Does age really matter when choosing an SP??

[IRIS]

I agree with Lisbeth. I update my age every year since 2006. When I passed 30 my clientelé changed a little. More mature , friendly, very nice gentlemen come to see me. Lots of them have a 20 years old daughter so they think it's little weird to do girls in their 20's.

 

[Kirby2006]

............ breast size matters! Age not so much.

Brain size matters more; or at least how it's utilized. I guess you would call it wisdom which is rare before mid 20s.
A smart lady who's been part way around the block is a lot of fun

 

[ravencroft]

For me the answer is quite variable upon my mood and what I'm craving that particular day:

1) if I'm looking for a sensual, confident courtesan then I tend to look for 24-35 as the older a lady gets in the industry and hasn't been sent running already, then she likely has a secure sense of self and has made peace/embraces what she does in the business, versus "just trying to make a quick buck for college";

2) if I'm looking for a taught and physically sexy lady I want to go to town on and I'm less worried about clicking, I will go back to the 18-25 crowd as there's just no substitute for youth when it comes to a body's natural assets. As an aging athlete myself I can freely say that clean living and maintenance can only do so much.

I'm in my later 30's so my relationship range target is 28-40, but I encounter sexually attractive (to me) women daily that range from 18-55. If a lady has managed to maintain a taught figure and has some great assets and poise, I'm all over it. However if I'm going to be spending money then I tend to go younger simply because I could pick up an equally-aged/older woman in the civilian world fairly easily for dating (or maybe casual encounters) if that's the way I was leaning.

Much love to ALL the ladies, and Happy Thanksgiving. I'll be giving thanks for the existence of women in general - my life would be so much more boring without them.

 

[LisbethNova]

Why? Men are biologically attuned to the appearance of young women. So if looks are the only thing a client is after, it's not surprising that they seek out younger women. Being a young guy myself, I don't understand the creep factor many feel when older men seek younger women. I think it's inappropriate to criticize them for satisfying their wants. Who does it hurt? Seems incredibly judgmental to me, and I'm surprised that anyone who works in this industry, or participates in this industry, would choose to judge others in this regard.

With regards to the main topic, I don't focus as much on age as on service and personality. In my experience, women in their late 20's and into their 30's and 40's have a fantastic mix of all three. So when it comes to hobbying, that's where I look. I think focusing solely on age, and sticking solely to women who are in their early 20's, will lead to a lot of missed experiences!

I was waiting for a guy to come in crying about feeling discriminated. This kind of thing always happens when an SP makes any kind of general opinion. I wasn't discriminating but it seems a bit creepy when guys primarily look at super young girls.. *I* was a teenager at one point in my life too and was creeped out enough times in my life by old men who I knew were coming after me because they saw me as "young and vulnerable" or "fresh meat".... that being said.. some of my best duo partners are in their early to mid 20s and they are beyond their years and I would recommend them for a million reasons, not having to do with anything to do with their age.

 

[bazokajoe]

Yes age matters. No different than a guys choice of race,or a ladies choice. Silly question really.

 

[LisbethNova]

Yes age matters. No different than a guys choice of race,or a ladies choice. Silly question really.

That's your opinion... clearly many think otherwise...

saucy man...

 

[ravencroft]

That's your opinion... clearly many think otherwise...

saucy man...

Don't let snark deter you from your very valid query and discussion. I've quite enjoyed it and thank you for raising the topic again (terb has been around so long I'm sure it's been hashed out before but it's nice to see if perspectives change over the years)

 

[kherg007]

If she's smart that is a real draw. That sort of smarts/wisdom usually comes with age, but not exclusively. I've visited ladies from 19 to 50, and the nature of the relationships with each is different, but enjoyable in their own right, just in slightly different ways. But all wonderful. It is how she looks that will initially draw me in (e.g, one 47 yr old lady looked fantastic so why not visit?). How we get on will determine whether we repeat. I do hesitate with the 18-20 yr olds a bit however.

 

[black booty lover]

Personally, age doesn't matter at all. Obviously, on the extreme ends (under 20/Over 50) it would, but that's just me. T.

My regular SP is in her early 50's and incredible. Having said that, she could pass for mid 40's.

 

[waterloodude]

Besides the obvious being of legal age, I'm not a numbers obsessed kind of guy - be it bust, waist, height, weight or in the case of this discussion age. When choosing an SP it's a matter of attraction and personality (really I find those two intertwined).

 

[hoorawr]

define super-young lisbeth?

you're saying super young is creepy
i define super young as 19-21

In my opinion, this is when most women are in their sexual prime.. not creepy at all, their bodies are simply in their prime its natural


now if a women stays fit, doesn't have kids, etc.. and can still look like that at age 25+..then I could care less about her age. but the truth is most women can't compete with a 20yo body

 

[peeler_feeler]

............ breast size matters! Age not so much.

Only because I'm a breast obsession child at heart bust size is very important to me. Honestly though age is not much of a factor, it's more about attitude and some worldly experiences. I do find many times that 18 to 23 year olds have less to talk about that interests me, so from a point of view of conversation maturity helps because of more life experience.

