Spanglerdoo said:
the temptation was to just keep wearing it cause its absolutely stunning and i do have a history with him
Any new man in your life might be a little anxious even worried knowing you still choose to wear the engagement ring of your former fiancé.
FYI....Googled engagement ring law and got this from a Canadian legal advice site:
"About Marriage in Canada
Some of the information below may be taken from common law and would therefore not necessarily be applicable to the province of Quebec although, in many aspects, the Civil Code and Quebec jurisprudence mirrors common law principles in this subject matter.
Marriage is the state-recognized, voluntary and exclusive contract for the lifelong union of two persons.
On engagements
You can't sue for breach of promise of marriage anymore in B.C., Manitoba or Ontario. Alberta still allows these types of court actions.
When engagement rings are given before the engagement is broken off, the rule is whoever broke off the engagement forfeits the ring. So if your boyfriend decides that he doesn't want to get married after giving you an engagement ring, you can keep the ring. But if the woman decides to break off the engagement after accepting the ring, she has to return it to her suitor."
http://www.duhaime.org/LegalResources/FamilyLaw/LawArticle-34/Marriage-in-Canada.aspx
BOL, both decisions you are making must be very tough.