Dry orgasms- Anyone get them

ragnar0829

The guy who knew that guy that did that thing
Jul 17, 2024
76
102
33
As I get older i noticed less and less semen during orgasm, now I still get the full sensation but almost nothing comes out, if I wait a minute or two it all leaks out on its own, still not a lot but anyone else experience this, maybe got it fixed, if possible
 
  • Wow
Reactions: OntGuy2010
Non-ejaculative orgasms are totally normal in men, though they're a little more rare, in my experience. I'm more familiar with g-spot or prostate orgasms, which ironically are non-ejaculative in men and very ejaculative for women!

I've also noticed that sometimes age or certain medications can reduce the volume of semen expelled, but as long as you're having fun and staying hydrated, I don't think it's anything to worry about. On the plus side, sex with you creates a bit less mess!
 
If you masturbate a lot or ejaculate a lot, you may produce less and less. Abstain for a few weeks and you should be able to.
Also, there is a condition called retrograde ejaculation that sends semen back into the bladder. There is treatment for it.
But this is not a health issue of any kind, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Sonic Temple
I do find that the amount im my ejaculation is less compared to when I was younger. I think its due to my diet getting worse as I age and im not hitting the gym as much and just overall age. The enjoyment is still there and if I abstain a couple days my load is a bit bigger but if I do that I dont last very long.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Sonic Temple
All great advice and would also like to add a regular regiment of cardio and weight training to the diet where you place emphasis on core and lower abdominal/pelvic floor (kegal) stretching/exercises as well.
 
  • Like
Reactions: superman12
worth separating the two things you described almost nothing coming out is one situation and it leaking out a minute or two later is another retrograde ejaculation was mentioned above and that's the one with actual treatment so it's worth knowing which one you're dealing with
 
  • Like
Reactions: Darts.
I
As I get older i noticed less and less semen during orgasm, now I still get the full sensation but almost nothing comes out, if I wait a minute or two it all leaks out on its own, still not a lot but anyone else experience this, maybe got it fixed, if possible
Those of us with vasectomies may also notice a reduction in volume even if all the other recommendations in this thread are followed…
 
  • Like
Reactions: Eli_H2da
As I get older i noticed less and less semen during orgasm, now I still get the full sensation but almost nothing comes out, if I wait a minute or two it all leaks out on its own, still not a lot but anyone else experience this, maybe got it fixed, if possible
Yes but only bc I've conditioned my body to do it so I don't fully orgasm. I'm usually in for 8-12 80% orgasms per session if I don't cum the first 2 or 3 times it starts up. Once those first few are avoided I'll have dry orgasms for the rest of the time and when I do come at the end it's sometimes really hard to get out but then I'll bust absolute ropes. Helps me stay hard and in the pocket with them if we're having a good time since my refractory period is pretty long.
 
I've started experimenting with prostate play, I have yet to experience any results but I've heard that a lot of the time, p-spot orgasms are dry.
 
As I get older i noticed less and less semen during orgasm, now I still get the full sensation but almost nothing comes out, if I wait a minute or two it all leaks out on its own, still not a lot but anyone else experience this, maybe got it fixed, if possible

Health conditions can also contribute to this like Diabeetus, prostate irregularities, heart conditions. Hormonal changes, etc. So on top of what others have said it's a good idea to just get overall health checked.

I've started experimenting with prostate play, I have yet to experience any results but I've heard that a lot of the time, p-spot orgasms are dry.

I got a toy that hits both recently and while it definitely intensifies normal play, but I have not been able to JUST use the toy, though I don't know if that's because my button is not perticularly sensitive, or because of some of the health conditions outlined above (Beetus and Congestive heart failure in my case) or if it's because my prostate has shrunk from hormone treatment
 
  • Like
Reactions: philonius
I've started experimenting with prostate play, I have yet to experience any results but I've heard that a lot of the time, p-spot orgasms are dry.
We could start a whole nother thread about prostate orgasms but they will get dry and eventually you’ll be able to come over and over when you get it right but mostly you’ll actually make yourself come fucking buckets when you first hit it correctly.

