I am trying to figure out where to advertise more kink / fetish things
I find leolist is 80% fake responses and I am also trying to semi keep my work name away from more taboo things...
Does fetlife etc work for that?
My kind of SP!
We've had some good luck on some of the fetish/kink-friendly sub reddits out there, moreso than fetlife, at least in my experience so far. Some good advice so far, so not much to add other than prrhaps including a 'persona' Instagram account with a few role-playing cues and suggestions, that will help put your profile in front of the folks who would be interested!
*edit* forgot to include Feeld. While it is an alt dating app, have gotten some matches with SPs (not in Ottawa, but when traveling), who provide the kinds of services you're describing.