a little dysfunctional father in most men.

And a suppressed bitch in all women?
more delusional than the bitch personified.


but then again that is the character you chose for TERB
 

mrsCALoki

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more delusional than the bitch personified.


but then again that is the character you chose for TERB
Actually my nick implies I am a wife. LOL

yes I guess I can accept that you are delusional if that is what you want :)
 

kenpachi

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Apparently Closer needs attention and wants to drag this up. I just decided to move it to its own thread so uninterested people can ignore it.

I will start by apologizing to the board and the mods for foolishly launching an auto response to Closer's persistent posts aimed at me. I had no idea he would keep sending over a dozen times to it.

Since Closer seems driven to discover what my Father was like, I might as well answer :)

My Father was never a dad. He provided the sperm that created me, and tried to force me to be what he wanted. He was well read, superficially charming, and completely self centred. He loved to goad people in an attempt to prove he was superior. He was above average IQ, coupled with a below average emotional intelligence and did have an animal cunning at manipulation. He had a nodding relationship with truth. He had a very low opinion of women in general. He cheated on mom. I think he deluded himself into thinking she did not know, but she cried herself to sleep often. He was disliked by many people, yet he was driven to seek fake superficial approval. I eventually I ran away form home and went to live with my aunt.

You remind me a lot of him. It really is not a compliment though :).


For the record, yes I have father issues. YYes the reason my husband is old enough to be my father is at least partially because I have father issues. Yes I know he is partly a substitute father figure, but he is also a wonderful lover and will be a great dad for my kids. Yes I was raised by my Father as a substitute son and it had a huge impact on me.

My oh my, that was cathartic. :)


Now with any luck Closer can go annoy someone else.
Well caloki, they say the apple does not fall to far from the tree. What you described about your dad perfectly matches your personality from our previous discussions minus the IQ part, and well read. I can clearly see the "superficially charming, completely self centred, and He had a very low opinion of women in general". In your case, you would have low opinion of men.

Just like father and daughter "disliked by many people, yet he was driven to seek fake superficial approval". I know terb is a way to get attention from men, so why not come out of retirement, so many men can ride you and pretend to care about your story.
 

papasmerf

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Actually my nick implies I am a wife. LOL

yes I guess I can accept that you are delusional if that is what you want :)

my name indicates I am 700 years old and live in a mushroom

I would not believe that either.
 

mrsCALoki

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Well caloki, they say the apple does not fall to far from the tree. What you described about your dad perfectly matches your personality from our previous discussions minus the IQ part, and well read. I can clearly see the "superficially charming, completely self centred, and He had a very low opinion of women in general". In your case, you would have low opinion of men.

Just like father and daughter "disliked by many people, yet he was driven to seek fake superficial approval". I know terb is a way to get attention from men, so why not come out of retirement, so many men can ride you and pretend to care about your story.
Well you see hun, this has proven to be a place where I can stand up to men that annoy me and not have to worry about being hit. It is rather refreshing. Very cathartic. Opening my legs to men no one wants for a few bucks is just not something I plan on even contemplating as an option ever again.

Being able to be honest when dealing with jerks and not risking physical abuse is on the other hand priceless :)
 

mrsCALoki

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my name indicates I am 700 years old and live in a mushroom

I would not believe that either.
well not exactly, it would indicate you are a fantasy dreamed up to attract children. Smer exist, but have only existed for a few years and are just drawings and dolls and videos.


Oh my, I feel like I just told someone Santa Clause does not exist. :(
 

simon482

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Well you see hun, this has proven to be a place where I can stand up to men that annoy me and not have to worry about being hit.

Being able to be honest when dealing with jerks and not risking physical abuse is on the other hand priceless :)
i don't know about all that. after a few threads about it i think i am the only guy here that doesn't encourage beating women.
 

mrsCALoki

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i don't know about all that. after a few threads about it i think i am the only guy here that doesn't encourage beating women.
Well I must admit I think your crusty and pigheaded but I would trust you completely :)
 

papasmerf

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well not exactly, it would indicate you are a fantasy dreamed up to attract children. Smer exist, but have only existed for a few years and are just drawings and dolls and videos.


