Definition of "clockwatcher"

[sempel]

I've seen many people use the term clockwatcher and it has a negative connotation. But in some cases they use it to indicate the lady cuts things off when the time is more/less up. IMO that's pretty fair so why it's considered bad I don't know.

OTOH, I think of a clockwatcher as a provider who literally keeps checking the clock, clearly waiting for time to be at a point where she can end the appointment. As such, she doesn't want to be there, is not engaged, and it's clearly a bad label.

What's your definition?

 

[GPIDEAL]

I think it can be BOTH options.

 

[VERYBADBOY]

I think it can be BOTH options.

True. However the first choice should be before the time is up. Rarely is it near the time usually about 5 minutes before the end who by definition would be classified as time short changers which can be a sub classification. The ones who give you zero warning and just say times up and give up on you does happen but I've found it rare.

Then there are the "reminders" those who give the verbal countdown these Can get pretty bad and especially annoying.

VBB

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

For me the ones that keep telling you your time will run out fast to the point where you are totally distracted.

 

[LT56]

For me the ones that keep telling you your time will run out fast to the point where you are totally distracted.

This sounds right to me.

 

[james t kirk]

For me the ones that keep telling you your time will run out fast to the point where you are totally distracted.

Been there done that.

Boner wrecker isn't it.

 

[malata]

when her fuckin' phone keeps beeping/ringing

 

[scdave2003]

Want to change my vote - disengaged

Clock watching client - want to get out of there but I paid for x amount of time dammit. And I want to get my rock off with this fugly dead fish.

 

[sempel]

True. However the first choice should be before the time is up. Rarely is it near the time usually about 5 minutes before the end who by definition would be classified as time short changers which can be a sub classification. The ones who give you zero warning and just say times up and give up on you does happen but I've found it rare.

Then there are the "reminders" those who give the verbal countdown these Can get pretty bad and especially annoying.

VBB

I've gotten a 5 min warning and/or alarm. Definitely a killer, especially since the lady is usually on a roll but stops. I'd estimate 50/50 success based on history. Is this the same as the countdown? I'm assuming it isn't.

 

[Annalise Lane]

Most ladies I've ever talked to have an internal clock. We know what time it is, and can wind up our date within 5 or 10 mins, without even giving him a sense we are watching the clock. I think when women are looking at a clock and making him feel rushed its a marketing twist. This is a TRUE skill in this business. For me, I can make 30 mins feel like an hour and an hour feel like 3.

When I go to see a professional, I pay for time by the hour. Whether it is my lawyer or therapist, they charge me extra. Why should it be different for us ladies ?

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Both sides can and do watch/use the clock in negative ways. So anyone who has a session where the "time" is the bigger focus, I would consider a clock watcher.

For example, the guy that wants to ensure his dick is in you for exactly 30 or 60 mins, is a clock watcher to me, and a lady who is also equally always concerned about time, is a clock watcher. Huge clock on the wall aboove your head and telling you at 15 mins left that you have 15 mins left for example. LOL.

However, a lady who cuts the appointment when the time is up, is not a clockwatch in my opinion. If time is up, time is up. Can't call her a clock watcher if she is not giving you 5 mins over time.

 

[sempel]

Most ladies I've ever talked to have an internal clock. We know what time it is, and can wind up our date within 5 or 10 mins, without even giving him a sense we are watching the clock. I think when women are looking at a clock and making him feel rushed its a marketing twist. This is a TRUE skill in this business. For me, I can make 30 mins feel like an hour and an hour feel like 3.

When I go to see a professional, I pay for time by the hour. Whether it is my lawyer or therapist, they charge me extra. Why should it be different for us ladies ?

You are paying the lawyer not for time but for completed work. They do the work, figure out the time it took, and charge you accordingly based on an hourly rate.

I've seen RMT's, personal trainers, and musical teachers. Each is paid X amount for Y time. In all cases, if we went over Y, they never charged extra. If they shorted me for some reason (PT and music), they'd arrange more time for the next session.

I'd say SP's are closer to the latter group. You are given a time and are supposed to tailor/control the session so things wrap up on time. If you finish early, you use the extra time to massage, chat, etc. If the time runs over, it runs over. Your choice to cut off the client on time or not although most ladies want the clients to finish and feel it's better to go over and finish than have a client leaving on time but unsatisfied.

Some clients will tip you if you go over, others won't. I've occasionally tipped an MPA when we went way over but it was a case of good effort and eager to please, not terrible time management. If an MPA massages your back for 30min during a 40 min bodyslide appointment, chances are she's either not giving you the BS or you are going over on time. Should you have to compensate for poor time management (especially in a couple of cases where you asked if you could flip over and lady insisted massage almost done and she wanted to complete it)?

 

[onehunglow]

Me in grade 5 at 3 oclock.

 

[sempel]

Both sides can and do watch/use the clock in negative ways. So anyone who has a session where the "time" is the bigger focus, I would consider a clock watcher.

For example, the guy that wants to ensure his dick is in you for exactly 30 or 60 mins, is a clock watcher to me, and a lady who is also equally always concerned about time, is a clock watcher. Huge clock on the wall aboove your head and telling you at 15 mins left that you have 15 mins left for example. LOL.

However, a lady who cuts the appointment when the time is up, is not a clockwatch in my opinion. If time is up, time is up. Can't call her a clock watcher if she is not giving you 5 mins over time.