 

[HobbyHorse]

Does age matter? Does height matter? Does weight matter? Does breast size matter?
Yes, people have preferences. It may not be a deal breaker, but it's there, just like every other aspect of appearance and presentation.
Frankly, age matters to a greater or lesser degree in every personal services transaction of whatever kind.
My own preferences run to maturity. Providers in their late 20s to late 40s ring my bell. But that's just me. To each his (or her) own.

 

[rhuarc29]

I was waiting for a guy to come in crying about feeling discriminated. This kind of thing always happens when an SP makes any kind of general opinion. I wasn't discriminating but it seems a bit creepy when guys primarily look at super young girls.. *I* was a teenager at one point in my life too and was creeped out enough times in my life by old men who I knew were coming after me because they saw me as "young and vulnerable" or "fresh meat".... that being said.. some of my best duo partners are in their early to mid 20s and they are beyond their years and I would recommend them for a million reasons, not having to do with anything to do with their age.

That's a little unfair and dismissive, Lisbeth. I'm not an old guy, so I don't feel discriminated against by your comments. I did, however, find them strange and judgmental given the industry we both participate in. Regardless, your further clarification was helpful in mediating that. I would hope that no client is actively seeking young women for their vulnerability, because that is creepy as fuck! And I never understood the desire some men have for "fresh meat" as you call it. I'll take an experienced lady over a newbie any day of the week, with good reason. That said, men of any age could actively seek vulnerable, young ladies, so why specifically call out old men? Frankly, I think the old man/young woman "creep" factor is a societal construct that we have all got accustomed to that is based on misunderstanding and a lack of empathy.

Outside the industry, I think it makes more sense to seek partners in your age group because you are more likely to have similar needs and wants. Inside the industry, variety is the spice of life.

 

[thesun]

That's a little unfair and dismissive, Lisbeth. I'm not an old guy, so I don't feel discriminated against by your comments. I did, however, find them strange and judgmental given the industry we both participate in. Regardless, your further clarification was helpful in mediating that. I would hope that no client is actively seeking young women for their vulnerability, because that is creepy as fuck! And I never understood the desire some men have for "fresh meat" as you call it. I'll take an experienced lady over a newbie any day of the week, with good reason. That said, men of any age could actively seek vulnerable, young ladies, so why specifically call out old men? Frankly, I think the old man/young woman "creep" factor is a societal construct that we have all got accustomed to that is based on misunderstanding and a lack of empathy.

Outside the industry, I think it makes more sense to seek partners in your age group because you are more likely to have similar needs and wants. Inside the industry, variety is the spice of life.

I find that i have more satisfying experience with women over the age of 30 as they seem to be more attuned and comfortable with their own bodies and needs. My experience with some women in their 20s was mostly average.

 

[ElCapitain]

When I first got into this I used to think the 18-22 age group was super hot, mostly for the forbidden fruit aspect of it. Now it's a complete 180, I avoid the 18-22 age group for a number of reasons: I get a sense that the industry is a lot harder on those women (they seem more prone to getting into hard drugs, for example, because they're still in the party mode phase of their lives and they have the money coming in), they're less assertive about personal safety issues and maintaining their boundaries, they usually have a lot less life experience to talk about, and the overall experience just isn't as good.

 

[afterhours]

perhaps a sweet spot is when SP is older than your daughter but younger than her mother?

 

[georgetoronto]

When I first got into this I used to think the 18-22 age group was super hot, mostly for the forbidden fruit aspect of it. Now it's a complete 180, I avoid the 18-22 age group for a number of reasons: I get a sense that the industry is a lot harder on those women (they seem more prone to getting into hard drugs, for example, because they're still in the party mode phase of their lives and they have the money coming in), they're less assertive about personal safety issues and maintaining their boundaries, they usually have a lot less life experience to talk about, and the overall experience just isn't as good.

um, you made me think twice about booking younger ones now..

 

[maniac1911]

That's sounds judgmental. There is nothing creepy about being honest about what you want. Men general prefer young beautiful women. Its not age of a women but her level of maturity that matters. The reason women lie about there age is because they know that youth is valued in society and in particular by men. I'm 40 and I prefer women 19-30. I don't see anything wrong with that.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I don't seek out young women in their early 20s per se, but I've had great chemistry with some of them (I'm in my late 50s but don't look it, although I feel it lol). To me, it's the touch, not just the vintage or look. It's also her brain.

Due to me being middle-aged, most if not all are younger than me, but that's a range of early to mid 20s, to 40s, but the most representative age range of the ladies I see are between 30 and 40 I guess (a couple in this thread, you know who you are *wink* *wink*). There have been some that are even older (recent example, Eve from Ottawa, www.atasteofeve.com, who's a gorgeous lady). Some of the regular mature ladies are MarlaGFE, MilfAlex, and Tori Sloane (saw her recently - wow we squeezed 90 minutes of fun into an hour, whew!) Just recently I corresponded with a mature SP who went under the name Agent Provocateur (gorgeous buxom blond).

I can also understand why certain men must see younger woman (they may be older and married to someone their age, and therefore, yearn for someone they don't have and miss).

I've also experienced being with GILFs (either in the industry or civilian world), and that vintage doesn't take away from sexual prowess (I think it's a bit fetish freaky too).