Does age really matter when choosing an SP??

[GPIDEAL]

A number of years ago I was in Calgary and decided to order room service from a local agency. I didn't specify any requirements, feeling like rolling the dice to see what experience came my way. The girl that arrived at my door looked to be about 16. I asked her age, she looked uncomfortable then said 20! I didn't believe her...I gave her a little money for her time coming to the hotel, but sent her away, I felt it was just not right. A while later I got a call from the agency asking what happened, told them, they understood and offered to send someone else but by then the urge had past. Often wondered what happened with her and whether she continued in the business.
So......to me age matters, if the age is too low. Older is my comfort zone. With age comes experience, comfort with who you are, and conversational skills. All these matter to me. My two cents!

Very well said. Same for me.

(In Havana, we've declined ladies who looked under 18, even though their I.D. said otherwise, but I understand they can get fake ones. One who looked like the actress-singer Selena (cute) was disappointed if not upset that she couldn't close the deal with my buddy.)

 

[bigshot]

A number of years ago I was in Calgary and decided to order room service from a local agency. I didn't specify any requirements, feeling like rolling the dice to see what experience came my way. The girl that arrived at my door looked to be about 16. I asked her age, she looked uncomfortable then said 20! I didn't believe her...I gave her a little money for her time coming to the hotel, but sent her away, I felt it was just not right. A while later I got a call from the agency asking what happened, told them, they understood and offered to send someone else but by then the urge had past. Often wondered what happened with her and whether she continued in the business.
So......to me age matters, if the age is too low. Older is my comfort zone. With age comes experience, comfort with who you are, and conversational skills. All these matter to me. My two cents!

It's good to see that our members do have standards and feel comfortable walking away (so to speak) when it just doesn't feel right...

 

[MissCroft]

A few years ago, you were my date to a concert. We drove with my friend and his GF. He thought I was "rockin' the cradle" (as he later told me), but that's a compliment on you.

Yes, I remember. LOL

 

[Tempted Monk]

Many years ago, when I just started this "hobby", I realized very quickly that most young girls have no idea what they are really doing. Only mature enough woman (as a rule) understands what sexuality and intimacy really is. And I set 30 as a cut age for myself to see mature enough women. At that time I met mostly Ladies of my age or older. But time goes and now I see young 30+ girls, change of view over time

 

[BloweyJoey]

I'm in my late 20's. Women older than me are nicer and provide good service, but I don't have the same kind of connection with them as I do with a girl in her early-mid 20s. I just have more in common with them. Tough to find a younger girl with good service though.

 

[Nesbot]

I get a little sick to my stomach at the thought of seeing a lady 20 and forget about younger. Its just too young in my opinion.

 

[afterhours]

A woman's best reproductive years are in her 20s. Fertility gradually declines in the 30s, particularly after age 35.
Shouldn't it be very normal to want women in their 20s? Isn't the actual answer that it is simply easier to establish a connection with older women for older guys? And for younger guys - that older SPs are more experienced?

 

[barnacler]

When I started advertising around 6 months ago, I assumed I should shave a couple years off my age, and at first I advertised as 19 or 20. I then realized that most men don't seem to care. I'm 22, and I've never had a client admit he found that in itself attractive, but I have had it be a deterrent for some potential clients who prefer SPs in the 25-35 age range. Everyone's comfort level is different.

If I saw 19 I would be extremely scared that she is ACTUALLY underage

 

[likwid]

It's also depends on the age of the client. I'm in my late 20's and found 20+ yo escorts to be "happy" to see a younger guy. I also click with them more, but have not ruled out "older" SPs at all.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

When I started out I lied about my age, not because I'm inherently deceitful, but because I didn't want anyone putting two and two together and discovering who I really was. It was a bit paranoid but I was new to the industry and the web. When someone pointed out online that I was a hot MILF (don't have children so not a mother) and shouldn't lie about my age, especially as it could work in my favour, I started using the real one (47). I'm proud of my age and experience and haven't succumbed to any age induced fears (i.e. age defying plastic surgery, etc.). I exercise and eat relatively healthy and intend to continue to age gracefully and naturally. To each their own but a heartfelt thank you to those who indicated that women of all ages can be sexy and fun!

 

[bigshot]

To each their own but a heartfelt thank you to those who indicated that women of all ages can be sexy and fun!

Without a doubt, you are living proof of this, Sophia!

 

[MissCroft]

I'm proud of my age and experience and haven't succumbed to any age induced fears (i.e. age defying plastic surgery, etc.). I exercise and eat relatively healthy and intend to continue to age gracefully and naturally. To each their own but a heartfelt thank you to those who indicated that women of all ages can be sexy and fun!

Hear, Hear! We should be proud of our age and our experience and not try to hide it.

I also eat well and exercise, etc. and am always told I'm aging well. Still don't wear much makeup and I think that's the secret to good skin.

 

[Mr.Dan]

In my opinion, I think its a small factor of other things to consider. Making a connection and being in tune with the other person is more what I look for, regardless of age.

 

[gnudung]

I prefer older, mature women cuz I find them stimulating in more ways than one. If I mention a band or historical event and they give me a totally blank look they're too young for me.

 

[itd131]

In my experience most ladies over 30 lie about their age. When I see an age listed like 28, I assume over 30. When I see an age listed in the 30s, I assume 40-60. For this reason I tend to stick to ladies who list their age in the mid to upper 20s which actually means I will be seeing ladies in their 20s and 30s. I avoid younger ages (teens/early 20s).

I have had some regular ladies over the years who's real age I knew and they have been in the range of 22-34. Was age a factor, not really. I saw them because I had a great time every time. Don't think age ever entered my mind really. Having said that, I don't think I would be interested in seeing someone who was a lot older than me. I think I would generally prefer to see people under 40.

 

[goalie000]

Being over 60, age is a major factor to me. I just can't bring myself to see ladies under 30. Plus a mature provider understands that an older gentleman may take a little longer to complete the deed! Lol

 

[LickingGravity]

I would rather a lady not disclose her age than blatantly lie about it. It just sets the wrong tone about something that only matters at the extreme upper and lower ends of the range.

 

[Hiding]

There's absolutely a market for 18-22; it's a fantasy and equally as valid as anything else. I'm 29 and I've had people leave because they thought I was underage (I really do think I look 29) and write online that I must be older. There's nothing creepy about liking the younger age ranges, especially if it's a group of people you might otherwise not have access to. When you're ALL about the age, I can see why that'd be weird and uncomfortable. We all have preferences and reasons for being here.

Industry weight and industry age are funny concepts. If you're honest, people expect you to be lying; I figure it's better to just be honest. I'm always curious about it though - is someone not going to notice? Is it once you get someone in the door, you're assuming they'll be too polite to leave? Would you like to be an aged looking 25 or a great looking 35?

 

[LisbethNova]

Being over 60, age is a major factor to me. I just can't bring myself to see ladies under 30. Plus a mature provider understands that an older gentleman may take a little longer to complete the deed! Lol

I personally find older gents to be great lovers for that reason. Very sensual and not trying to put me in ridiculous porno positions lol

 

[thailover]

age of course is a factor
the lower the age,the closer to illegal it is
the older the age,the odds are after multiple decades of "usage",holyfield ear after a tyson fight is more appealing