Do SP's even care?

[homonger]

I think there is a difference between a truly low rent scuzzy motel and a somewhat more expensive decent hotel room. Back to the original topic, I do think there is a threshold of "niceness" that a room should have to make an sp feel more comfortable. However, I am not sure that there is a discernible difference in how an sp will respond between say, a $100 room, and a $400 one.

As an out of towner, I always stay at what I'd consider the reasonably nice, reasonably priced hotels. They are all about the same, imo. But I can certainly understand the reluctance of someone who lives in TO locally to want to spring for a hotel room. What I would try to do, however, is to maximize the utility of the room by booking multiple escorts for that day.

 

[PHNINE]

Homonger, that is awesome. LOL.

I should try that. I have never booked for more then one SP at a time in one day. Hmmm....getting excited already. LOL. You are right I should book more then one to maximize utilization of these more expensive rooms. SP's... watch out...

 

[pete58]

I'm Local

Ok now I don't know what to do! I'm local, I'm single, no wife, girlfriend, kids.
I have a nice large rented apartment that I've lived in for quite some time and I'm happy with. Cleaning lady comes in to clean & do laundry every few weeks.
The apartment is in pretty good condition although it's showing it's age. There is some clutter but everything is neat.
So, should I not have the SP come to my home where I'm comfortable.
I'm reasonably well off, and I'm self employed (working from home) and I make a pretty good living, especially since I have no responsibilities, but my apartment does definitely not reflect those circumstances.
What do I do, I know longer term is to improve the interior, new furniture etc. but short term?
Love to hear your input, how much is my seemingly lack of wealth affecting the atitude of the SP's. I'd love to hear from the ladies.

 

[Sleighbelle]

Respect is key!

I have been in the high end to the low end of the hotel spectrum in the short time I have been in this business and I have to say it all comes down to the gentleman I am visiting with. I like the comfort of the low end knowing the owner, talking with him and being at ease when doing a call there. I do find it somewhat uncomfortable (although I dress conservatively for my calls) to walk past a front desk at a high end hotel. One with a separate or more discreet entrance is preferable for me.

But as for the quality of time I spend with a gentleman, the hotel never comes into play but how he treats me does! A little respect can go a long way! Just my opinion.

xoxo Belle

 

[spiff]

I think there is a difference between a truly low rent scuzzy motel and a somewhat more expensive decent hotel room. Back to the original topic, I do think there is a threshold of "niceness" that a room should have to make an sp feel more comfortable. However, I am not sure that there is a discernible difference in how an sp will respond between say, a $100 room, and a $400 one.

As an out of towner, I always stay at what I'd consider the reasonably nice, reasonably priced hotels. They are all about the same, imo. But I can certainly understand the reluctance of someone who lives in TO locally to want to spring for a hotel room. What I would try to do, however, is to maximize the utility of the room by booking multiple escorts for that day.

I actually know of a couple of friends that booked the room at a 5 star and did split sessions with different ladies, one in the afternoon and another in the evening. Seesion two just called down to say that he had spilled a drink on the bed and could housekeeping change the sheets...

Kinda of inventive if you ask me....

 

[homonger]

Homonger, that is awesome. LOL.

I should try that. I have never booked for more then one SP at a time in one day. Hmmm....getting excited already. LOL. You are right I should book more then one to maximize utilization of these more expensive rooms. SP's... watch out...

Go for it, Phnine, because you have been missing out on one of the great tests of creativity, resourcefulness, and endurance a hobbyist could ask for. That is, how to successfully schedule, book, and then have sex with, multiple escorts in a day. Then do it for 3-5 days in a row, which is what I typically do during a visit to TO. The sex part is easy, what's the headache is trying to figure who to see and when.

 

[Tick]

What do I do, I know longer term is to improve the interior, new furniture etc. but short term?
Love to hear your input, how much is my seemingly lack of wealth affecting the atitude of the SP's. I'd love to hear from the ladies.

In the bathroom.. instead of tolet paper, have a stack of 20's. Should solve any problems with "percieved wealth".

 

[Tina_Ballerina]

SP's really don't care how nice your furniture is, how big your T.V. is, and how upscale your apartment building is, as long as you are friendly, showered shaved and clean, and keep a clean house, especially bed and bathroom.

Always have a CLEAN towel and hand towel for your lady friend.

Damn...do the dishes...it won't kill you..

In fact, it only costs $30 to have a maid come in once a week and do all this crap for you.

How would YOU react if you walked into a dirty incall place?

 

[shawnbg]

Ok now I don't know what to do! I'm local, I'm single, no wife, girlfriend, kids.
I have a nice large rented apartment that I've lived in for quite some time and I'm happy with. Cleaning lady comes in to clean & do laundry every few weeks.
The apartment is in pretty good condition although it's showing it's age. There is some clutter but everything is neat.
So, should I not have the SP come to my home where I'm comfortable.
I'm reasonably well off, and I'm self employed (working from home) and I make a pretty good living, especially since I have no responsibilities, but my apartment does definitely not reflect those circumstances.
What do I do, I know longer term is to improve the interior, new furniture etc. but short term?
Love to hear your input, how much is my seemingly lack of wealth affecting the atitude of the SP's. I'd love to hear from the ladies.

