Dirty Kinky Fun

[NadiaLovechanko]

I am trying to figure out where to advertise more kink / fetish things

I find leolist is 80% fake responses and I am also trying to semi keep my work name away from more taboo things...

Does fetlife etc work for that?

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

I would add a persona or a separate section on your website, and may be even create a separate twitter account for those services.
But I would advertise here on TERB or Tryst.
What kink/fetish/taboo things do you offer?

 

[michaelpv92]

Here I guess!

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

I would add a persona or a separate section on your website, and may be even create a separate twitter account for those services.
But I would advertise here on TERB or Tryst.
What kink/fetish/taboo things do you offer?

I just dont want people to message me saying "someone stole your photos" etc endlessly lol

Tryst I have hooked up with Nadia already and my ID

I used to be VERY into roleplay etc...
But I took that away as people started just trying to do it in sensual sessions with no communication.

I want to get back into that and help people explore more... taboo and "twisted" fantasies in a safe way for people with no judgments
I just have to be careful obviously what I advertise etc lol

there is just no one (to my knowledge, or openly) offers that kind of safe no judgment zone for the more extreme ideas

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

I just dont want people to message me saying "someone stole your photos" etc endlessly lol

Tryst I have hooked up with Nadia already and my ID

I used to be VERY into roleplay etc...
But I took that away as people started just trying to do it in sensual sessions with no communication.

I want to get back into that and help people explore more... taboo and "twisted" fantasies in a safe way for people with no judgments
I just have to be careful obviously what I advertise etc lol

there is just no one (to my knowledge, or openly) offers that kind of safe no judgment zone for the more extreme ideas

Like what kinds of taboo roleplay?
You could clearly mention that roleplay sessions need a certain amount of time to prep.
Maybe even attaching a different and extra price point to it would help and prevent people from springing it on you during a regular session.

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

Like what kinds of taboo roleplay?
You could clearly mention that roleplay sessions need a certain amount of time to prep.
Maybe even attaching a different and extra price point to it would help and prevent people from springing it on you during a regular session.

I did have it as an "add on" prior but people just kept trying to get it for free
which is why I no longer offer "add ons" and just do all inclusive pricing

And the more kinky side that would make an old woman blush and clutch her pearls

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

I did have it as an "add on" prior but people just kept trying to get it for free
which is why I no longer offer "add ons" and just do all inclusive pricing

And the more kinky side that would make an old woman blush and clutch her pearls

I like those kinds of role play.
Can I DM you here to know?
And if people didn't respect it may be creating a separate persona may help.
But I guess it needs to be a little more than just role play for it to be worth it? Idk.

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

I like those kinds of role play.
Can I DM you here to know?
And if people didn't respect it may be creating a separate persona may help.
But I guess it needs to be a little more than just role play for it to be worth it? Idk.

Yeah of course you can!

and yeah we will see, I was just hoping for a surprise this is the kinky side of the internet you have been missing lol

 

[jalimon]

I am trying to figure out where to advertise more kink / fetish things

I find leolist is 80% fake responses and I am also trying to semi keep my work name away from more taboo things...

Does fetlife etc work for that?

No FetLife, at least in Montreal, is a community out of the escort world. All events I have done via that site involved regular folks But yes it involves a lot of kinky fetish stuff that is not well understood and quickly judged on such sites like Terb. You need a no review policy on kinky sessions believe me.

That said perhaps Fetlife would be open to having you a publicized event even if $ is involved. Would be good to try. The dudes I met on these meet-ups on Fetlife were always super respectful and so nice.

In Montreal a few years ago there was an Agency specializing in these kinds of events. It was called Unicorn. I once entered the incall (the door was open) only to see the girl tied up and blindfolded. Grrrrr....

In all the kinky events I did there are 2 things I found extremely important. Have a secret word, mine was yellow (or 2 knocks on the floor if the girl`s mouth was not available haha). And second, have a 15-minute cool-down period at the end. Both parties cannot leave a kinky event and 1 minute later be back in the real world. No, have a 15 minute where you ask the dude to massage you

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

No FetLife, at least in Montreal, is a community out of the escort world. All events I have done via that site involved regular folks But yes it involves a lot of kinky fetish stuff that is not well understood and quickly judged on such sites like Terb. You need a no review policy on kinky sessions believe me.

That said perhaps Fetlife would be open to having you a publicized event even if $ is involved. Would be good to try. The dudes I met on these meet-ups on Fetlife were always super respectful and so nice.