There was a thread in the massage section listing girls who are clockwatchers. The prevailing premise was the ladies didn't give extra time so it felt rushed. I don't agree with that. If time is up, time is up. I find some ladies, especially if they like you and you haven't gotten off once, are generally ok with going a bit over to try and be successful. In my experience I could tell when it wasn't going to happen and either refused the extra time or after a few minutes over cut it off. Frankly, no point in making a girl work more when you know it's not going to happen.

I don't think guys can be labeled as clockwatchers since we are paying the bill so it's only fair that one gets the time more/less paid for. I am not sure what to say about a fellow who literally puts his dick in and is measuring the time. That's something else.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Unfortunately, whenever I do a hh session I never get 30 minutes from any SP, always ends up being a maximum of 15-17 minutes but I never want to make an issue of it because I might upset the SP (and I prefer to repeat with the same ones if they don't retire on me).

Both sides can and do watch/use the clock in negative ways. So anyone who has a session where the "time" is the bigger focus, I would consider a clock watcher.

For example, the guy that wants to ensure his dick is in you for exactly 30 or 60 mins, is a clock watcher to me, and a lady who is also equally always concerned about time, is a clock watcher. Huge clock on the wall aboove your head and telling you at 15 mins left that you have 15 mins left for example. LOL.

However, a lady who cuts the appointment when the time is up, is not a clockwatch in my opinion. If time is up, time is up. Can't call her a clock watcher if she is not giving you 5 mins over time.

 

[sempel]

Unfortunately, whenever I do a hh session I never get 30 minutes from any SP, always ends up being a maximum of 15-17 minutes but I never want to make an issue of it because I might upset the SP (and I prefer to repeat with the same ones if they don't retire on me).

SP's include shower time which eats up 6-10 min. 21 min not good. 27 min isn't bad. Using 3 min shower and 15 min time, you'd have 18 min done and 9 left. Wouldn't make an issue so much as suggesting something (cuddling, kissing, massage, etc). If she accommodates great, if she doesn't, bad attitude and don't repeat.

There's nothing wrong with trying to get your fair time. You just do it in a way that isn't confrontational. I don't want to get into an awkward argument plus some ladies may feel intimidated because you're a guy. But suggesting something, especially if it's not more penetrative sex, should go over fine with most.

 

[Annalise Lane]

I'm not sure you understood me, but its cool.

This business is VERY different and VERY personal. There is old behaviours, old stereotypes, old mentalities that we seem to inherently have.

"Paying for Sex is Shameful"
"She likes me so it should be free"

Get the fuck over yourself, everyone pays. Clocks are there so we are not taken for granted. Everyone is different, and treats the clock, their body, their .... etc AS they want.

Hookers - pay up front
Girl friend - time share
Wife - Pay at the end

YOU ARE paying !!

I've had clients start getting dressed before time is up, and I've replied with "I want MY hour"

You are paying the lawyer not for time but for completed work. They do the work, figure out the time it took, and charge you accordingly based on an hourly rate.

I've seen RMT's, personal trainers, and musical teachers. Each is paid X amount for Y time. In all cases, if we went over Y, they never charged extra. If they shorted me for some reason (PT and music), they'd arrange more time for the next session.

I'd say SP's are closer to the latter group. You are given a time and are supposed to tailor/control the session so things wrap up on time. If you finish early, you use the extra time to massage, chat, etc. If the time runs over, it runs over. Your choice to cut off the client on time or not although most ladies want the clients to finish and feel it's better to go over and finish than have a client leaving on time but unsatisfied.

Some clients will tip you if you go over, others won't. I've occasionally tipped an MPA when we went way over but it was a case of good effort and eager to please, not terrible time management. If an MPA massages your back for 30min during a 40 min bodyslide appointment, chances are she's either not giving you the BS or you are going over on time. Should you have to compensate for poor time management (especially in a couple of cases where you asked if you could flip over and lady insisted massage almost done and she wanted to complete it)?

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

I agree and I always think my hh starts the moment I enter so I am fair that way.

SP's include shower time which eats up 6-10 min. 21 min not good. 27 min isn't bad. Using 3 min shower and 15 min time, you'd have 18 min done and 9 left. Wouldn't make an issue so much as suggesting something (cuddling, kissing, massage, etc). If she accommodates great, if she doesn't, bad attitude and don't repeat.

There's nothing wrong with trying to get your fair time. You just do it in a way that isn't confrontational. I don't want to get into an awkward argument plus some ladies may feel intimidated because you're a guy. But suggesting something, especially if it's not more penetrative sex, should go over fine with most.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

I've had clients start getting dressed before time is up, and I've replied with "I want MY hour"

You are a treat!

 

[essguy_]

Sometimes, the worst clock watcher is me. eg: If I'm fatigued, I may look up and ask how much time's left. Most of my regulars understand this - I may even doze off after the first SOG as I run on very little sleep in general and sometimes it catches up with me. I actually love dozing off after sex - I get more rest in 5 - 10 minutes of post-sex napping than in an hour of regular sleep. So I always joke with providers to make sure they wake me up in time for a shower.

Anyway, for me the definition of a clockwatcher is somebody who makes you aware of the time in a way that creates extra stress or leaves the impression that the sooner you're out of there, the better. The good providers will keep on schedule but do it in a way that doesn't feel like you're punching in and out with a timecard.