You're calling an SP that you'll likely never see again, not your future wife. Personally, I feel just as comfortable in a nice hotel room as I do at home, but if you're single and local I don't see any reason to spend more money on a nice hotel room. Clean your apartment, take a shower and be nice. Save the money on the hotel room and use it for new furniture if you want. A fancy hotel room can't hurt your chances, but I doubt it makes any difference on the action you'll receive. I lived in an average apartment a few years ago and a nice condo now and have almost never had bad experience or noticed a difference in either place.

That is, how to successfully schedule, book, and then have sex with, multiple escorts in a day. Then do it for 3-5 days in a row, which is what I typically do during a visit to TO.

I've never seen more then two SP's in a day and have only done this maybe 3-4 times. I think anything more then that is waste and you're just having sex to kill time. I'd rather see a few over a couple weeks then 2-3 per day for a few days. Remember, us locals don't have to stockpile a month's worth of SP's into a few days. If you're a visitor and have a room though, might as well make use of it

 

[homonger]

I've never seen more then two SP's in a day and have only done this maybe 3-4 times. I think anything more then that is waste and you're just having sex to kill time. I'd rather see a few over a couple weeks then 2-3 per day for a few days. Remember, us locals don't have to stockpile a month's worth of SP's into a few days. If you're a visitor and have a room though, might as well make use of it

Shawn, shawn, shawn... why do you have to take a contrary position to everything I say?

I would never consider having sex to be a waste, but I am not advocating anyone see sp's just for the sake of seeing sp's. The issue of not wanting to spring for a hotel room came up and I suggested it would seem less expensive if they saw multiple sp's during the time they had the room. I then talked about what I do when I visit and stay in a hotel room. Why do you have to be a pain in the ass about it?

As a regular visitor, I am in a somewhat unique situation, in that it is convenient and I think, downright logical to see multiple escorts in a day. As you put it, I am "stockpiling", although I prefer to see it as "getting a good return on my travel investment". But I do agree, that if I were a local, I'm sure I'd prefer a more leisurely pace.

 

[t8rs]

a suggestion

If you want to see multiple escorts in the same day, book them with the same agency. Let them worry about the scheduling.

 

[PHNINE]

Good point. I guess that is what the operators are there for. Will they think of me as some horn dog though? Who cares I guess....LOL.

 

[homonger]

Good point. I guess that is what the operators are there for. Will they think of me as some horn dog though? Who cares I guess....LOL.

You've answered your own question. And if I were an agency owner, I would say you're not a horndog, you're a good customer.

 

[shawnbg]

Shawn, shawn, shawn... why do you have to take a contrary position to everything I say?

I would never consider having sex to be a waste, but I am not advocating anyone see sp's just for the sake of seeing sp's. The issue of not wanting to spring for a hotel room came up and I suggested it would seem less expensive if they saw multiple sp's during the time they had the room. I then talked about what I do when I visit and stay in a hotel room. Why do you have to be a pain in the ass about it?

As a regular visitor, I am in a somewhat unique situation, in that it is convenient and I think, downright logical to see multiple escorts in a day. As you put it, I am "stockpiling", although I prefer to see it as "getting a good return on my travel investment". But I do agree, that if I were a local, I'm sure I'd prefer a more leisurely pace.

I just like to joke around with you sometimes Homonger and didn't see the economic sense in recommending to see 2-3 SP's instead of 1 to someone debating whether they should even splurge on a hotel room.

 

[homonger]

I just like to joke around with you sometimes Homonger and didn't see the economic sense in recommending to see 2-3 SP's instead of 1 to someone debating whether they should even splurge on a hotel room.

That's fine, shawn, I guess you caught me in a bad mood or something.

As for the economic sense, I don't know if it makes any. But there is a perverse logic to it, which at least PHNINE found intriguing. No one is asking you to do it, you cheapskate!

 

[Mongrel4u]

I dont think the SP really cares provided there is nothing detrimentally wrong with the room/area

If I were you I'd stay away from motels... aside from the seedy appeal, LE simply love to watch these things as so much shady shit ( not just SP stuff) seems to gravitate to such places.. its a great place for them to do some profiling - but of course profiling doesnt go on within the TPD... bite my tongue for even mentioning it

Has anybody tried sharing a room?

Get together with another friend/friends that also hobby but have different schedules when it comes to free time... cut the cost down big time...

or if your really close with them.... book SPs - one guy take one bed and you take the other .... I've done that before.. it was interesting LOL

 

[PHNINE]

I did try that before but that was on business trip in China where we were forced to use the same room because that is what the company had booked for us during tour stay. It was interesting. We had to put the lamp at the end of the the bed to hang the blanket against the wall lamp at the head of the bed and the lamp at the end of the bed to make a wall. There was a barrier but we could hear each other.

That was a hoot. Drunken memories.....

 

[Gentle Ben]

Has anybody tried sharing a room?

talked about it, but could never agree on who got the sloppy bed sheets!

 

[Mongrel4u]

I did try that before but that was on business trip in China where we were forced to use the same room because that is what the company had booked for us during tour stay. It was interesting. We had to put the lamp at the end of the the bed to hang the blanket against the wall lamp at the head of the bed and the lamp at the end of the bed to make a wall. There was a barrier but we could hear each other.

That was a hoot. Drunken memories.....

Well I guess me and my buds are either pretty tight or hard core because we didnt have any dividers... just banging... on each bed... and one having a cigarrette, sitting on the sofa just watchin...waiting for his turn... LOL those were the days

no shame in our game LOL

 

[PHNINE]

I hear ya. Those were the days. I don't get bunked with anyone now on business trips. I get my own suite, cause I am in management now. But I miss those days.....