In Montreal a few years ago there was an Agency specializing in these kinds of events. It was called Unicorn. I once entered the incall (the door was open) only to see the girl tied up and blindfolded. Grrrrr....

In all the kinky events I did there are 2 things I found extremely important. Have a secret word, mine was yellow (or 2 knocks on the floor if the girl`s mouth was not available haha). And second, have a 15-minute cool-down period at the end. Both parties cannot leave a kinky event and 1 minute later be back in the real world. No, have a 15 minute where you ask the dude to massage you

Yeah I have been to similar out west multiple times!
I am a member of a couple sex clubs too, and I know ottawa is not overly open to the kink world in such a sense...

Definitely conversations & safety put in place! AND NO REVIEWS obviously lol
I love the idea od the aftercare being me getting massaged tho lol

 

[Tempest70]

You had me at Kink! It's been a challenge as a person who comes from a place so small that literally everyone knows your name, to find an avenue such as this to explore! I had a session where I was called a certain name, and to say the least it opened up a part I didn't know I had in me. So... @NadiaLovechanko I would love to help you (and I) explore.

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

You had me at Kink! It's been a challenge as a person who comes from a place so small that literally everyone knows your name, to find an avenue such as this to explore! I had a session where I was called a certain name, and to say the least it opened up a part I didn't know I had in me. So... @NadiaLovechanko I would love to help you (and I) explore.

Well now I’m intrigued!!! Please shoot me a message and tell me about this awakening

 

[jalimon]

Yeah I have been to similar out west multiple times!
I am a member of a couple sex clubs too, and I know ottawa is not overly open to the kink world in such a sense...

Definitely conversations & safety put in place! AND NO REVIEWS obviously lol
I love the idea od the aftercare being me getting massaged tho lol

I looked at your website and your images... Then I think about some kinky sessions I did in the past and try to imagine doing them with you!! Ho my my... It's important to separate kinky from fetish sessions. Usually a client will opt for one or another.

Damn, I realize I now live just 50 minutes out of Ottawa...

You probably know Sonia Von Sacher in Montreal? She could probably give you good advice on how to separate your kinky side from your regular offering.

 

[ArgoHater]

I would create a new persona, separate website/SM, an have HARD boundaries between the two. Explain on both sites that while you are the same woman, the two personas are different. If you want vanilla, visit Nadia Lovchanko. If you want kink/RP, visit Lady Nadia. The two will never meet during a session, and your guests/clients (whatever term you like) MUST respect that.

I would also adjust your pricing to reflect the time and effort needed to fulfill an appointment. Perhaps a minimum of 90-120mins in order to account for aftercare/cool-down period and to weed-out people. I have no idea what one of these sessions will affect your mind and body, so it may be safe to assume that it may be your sole session that day.

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

I would create a new persona, separate website/SM, an have HARD boundaries between the two. Explain on both sites that while you are the same woman, the two personas are different. If you want vanilla, visit Nadia Lovchanko. If you want kink/RP, visit Lady Nadia. The two will never meet during a session, and your guests/clients (whatever term you like) MUST respect that.

I would also adjust your pricing to reflect the time and effort needed to fulfill an appointment. Perhaps a minimum of 90-120mins in order to account for aftercare/cool-down period and to weed-out people. I have no idea what one of these sessions will affect your mind and body, so it may be safe to assume that it may be your sole session that day.

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking…

 

[boomboom]

Great advise
I was at an event years ago in Ottawa with 3 ladies & 5 guys. The 1 guy was only there to watch & protect the ladies.
He tied the 1 lady up with ropes in a chair as she was into bondage & loved being restrained.
Everyone knew the safe or stop word & if used, Everyone needed to stop. It was never needed, but an interesting couple of hours.
Another time a SP i saw regularly, allowed me to tie her up to the 4 poster bed & lick, tickle & kiss her all over. She exploded & squirted like a hydrant with a butt plug in while I performed DATY & a digit or 2.
But again a safe or stop word was preagreed to.

 

[Sonic Temple]

This is actually a goal of mine this year to explore kink.

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

This is actually a goal of mine this year to explore kink.

Well… *cough cough*
hi I’m Nadia !

 

[Sonic Temple]

Well… *cough cough*
hi I’m Nadia !

Oh I know who you are Ms @NadiaLovechanko and you do have my attention !

 

[jazzbox]

Well… *cough cough*
hi I’m Nadia !

Are you a dom or on the submissive side?