Definition of ideal client?

[Brill]

Lol. I guess i don't sit around fantasizing about an ideal client that I hope will book me someday. What is the point in hoping for that? What would I be wanting to get out of meeting such a client? I wouldn't want to date a client, and prefer to keep work and personal separate, so for me there is no reason to think of the fantasy. I'm a pretty practical person.

If another SP wants to fantasize and hope she meets the ideal client to fall in love with once, or regularly that's her choice. But this is pretty much a service based business, to me it doesn't make sense to hope to find something like that. Needing to be attracted to or fall in love with a man does not factor into what I look for in clients at all, and I think hoping to like someone so much I get feelings for them would be a detriment. Also note that most of my clientele is married to a SO or their work and not looking to date, so the odds of finding someone who is single who would be ideal for me is quite slim. You wouldn't be escorting for long if you're looking for something more, and perhaps this particular lady you speak of is doing it until she finds someone like a bf or sugar daddy to take care of her so she may have different priorities.

Most of the guys I really click with and have a good friendship with are married lol. We know it's not going any further and it's nice to have it be uncomplicated and fun.

Thinking about the SP the OP mentioned perhaps she really doesn't want to be doing this job and is only happy when she meets clients she would want to spend free time with in her personal life.

Agreed, love would be a complication that wouldn't be welcome.
But a strong "like" would be great, no?

 

[SchlongConery]

A two pump chump with a millimetre Peter.

Now dems some lyrics fo a new rap

 

[Tempted Monk]

Ideal client definition can be different of course. It depends on the context and the point of view.

Leaves the money. Walks out the door.... and comes back once a week to repeat the same (or once a day).

If you think it is just a joke - you are wrong . Financial domination is one of the forms of BDSM, and such a client is called "cash slave" there. Here is just example of such practice: http://www.kalaudiakink.com/findom.html

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I asked this question one girl several years ago. Her answer was: "It is easy. The ideal client is the guy with whom I would get intimate in the real life, outside the business".
Do you agree with such definition?

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What makes the best client for me?
#1. Being respectful with their booking request and how they treat me in session
#2. Being clean and hygienic
#3. Paying in full and being considerate of appointment time
#4. Having a positive attitude and being friendly
....

Charlotte gave the excellent - clear and concise - definition of a good client. But what I asked about and what that girl meant is something extra, "icing on the top" of that good client "cake".
Let's assume two things first:
1. All clients we are talking about are good clients according to the definition above.
2. We are talking about professional client - provider sessions only and NOT about any sort of "romantic" relationships or dating client outside the business - nothing like this.

I will give you 3 "use cases" with the brief definition of two clients in the each. And you can choose which guy you would like to have as your client (or regular client). Just remember: all these guys are good clients by the definition above.
CASE 1.
Client #1 - 30+ tall, handsome, athletic guy who can perform and who thinks about provider as well not just about his pleasure. Client #2 - 60+ guy, not very attractive physically and without proper erection.
CASE 2.
Client #1 - Happy guy with easygoing personality who can easily keep the conversation going, has great sense of humor, makes you laugh. Client #2 - Gloomy guy, who is hard to establish contact with and who cannot support the conversation.
CASE 3.
Client #1 - The guy attractive for you in any way, the TYPE you could date IF you meet him in real life, outside business. Client #2 - The guy who is not attractive for you at all, the TYPE you would never spend time together IF you meet him in real life outside business.

If you say that you would prefer to see (professionally) the Client #2 - I won't believe you, sorry. Maybe I am wrong, but I believe every provider has some sort of image of ideal or preferred good client who she would like to see (professionally). Of course it is personal and very different but I think that girl I asked gave pretty good general definition: "The TYPE of guy with whom you would enjoy time together IF YOU MEET HIM IN REAL LIFE, no business involved".

Am I wrong or missing something here?

 

[Jaymasters]

I think Monk has a point, I know some SPs that really prefer some clients over the other, but in the end it's still all the same as the hour passes, she is paid and he is gone. Some girls have said it's hard to see certain types of men that they don't find attractive at all (ex, complete opposite of their sexual preferences). But obviously as Charlotte mentioned, it really doesn't matter for some SPs as they are all the same as long as they are respectful, hygienic, and pays in full. I don't think this argument will get anywhere because we are talking about people with different preferences.

 

[Kadie Lux]

Ideal client you ask?

1) Respectful
2) Can keep a good convo going
3) Wants to have fun
4) Has great hygiene!
5) Doesnt complain about rates​

 

[TFZL1]

I'm an Ideal Client!
Mostly. :yo:
Sometimes? :couple_inlove: