Dumped by a sp?

[Nadja S]

Thank you ikea123.. I merely speak the truth

 

[shogun89]

I've had to ditch many a stripper / MPA for becoming obsessive over me, and basically liking me more than I like them. It screws up the whole dynamics of this hobby when that happens.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Excellent analogy DB and very true. I does go both ways.

Ditto. Sometimes one gets the feeling that an AE is taking advantage of someone's generosity and kindness.

 

[MissCroft]

I have been told by many SP's of guys who constantly harass them about going out "off the clock", wanting to start an exclusive relationship, etc.... Woman, it seems, have the ability to sense things about men that sets off warning bells, no matter how subtle they are. For whatever reason, the SP the OP was seeing sensed something off, rightly or wrongly, and decided to end the client relationship.

It is occasionally a problem. And then we are sometimes made to feel like cold-hearted bitches. If a client is unable to separate the fantasy from the reality, then he maybe should not be hobbying at all.

Not saying that relationships don't or can't develop but the requests for 'off the clock' meetings are really getting out of hand.

I once had a guy cry when I ended our escort/client relationship. I felt bad but that was a little too crazy and I feel ending it early was the right decision.

 

[Mr Watts]

I somewhat had a similar situation with an SP and until today, I never spoked about it. Just to make it brief it got to a point where she felt it got too personnal. (on both ends) Difficult to admit, but after some time I could see she was right. It really got me to respect her on a different level as she was able to see through it and I didn't. Sometimes you think a fantasy is only getting better and better but I should have known better. Unfortunately our last conversation was short and mostly negative, unlike anything we had experienced. I wish we had sat down to see through it but things are just never perfect.

If I may give an advice, make sure you both set clear boundaries as soon as you see potential. Don't let anything within that grey area as it will hunt you back.