Does Size Really Matter?
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LancsLad said:Size only matters if you are small.
I don't agree Laddie. I can think of several big dicks that are amusing but damned annoying.
Oh wait you meant penis size.
smoothbhai said:
Here's what one lady said in a different forum:
Size does matter. My former experience was generally around 6-8 inches, but now, well, it's a huge difference, not to put too fine a point on it. Every woman I've ever talked to has said that yes, size does matter, though none of us would ever tell our men that, if we thought he was small. Anyone who would say something hurtful is someone of bad character and I assure you that her cruelty is not confined to the bedroom. If you are with a woman who has said something derogatory, she is a terrible person, period. Everyone has something he/she would like to change about him/herself, and women know this as we are daily confronted with models and Hollywood perfection. The truth is, no one can live up to those standards. In my case, it is very large breasts, and many men prefer smaller breasts. (The crass line about more than a handful being a waste comes to mind.) My guess is that, because of your situation, you are a kind man who will make some girl a wonderful mate because you will be conscious of her feelings and will make efforts at romance and tenderness that others more generously endowed might not. You will overlook a few pounds or a spider vein or two and see her for what she is inside, in the same way that she will see who you are. Beauty (and sex drive) fade, modern surgeries and drugs aside, but character and empathy remain. In the meanwhile, date petite women, because size is relative.
I'm going to have to say yes, it does matter - if your only concerned with penile insertion sex. Too big and you're going to hurt me. The average vagina is only about 5 inches deep. If your cock is longer than that you are just going to hurt my cervix. On the other hand, if your cock is really thin, I wont feel it inside me. Now on the other hand, if you are feeling like you are lacking in the penis department, then make sure you make up for it with other talents. There's way more to sex than just sticking your cock in.
One of my friends (female) put it to me this way. "of course penis size doesn't matter, unless you're having sex."
I agree; size does matter to some; but the size depends on the fit. A small girl may like a smaller thing for obviiousl reasons. We all like different things for different reasons. In some cases, the girl may not care becasue they like different shapes and sizes for variety - but in a way size still counts lol.
friendz4evr said:
It's my understanding that women do care about size.
It's like Goldilocks...Too small, and you don't have enough length for a good in&out. Too big and you bottom out, which a few women enjoy but most find painful/uncomfortable. Somewhere in the middle is 'just right'.
Now, for girth, I suspect fatter is always better, because no man has a penis too fat for a heathy vagina... but too thin and you might as well not bother.
I'm just happy to have never had any complaints.
Men also care about size - I saw a nifty bit on telly last night that showed the average man ignores an A cup, likes a B/C, and thinks the owner of Ds or more to be of a lesser IQ and higher sex drive.
Strippers taught me to love the boobies... but I'll still take a double-A over a double-D.
It's like Goldilocks...Too small, and you don't have enough length for a good in&out. Too big and you bottom out, which a few women enjoy but most find painful/uncomfortable. Somewhere in the middle is 'just right'.
Now, for girth, I suspect fatter is always better, because no man has a penis too fat for a heathy vagina... but too thin and you might as well not bother.
I'm just happy to have never had any complaints.
Men also care about size - I saw a nifty bit on telly last night that showed the average man ignores an A cup, likes a B/C, and thinks the owner of Ds or more to be of a lesser IQ and higher sex drive.
Strippers taught me to love the boobies... but I'll still take a double-A over a double-D.
well i have listened to meny ladies talking about size..the average woman likes a good size man.. too big and it hurts tooo much and she can't get comfotable...too small and the feeling was not there... but an ex-girlfriend told me that one guy she had was masive..but but he could never get it rockl hard.. he had to hold it to keep it solid... and at the other end of the scale she had one guy that was very small.. but "boy could he use that thing" ( she had a twinkle in her eye while she was telling me this) so i have no reason not to beleave her..... so ..what is the answer... guy's don't worry about it...she is more concerned about what you think of who she looks naked.... does she have nice breasts.. do they hang low..have small or big nipples.. are they too dark.. .. about the shape of her bum... the spidervaine she is hiding... ect ect.... she wont care about your dick as long as you use it well..... if you are still worried..then dude learn how to eat pussy... that is the ace you should have.... good luck...
