Durham’s Top 5

[SweetCandi_DR]

@SweetCandi_DR & @FringeFleafish You may not mind the vulgarity, which is fine. But others do. It's not about being sensitive, it's about the fact that over the last few years a lot of SPs view TERB in a negative light, sighting the vulgarity in the way men describe their experiences as the primary reason why.

It's also out of respect and consideration for Heidi. She may not appreciate being spoken about like that.

It's about cutting the snake off at the head. If we start to tolerate vulgar talk like that again, over time, it turns into men commenting things like "I love her, she's such a great little whore" or "all these ladies are just holes to fuck so what does it matter". Give them an inch, they take a mile.

Omg please I've seen many people comment actual disrespectful stuff and nobody has said a word. Not to mention us SW hear all kinds of shit and have been called every name in the book. Let's talk about real degrading stuff like being asked to do bbfs on a regular basis via text or call. Or men asking us to shit & piss on them, or asking us to save used condoms so they can eat others people cum. The list goes on on. Bottomline is what he said wasn't even close to vulgar imo and us ladies I'm sure have heard way worse. I felt it didn't warrant the backlash he got. If you're gonna keep that energy be sure to give it to everyone.

 

[RebelinBed]

Omg please I've seen many people comment actual disrespectful stuff and nobody has said a word. Not to mention us SW hear all kinds of shit and have been called every name in the book. Let's talk about being asked to do bbfs on a regular basis via text or call. Or men asking us to shit & piss on them, or asking us to save used condoms so they can eat others people cum. The list goes on on. Bottomline is what he said wasn't even close to vulgar imo and us ladies I'm sure have heard way worse. I felt itdidn't warrant the backlash he got. If you're gonna keep that energy be sure to give it to everyone.

I do give it to everyone, you've even liked those comments if mine lol

& You're right but that doesn't mean you have to tolerate that and nor should you.

 

[WanderingJohn]

Omg please I've seen many people comment actual disrespectful stuff and nobody has said a word. Not to mention us SW hear all kinds of shit and have been called every name in the book. Let's talk about real degrading stuff like being asked to do bbfs on a regular basis via text or call. Or men asking us to shit & piss on them, or asking us to save used condoms so they can eat others people cum. The list goes on on. Bottomline is what he said wasn't even close to vulgar imo and us ladies I'm sure have heard way worse. I felt it didn't warrant the backlash he got. If you're gonna keep that energy be sure to give it to everyone.

pardon!? lol.

 

[FringeFleafish]

Omg please I've seen many people comment actual disrespectful stuff and nobody has said a word. Not to mention us SW hear all kinds of shit and have been called every name in the book. Let's talk about real degrading stuff like being asked to do bbfs on a regular basis via text or call. Or men asking us to shit & piss on them, or asking us to save used condoms so they can eat others people cum. The list goes on on. Bottomline is what he said wasn't even close to vulgar imo and us ladies I'm sure have heard way worse. I felt it didn't warrant the backlash he got. If you're gonna keep that energy be sure to give it to everyone.

I totally get what ReblinBed is getting at. I try my best to be respectful while giving reviews and not say anything I wouldn’t say directly to an SP. I know some people are into the dirty talk and I’m sure you’ve heard it all, Candi. You were seriously asked to save used condoms???!!!! WTF??!

 

[SweetCandi_DR]

I totally get what ReblinBed is getting at. I try my best to be respectful while giving reviews and not say anything I wouldn’t say directly to an SP. I know some people are into the dirty talk and I’m sure you’ve heard it all, Candi. You were seriously asked to save used condoms???!!!! WTF??!

Hun the list goes on and on. I'm sure many of us could write a book.

 

[Jenesis]

@SweetCandi_DR & @FringeFleafish You may not mind the vulgarity, which is fine. But others do. It's not about being sensitive, it's about the fact that over the last few years a lot of SPs view TERB in a negative light, sighting the vulgarity in the way men describe their experiences as the primary reason why.

It's also out of respect and consideration for Heidi. She may not appreciate being spoken about like that.

It's about cutting the snake off at the head. If we start to tolerate vulgar talk like that again, over time, it turns into men commenting things like "I love her, she's such a great little whore" or "all these ladies are just holes to fuck so what does it matter". Give them an inch, they take a mile.

Considering "the hole to fuck line" is one I got just last week from a guy pissed off that he got declined, I see where you are coming from and you did speak up the same way then so you are being consistent. And I did appreciate your comments last week.

