Devon Devil said:
To be honest, I've seen a lot of men from this site. They are jackasses on here, but very nice in person. It's easy to hide behind your username but not so easy when you're naked in front of me.
To each their own, but guys, it's not nice to bash someone because of their weight. Not only does it make you a dick, but it stigmatizes women, creates the "must be thin" mentality, and insults those men who happen to enjoy someone a bit heavier.
Nope I think you're wrong on that Devon I'm pretty much an ass all the time. Could be why I've never been married long. Though I do have to admit most that have met me realize quickly that 95% of what I say is in jest and not to be taken too seriously.
As to the weight comments about you. I think you look fine, but then, I generally prefer bigger women, I've found on average they're more into what they're doing, and generally more practiced at it.
We could go into a complete psycho-eval about it but it's easy enough to just leave it at: if a less stereotypically attractive girl isn't a better preformer then her super-model counterpart, she's not likely to get people in the door. A hot girl can rely on her looks to 'rope in the newbies' and stay pretty busy.
Same holds true for repeats, some will get repeats on looks alone whereas someone who's less attractive (or thinks they are) will put alot more effort into making sure their customers have a reason to come back
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This is more a rule of thumb then an etched in stone thing to be sure, however it has seemed to hold true for me both in the hobby and in my personal life. I also find that on average most 'super - model' types to be less fun to converse with.
I know I'm likely to get some hate mail from skinny people on this one... but just piping in my 2 cents.