That's why this site is nice. You can yabber on about it here.
You never know if you tell someone else. Something happens someone gets shirty and then boom that trusted mate dobs you in.
Knew a lady in the biz a few years back. She told her best mate about working as an escort (agency) then recruited her best mate to work at same agency. They enjoyed the fast cash.
Then, a few months later, they have an argy bargy, they're upset at each other, no longer friends. A few months later first lady breaks up with her partner, they now a child custody situation, and into this legal matter jumps the former friend who takes upon herself to get back at her former friend by writing the court that her former bestie is working as a prostitute. Cost her custody.
So yah never know.