I get what Candi is saying too. Escorts deal with much more degrading shit than what he said. We have or should have a bit of a tougher skin.

I don’t think anyone is wrong here. It is two rights but on different sides of the coin.

 

[FringeFleafish]

Hun the list goes on and on. I'm sure many of us could write a book.

You’d figure as ancient as I am, I’ve heard it all but I’m sure you could shock and awe me with some of your stories!

 

[RebelinBed]

Considering "the hole to fuck line" is one I got just last week from a guy pissed off that he got declined, I see where you are coming from and you did speak up the same way then so you are being consistent. And I did appreciate your comments last week.

I get what Candi is saying too. Escorts deal with much more degrading shit than what he said. We have or should have a bit of a tougher skin.

I don’t think anyone is wrong here. It is two rights but on different sides of the coin.

I agree with you. What gets said privately either in person or via messaging is one thing. What gets said on a public forum is another. That's all I'm getting at.

Obviously it doesn't need to be squeaky clean, and it quite literally can't be given the nature, but that doesn't mean things need to be said with vulgarity.

 

[FringeFleafish]

Considering "the hole to fuck line" is one I got just last week from a guy pissed off that he got declined, I see where you are coming from and you did speak up the same way then so you are being consistent. And I did appreciate your comments last week.

I get what Candi is saying too. Escorts deal with much more degrading shit than what he said. We have or should have a bit of a tougher skin.

I don’t think anyone is wrong here. It is two rights but on different sides of the coin.

Maybe I’m just old school but I could never speak to any woman in that manner. Maybe it’s some fantasy fulfilled by some people. But not for me. If both parties are in agreement I guess it is a “thing”. It’s not even a fantasy of mine. I can think of way better things to fantasize about

 

[SweetCandi_DR]

Maybe I’m just old school but I could never speak to any woman in that manner. Maybe it’s some fantasy fulfilled by some people. But not for me. If both parties are in agreement I guess it is a “thing”. It’s not even a fantasy of mine. I can think of way better things to fantasize about

I literally will not accomodate fetishes because things I've heard is beyond me. I used to think I was a freak but my god the things some people are into has me thinking I'm actually square

 

[ashlee.]

pardon!? lol.

this happens.

 

[taker2ez]

the invention of the internet has given all the freaks a place to meet

 

[Jenesis]

I literally will not accomodate fetishes because things I've heard is beyond me. I used to think I was a freak but my god the things some people are into has me thinking I'm actual square

Total square!!!!!! Me too.

 

[FringeFleafish]

I literally will not accomodate fetishes because things I've heard is beyond me. I used to think I was a freak but my god the things some people are into has me thinking I'm actual square

My sentiments, exactly!

 

[FringeFleafish]

As far as I’m concerned, Durham region has the most spectacular women this hobby has to offer! I’ve been fortunate over the years to have met with Jenesis, Sweet Candi, Ashlee, Monica and Amber. I’ve probably missed one or two. Thank you ladies for making an old dog like me feel wonderful! Your talent and dedication to your craft is much appreciated!

 

[Machinegunwilly]

The condoms full of man juice is a thing. I know for a fact, an SP whom I will not name has actually saved and sold these. I was baffled and really unsure about it. Is there a passive income to be made here? Is this crossing some kind of boundary? These were my thoughts at the time.

 

[SweetCandi_DR]

The condoms full of man juice is a thing. I know for a fact, an SP whom I will not name has actually saved and sold these. I was baffled and really unsure about it. Is there a passive income to be made here? Is this crossing some kind of boundary? These were my thoughts at the time.

Lol I personally couldn't do it. There's plenty of things some will do without having boundaries. With that being said, to each their own.

 

[RebelinBed]

The sexual depravity of people never ceases to amaze in the worst ways possible unfortunately.

 

[WanderingJohn]

Anyways, back to the top 5’s….

Mine won’t be 5 because I don’t have 5 yet but:

1) Ashlee
2) Julia-Mae
3) Felica (was doing duos with Gianna)
4) Kaydence

guess I need to find another to round out 5

Time to update the list:

1) Ashlee
2) Tana
3) Julia-Mae
4) Heidi Vixen
5) Autumn Saunders

 

[FringeFleafish]

The condoms full of man juice is a thing. I know for a fact, an SP whom I will not name has actually saved and sold these. I was baffled and really unsure about it. Is there a passive income to be made here? Is this crossing some kind of boundary? These were my thoughts at the time.

I thought I was a sick individual watching German Goo Girls porn videos but the condom thing has that beat by miles!