Dumped by a sp?

Yes that is why he posted the thread after sending multiple texts and an e-mail. Toronto's Finest hit the nail on the head. The girl correctly saw trouble ahead with a subtle boyfriend behaviour and the frantic texts & e-mail confirmed her suspicions. To pay for a boyfriend experience is nice but if the client starts to give the impression that he is emotionally treating it as real - it can become very difficult for the SP.

Yeah three texts over a week after seeing her thrice in three months... frantic!
 
I think both of you felt something a little bit more than a business relationship going on here. It doesn't have to be attachment/love but some kinda comfortableness or friendship has been developed. And in this business for the girls and for experienced hobbist it's an (red) alert in their mind. Quite obviously this is at least a time someone needs to cool this off and get on with business (and life). We all gone through that, cause we're only human.

Only thing we can do is to give it time and be patient like sase said above. In this business it can be a bit more than the relationship with your mechanics but experience tells me patience and perspective pays off, big time!
 
Yeah three texts over a week after seeing her thrice in three months... frantic!

Txt her once. If she doesn't respond. Move on. That's the best advise I can give you.
 
Like I said, I moved on and saw someone else, it's all good. I was more wondering about this type of flakiness and why it happens.

Thats good! Theres no sure answer to that, and some are only speculating as to why.
 
You say that as though I'm trying to "win her back" or something, that's not the case.

Ahhh but the title of your thread is 'DUMPED by an sp' (just kidding).

In theory, you can't be dumped but hey, I've been dumped so to speak, and when it's a repeat or a regular, that can sting a little but it's okay as long as it doesn't happen often (rare for me if I don't say so myself lol).
 
If ya start getting "boyfriend" clingy, well, that probably creeped her out. OR, maybe she's the moody crazy type?

I cancelled on an SP 24hrs in advance due to last minute work crap. She said I screwed up her whole day and out of principle, she can't ever see me. I got a good chuckle out of that. Lots more lovely ladies out there wiling to take my money.
 
maybe she fell in love with you and is trying to deal with the overwhelming emotions by keeping her distance from you. she's probably so so confused right now.
OH yeah !!!!
 
If ya start getting "boyfriend" clingy, well, that probably creeped her out. OR, maybe she's the moody crazy type?

I cancelled on an SP 24hrs in advance due to last minute work crap. She said I screwed up her whole day and out of principle, she can't ever see me. I got a good chuckle out of that. Lots more lovely ladies out there wiling to take my money.

I once called an agency to book and got a call back saying she girl wouldn't see me, because it was too emotional. I think i'd seen her 4 times and hadn't booked with her in like 6 months.

No accounting for crazy and you never know what's going through someone else's head.
 
I once called an agency to book and got a call back saying she girl wouldn't see me, because it was too emotional. I think i'd seen her 4 times and hadn't booked with her in like 6 months.

No accounting for crazy and you never know what's going through someone else's head.

Too emotional? for a stranger? That sounds like bullshit, dude. But im wondering why she saw u four times then...