Duo Etiquette

[shoeguy]

It's been a while since I've posted last, but I have a quick question for everyone!

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I've been seeing one girl fairly regularly for the past 3-4 years. She's a lovely person! I recently had a duo with her and her friend, while I see my self continuing my visits with the original girl, I would also like to see her duo partner solo as well.

Is there an unmentioned duo etiquette that I should be following? I ask because I don't want to hurt anyones feelings!

Thanks as always!

 

[Dougal Short]

LOL... tread carefully. I had a favorite MPA and I made the mistake of suggesting a duo one time with her. She went a little postal on me.... Apparently I was only hers... Ugh.

We have patched things up, but mostly I had to take my business to another spa in spite of my wanting to see other girls at the other one. It isn't worth her jealous rages...

If you like the first lady, it might be worth broaching the subject with her in an around-about way, just to get her reaction. Odds are she'll be totally fine with it, but she may go nuts too. We have to remember that some of these ladies get fond of certain customers (as we get fond of them) and they might like to "think" that you are exclusive to them.

On the other hand, if the second lady can keep it quiet that you are seeing her, that could work too, but since you described them as "friends" I don't think I would count on that working!

Good luck, and keep us posted....

 

[shoeguy]

LOL... tread carefully. I had a favorite MPA and I made the mistake of suggesting a duo one time with her. She went a little postal on me.... Apparently I was only hers... Ugh.

We have patched things up, but mostly I had to take my business to another spa in spite of my wanting to see other girls at the other one. It isn't worth her jealous rages...

If you like the first lady, it might be worth broaching the subject with her in an around-about way, just to get her reaction. Odds are she'll be totally fine with it, but she may go nuts too. We have to remember that some of these ladies get fond of certain customers (as we get fond of them) and they might like to "think" that you are exclusive to them.

On the other hand, if the second lady can keep it quiet that you are seeing her, that could work too, but since you described them as "friends" I don't think I would count on that working!

Good luck, and keep us posted....

Yes, I've been doing this for 10 years, and this has never happened. Till now.

 

[shack]

while I see my self continuing my visits with the original girl, I would also like to see her duo partner solo as well.

Is there an unmentioned duo etiquette that I should be following? I ask because I don't want to hurt anyones feelings!

I had similar scenarios a number of times in the past. What I usually did was ask for the 2nd girl's number discreetly before she left and slipped her mine. I never had a problem. One girl even became my GF for 4 years and the 1st girl knew.

At this point, however, unless you book another 3some you don't have that opportunity and have to go through girl #1.

 

[shoeguy]

I had similar scenarios a number of times in the past. What I usually did was ask for the 2nd girl's number discreetly before she left and slipped her mine. I never had a problem. One girl even became my GF for 4 years and the 1st girl knew.

At this point, however, unless you book another 3some you don't have that opportunity and have to go through girl #1.

Thanks for the reply!

But here's where I'm lucky... both girls numbers were on the same ad. Mind you I did do some googling after the fact/act.

But what you're saying is that it's okay I also see girl#2.

 

[DB123]

Thanks for the reply!

But here's where I'm lucky... both girls numbers were on the same ad. Mind you I did do some googling after the fact/act.

But what you're saying is that it's okay I also see girl#2.

Yes. Absolutely no reason why you can't see either or both

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

I personally love having a sweetie experience one of my duo partners. I think most women would consider it a foregone conclusion that you would see her friend if you had a pleasurable experience with both together.

If you want to ensure nobody's feelings get hurt, make sure you book girl #1 solo shortly after you see girl #2 solo.

 

[shoeguy]

I personally love having a sweetie experience one of my duo partners. I think most women would consider it a foregone conclusion that you would see her friend if you had a pleasurable experience with both together.

If you want to ensure nobody's feelings get hurt, make sure you book girl #1 solo shortly after you see girl #2 solo.

That is great advice!

 

[Butler1000]

LOL... tread carefully. I had a favorite MPA and I made the mistake of suggesting a duo one time with her. She went a little postal on me.... Apparently I was only hers... Ugh.

We have patched things up, but mostly I had to take my business to another spa in spite of my wanting to see other girls at the other one. It isn't worth her jealous rages...

If you like the first lady, it might be worth broaching the subject with her in an around-about way, just to get her reaction. Odds are she'll be totally fine with it, but she may go nuts too. We have to remember that some of these ladies get fond of certain customers (as we get fond of them) and they might like to "think" that you are exclusive to them.

On the other hand, if the second lady can keep it quiet that you are seeing her, that could work too, but since you described them as "friends" I don't think I would count on that working!

Good luck, and keep us posted....

Time to get rid of this one. There is no ownership in this game. Just make an appt with another girl you are interested in. What is she going to do, burst in in a jealous rage?

She like some strippers I knew who tried this. Whenever it occurred I would make sure to get another girl.

With competition you get respect.

 

[IM469]

Yes. Absolutely no reason why you can't see either or both

You are paying for the service not dating them is that correct ? I am really confused why this would be a problem. You can tell her that you are looking at new options or whatever but keep in mind that if the original ever gets settled down - you are out anyways.

Remember that if you mean anything other than a customer - you would not be paying for your time with her.

 

[shoeguy]

You are paying for the service not dating them is that correct ? I am really confused why this would be a problem. You can tell her that you are looking at new options or whatever but keep in mind that if the original ever gets settled down - you are out anyways.

Remember that if you mean anything other than a customer - you would not be paying for your time with her.

I totally get it. But you have to realize that after a few years you become familiarized. And while I'm not stupid enough to think she has feelings for me, we're all human with feelings that do get hurt. And I'd like to avoid that.

 

[harryass]

it ur money and u can spend it on which sp you like more. If it is sp2, than sp 1 better try harder to win u back. Some reg. sps over time tend to take the client's return biz for granted and giving less service maybe on purpose.

 

[roger20]

I totally get it. But you have to realize that after a few years you become familiarized. And while I'm not stupid enough to think she has feelings for me, we're all human with feelings that do get hurt. And I'd like to avoid that.

Avoid that why?? Think she's creating posts on boards when she's seeing other guys? Why do you think you need to walk on eggshells? Her feelings are fine while she's depositing your and other guys' money into her account so I'd wager you don't worry about it. Unless you want to create a post like some of these other guys who fall for SPs and wonder what to do now?! Guarantee one of those posts are coming from someone now that Christmas season is here lol!

 

[zefroggy]

Most SP are friends with each other. Actually, I often ask ladies I like who they would recommend since they know my tastes. Sometimes we all meet, sometimes I only see one. It works the same way for references where a SP you've seen regularly will vouch for you.

Assuming girl #1 is keeping your relationship at the hobby level, there is nothing stopping you to see her friend.

And yes, SP talk about us to each other. Sorry if I'm bursting any bubbles.

 

[Indiana]

The roommate swap.
Be careful. In the Middle Ages you could have got locked up for just thinking about it.