Oh my, I feel like I just told someone Santa Clause does not exist. :(
opinions vary
 

kenpachi

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Well you see hun, this has proven to be a place where I can stand up to men that annoy me and not have to worry about being hit. It is rather refreshing. Very cathartic. Opening my legs to men no one wants for a few bucks is just not something I plan on even contemplating as an option ever again.

Being able to be honest when dealing with jerks and not risking physical abuse is on the other hand priceless :)
This is where you are wrong again. It's all about respecting each other, not being a self centered annoying little brat. There are many SPs in here that are super inteligent and I must admit, I do fall for ladies with brains more so than their hot bodies. I don't think I would ever get along well with someone like you.
 

mrsCALoki

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This is where you are wrong again. It's all about respecting each other, not being a self centered annoying little brat. There are many SPs in here that are super inteligent and I must admit, I do fall for ladies with brains more so than their hot bodies. I don't think I would ever get along well with someone like you.
IQ is over rated :). I went to a Montessori school growing up, and they encouraged joining Mensa. So I was exposed to a lot of the top few percentile IQ types. Unless it is combined with an EQ in the same range and a good work ethic it is not a good indicator of anything. Oh except for sociopaths as a group they seem to have high IQs. I cannot imagine ever respecting a man who likes to humiliate and control women. Of course many women here are super intelligent. You do understand that as an active sex worker you have to pretend that all your clients are whatever they want you to pretend they are? Sex work is selling fantasies?

I do not understand your point :). Why would your getting along with me be of any interest to either of us. I am highly unlikely to ever even be in the same room with you? Our lives are on very different paths. But I have no need to bow to any man who thinks he is superior to me or any woman and who claims they can use us in any way they want. :) So what are we talking about?
 

ultistar

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Nah, if I were an MPA owner, I would have had the Mods ban C_LOSER's ass a long time ago.
Again, just more nonsensical drivel, from the sad, boring, unimaginative mind of Closer68.



And you are an MPA owner, who was outed months ago.
ulistar, HELP, I am so confused. Is closer saying that your being an MPA owner renders you incapable of being bored? of recognizing boring thing? Does owning an MPA make you hyper sensitive to boring people?

Or maybe you as an MPA owner are unable to recognize boring because you had to deal with something or another so often?

Is he implying you must be nice to him because he goes to MPAs although



Or is he just lashing out like an immature child trying to hurt you so you will go away? He does that a lot I notice.

I just cannot see what you owning an MPA has any impact on the truth of your statements.

Do you even own an MPA?

:)
 

kenpachi

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IQ is over rated :). I went to a Montessori school growing up, and they encouraged joining Mensa. So I was exposed to a lot of the top few percentile IQ types. Unless it is combined with an EQ in the same range and a good work ethic it is not a good indicator of anything. Oh except for sociopaths as a group they seem to have high IQs. I cannot imagine ever respecting a man who likes to humiliate and control women. Of course many women here are super intelligent. You do understand that as an active sex worker you have to pretend that all your clients are whatever they want you to pretend they are? Sex work is selling fantasies?

I do not understand your point :). Why would your getting along with me be of any interest to either of us. I am highly unlikely to ever even be in the same room with you? Our lives are on very different paths. But I have no need to bow to any man who thinks he is superior to me or any woman and who claims they can use us in any way they want. :) So what are we talking about?
Forget it.
 

mrsCALoki

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Nah, if I were an MPA owner, I would have had the Mods ban C_LOSER's ass a long time ago.
Again, just more nonsensical drivel, from the sad, boring, unimaginative mind of Closer68.
Oh am so embarrassed to have almost believed his words!
 

jamalb

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That is a perfect description of my father. By my choice I never saw the man after the age of 19. I was lucky that he did not really have a great impact on my life. My Mum and her two sisters were great women and theywere my influence growing up.
Shit grows from shit.

Now I get why you are what you are.

Lol... just messing with ya.

It really is over for ya.

JB
 
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