It def takes practice and for me it took a bunch of tries before I was relaxed and calm enough for it to go off. Now I can set it off with just focused breathing.

Completely unlocks a whole suite of different ways to orgasm tho
 
  • Love
Reactions: SlitherBeth
I got a toy that hits both recently and while it definitely intensifies normal play, but I have not been able to JUST use the toy, though I don't know if that's because my button is not perticularly sensitive, or because of some of the health conditions outlined above (Beetus and Congestive heart failure in my case) or if it's because my prostate has shrunk from hormone treatment
It may be that. From what I read it was more about doing less. I can come from something that thrusts or vibrates now but starting out, a nicely curled stationary toy and a quiet room were the triggers that I eventually learned. Less like jerking off where you're trying to stimulate it constantly and more of letting the weight of it put even pressure on it and relaxing. The pressure builds if you're still and calm enough to let it roll over you.
 
It may be that. From what I read it was more about doing less. I can come from something that thrusts or vibrates now but starting out, a nicely curled stationary toy and a quiet room were the triggers that I eventually learned. Less like jerking off where you're trying to stimulate it constantly and more of letting the weight of it put even pressure on it and relaxing. The pressure builds if you're still and calm enough to let it roll over you.

Yeah the toy I got is a "static" one, it's a lovense edge 2, haven't used it very often however cause libido hasn't really been there. Though I have to admit I am more looking forward to how the hormone treatment is gonna change orgasms especially if I can get my doc to finally let me have Prog cause that apparently kicks the sex drive back up. :p
 
  • Like
Reactions: philonius
We could start a whole nother thread about prostate orgasms but they will get dry and eventually you’ll be able to come over and over when you get it right but mostly you’ll actually make yourself come fucking buckets when you first hit it correctly.

It def takes practice and for me it took a bunch of tries before I was relaxed and calm enough for it to go off. Now I can set it off with just focused breathing.

Completely unlocks a whole suite of different ways to orgasm tho

I own three massagers, an Aneros a Lelo Hugo and one that's a combination massager and cock ring/strap.

I've tried a couple different techniques, one I call a "crude sensory deprivation chamber" where I soak in a bath with the lights off and try to concentrate on the sound of the fan. I also use my sleep mask along with nature sounds or white noise in my earbuds.

I've had the best results using the sleep mask and nature sounds. During one session I got really hard. I've also noticed that things are usually ... sensitive down there after a session. My next session, I'm going to do the sleep mark with an erotic ASMR.
 
I own three massagers, an Aneros a Lelo Hugo and one that's a combination massager and cock ring/strap.

I've tried a couple different techniques, one I call a "crude sensory deprivation chamber" where I soak in a bath with the lights off and try to concentrate on the sound of the fan. I also use my sleep mask along with nature sounds or white noise in my earbuds.

I've had the best results using the sleep mask and nature sounds. During one session I got really hard. I've also noticed that things are usually ... sensitive down there after a session. My next session, I'm going to do the sleep mark with an erotic ASMR.
Yeah, the Aneros Progasm is the one I use the most bc it sits just right and, yeah, it sometimes makes me so hard while being so calm that it sets my nerve endings on fire. So many different ways to come.
 
  • Love
Reactions: SlitherBeth
Drugs that help empty the bladder like flomax will produce dry snaps.
 
  • Like
Reactions: paulhunter23
As I get older i noticed less and less semen during orgasm, now I still get the full sensation but almost nothing comes out, if I wait a minute or two it all leaks out on its own, still not a lot but anyone else experience this, maybe got it fixed, if possible

Some of the Meds for enlarged prostate apparently do that, if you're on one, that can be the reason.
 
  • Like
Reactions: kherg007
As I get older i noticed less and less semen during orgasm, now I still get the full sensation but almost nothing comes out, if I wait a minute or two it all leaks out on its own, still not a lot but anyone else experience this, maybe got it fixed, if possible
Yeah, I had something similar a while back. Still got the full sensation but almost nothing came out. For me it was mostly diet and not going as often. Prostate play later on changed the feeling quite a bit too. Still worth getting it checked if it keeps happening.