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Ironhead

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This argument is still raging ? Wow.

I think the money in envelope is just asking for trouble, trouble that the client almost never wins.
Either hand the cash over or have the SP open the envelope and count it in front of you.
I am NOT saying that every time there is a disagreement on a perceived short change it is a scheming SP.
Just that for the clients piece of mind, the money should be counted in the presence of both the client and the SP.
As sure as the client is that he counted correctly, the possibility remains that he could have made a mistake.
I just see that handing over the correct amount of cash or opening the envelope would make it so much easier for both parties.
 
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kenpachi

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Alona M said:
I once had a guy give me the donation in a greeting card... It made me more inclined to open it in front of him so I could read the message and smile and say thank you :) Technically it also made it less awkward to count right in front of him lol
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Alona, if I put the donation money in a coffee cup, would you be offended?
 
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legmann

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Demfeller said:
I agree with Rocco, never pay up front, I always pay at the end and leave a good tip if the service is great.
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Problem is, most SP's ask to get 'business' out of the way first. I thought this was pretty standard and non-negotiable (many escorts' websites stipulate as much).

With regulars, of course, it's a different story; I often end up paying just before I leave, but only because it's slipped my (and the SP's) mind once I walk in.
 
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mightymouse007

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I find that in a massage parlour, payment is usually paid at the end. I can't recall a single session where I actually paid up front, aside from the door fee.
Same goes with lap dances at sc, I never heard anyone paid a dancer up front.

I'm too unsure why the SP business needs to be paid up front but understand why.
As far as the envelope is concern, I still think it really doesn't matter. You're paying for a service. Counting it infront of the SP or not shouldn't make a difference with the session. I think the SP would count it anyways while you're in the bathroom. If she is offended by that, then give it to her indirectly. I would assume if you have seen her multiple times, the trust she has in you increases, and more than likely she wouldn't care if you pay at the end.
 
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I count it in front of the SP just like a bank teller "twenty, forty, sixty, eighty, one hundred, one twenty, one forty, one sixty, one eighty, two hundred" and hand it to her. I wouldn't want an SP to wonder if I really put the entire amount in an envelope or if I was ripping her off and it also makes it impossible for her to claim I shortchanged her. There's no need for the cloak and dagger bullshit, it's an American thing because prostitution is illegal there. Fuck "roses" and "donations" or "time for companionship"

Edit: No SP has ever complained about my method of payment.
 
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mightymouse007

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I am for one against the envelope, and cannot understand why it needs to be in an envelope. The SP will count the money anyways right? What's the point?

Envelope in my opinion is for something confidential.
 
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Petzel

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I never EVER pay upfront. If an sp asks, I leave. Everytime I have paid upfront I have received horrible service. Sp's that ask for money upfront are generally independent and I avoid independents unless I have seen them before at an agency.

I stick with three agencies nowadays: Mirage, Select, and TorontoPassions

I have never been asked to pay upfront at any of these agencies and I always tip afterwards.

All these issues would not occur if you just stuck with reputable agencies and avoided Independents IMO.
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I don't agree. There are many industries where you have to pay up front. Besides, once the business end of it is out of the way you can just enjoy, have fun and not have to think about it again. That way I leave with a smile on my face and the last memory isn't an image of me paying her. I think you were just unlucky in those instances. I've never had horrible service when i pay up front but then again i don't see a lot of SPs and i'm very picky about the ones i have chosen to see. I actually prefer indies cuz they're not on the agency clock, just their own. If they're not back to back indies they will often stay over the time if they have no where else to rush to. Agency girls are stuck to the agency clock and there's usually a phone call saying time is up. I don't like that. I've never had a problem with the indies i saw. But to each their own. There are obviously pros and cons to each.
One SP told me she liked the bills fanned out in an unsealed envelope. That way she doesn't have to count it and can see she's getting the right amount and then just slip the envelope into her purse without the bills floating loose in there as one might accidentally fall out. That made sense to me.
 
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dondada

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in an elevator...going up to ??
kamikaz67 said:
I'm starting to think it's better for sp's to ask for the donation upfront. There was one time I had a fantastic session that I forgot to give my donation and she forgot to ask for it. It wasn't until I reached the lobby that I felt the envelope in my pocket and hurried back up to give it to her. But then again that's when you know you and her had a great time. She wasn't thinking about taking money from me at all.
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reminded me of dominique of honeygirls...i saw her so many times...she used to be at the door and i'd give her a kiss goodbye and a little squeeze in the back then i tucked the donation into her back pocket...she only asked the first time we met...if there is anyone i "miss" it's her...
 
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dondada said:
reminded me of dominique of honeygirls...i saw her so many times...she used to be at the door and i'd give her a kiss goodbye and a little squeeze in the back then i tucked the donation into her back pocket...she only asked the first time we met...if there is anyone i "miss" it's her...
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Yes, Dom was a legend. Cool thing was, once you got to know her, she was not only an amazing ukranian sexmachine, she also was a really nice, intelligent sweet girl.
 
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Yes, Dom was a legend. Cool thing was, once you got to know her, she was not only an amazing ukranian sexmachine, she also was a really nice, intelligent sweet girl.
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I never saw her... are you saying at your first session she was a mean, ignorant, cunt?
 
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massman

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69Shooter said:
I never saw her... are you saying at your first session she was a mean, ignorant, cunt?
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No, not at all. First meeting her, she was an amazing sexmachine, but had a bit of a stereotypical Eastern European "hard exterior" not unfriendly, but a bit "cool".
 
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If I pay after a tip is usually added on...if I am asked to pay in advance then a tip isn't in the cards....
 
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Wow! This thread has IMO become very controversial when the OP's question is a very simple one with an also simple answer: read the lady's website and if she doesn't have one and does not mention any specifics when scheduling her date with you re: donation in envelope, then I guess it means she has no preference for that so the best would be to present the donation however you normally to do it.
 
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