blopar said:
Do you get more aroused if her breasts are the perfect size or shape?
Does it turn you on more if she has a face like Angelina Jolie?
How about if she has legs like Stacy Keibler?
And you like it when she wears black panty hose and garters?
So, the same doesn't apply to women?
Even if there is no physiological difference due to size, just keep telling yourself that size doesn't matter if that's what it takes to feel better about yourself.
Your last statement is so sharp in tone, I have to ask - what is your point? Small guys should feel inadequate? They should investigate their surgical options? They should stop pestering women with their useless, feeble assets?
You are right that everyone has preferences. Women are entitled to like whatever they want, and don't have to be "fair" in their likes and dislikes. Their preferences will either lead to more satisfaction for them (if they truly understand what makes them happy), or not (if they don't).
However, if you are small, despite all the advertising to the contrary, you really can't do anything about it! Does that mean you will never be with women you find hot? Absolutely not! There is no correlation between how hot a woman is and her preferences. Some babes like hairy guys. Some fugly wenches only like guys with no body hair. Some hot chicks don't care much about penis size. Some monstrous trolls are size queens. All you can do is approach the women you find attractive, find out what they want/care about, and size yourself up as to whether you fit the bill. (Btw, you can throw in the complicating factor that, in my experience, most women don't know what they want anyway!).
You know, nature has a funny way of giving everyone some feature that is valuable and attractive, as well as making sure that we're all deficient in some way.
Really, this is not worth worrying about.