Dearest Clients

[connected]

i dont think ill of you, that is the funniest part...i couldnt care less about you. i am just giving the reality of the situation, like it or not. I dont know you, your motives, etc.
my intention was not to belittle you, you have done that yourself.
my family...there is none.
I want to feel superior to someone? lol. its so simple what I said, everyone has to rush andstart teeing off...I LOVE this board, lol...so many silly people on here.

 

[guelphite24]

Guys, she's basically just letting her customers know why she's not working. Wish her well and let her be.

 

[Noelle Frost]

My parents respect my decision but are just worried about me. They value me being independent and they appreciate that I no longer rely on them financially.

Funny no matter how young or old we are !!! Our parents will always be the people in our lives who bring us down to earth and we must no matter what their opinion respect that they do have an opinion and are or have been responsible for our well being and in turn have a say in how we conduct out lives .... The degree will vary but never doubt their importance ....

 

[Damondean]

Maybe time for a mother-daughter combo? ) (Just kidding)
Good luck!
BTW: How did they find out?

 

[futurelegend]

Good to see that after months away that nothing has changed. connected is still on here saying things, just to be heard, and goating people into arguing with him, just for the satisfaction of the attention that it brings a sad and lonely sociopath. I did, however, notice that the usual suspects have learned that if you let an insane idiot argue with himself, eventually he gives up...shuts up...and goes away. If the others would learn, maybe he would start conducting himself like a decent person, rather than the childish shit disturber he is. But you all make it so easy for him to fuck with you.

ANYway...it is a tough situation to deal with, but Noelle strikes me as an incredibly intelligent and articulate woman, that is handling this the best way possible, both in her personal and private life. I wish you luck and commend you on your professionalism, in letting people know of potential conflicts.

I wish you the best.




...and for the record, I'm fully aware that I am just egging dis-connected on. Why not? It's been a while since we've had one of our pissing matches.

 

[kenpachi]

Eventually, time heals most wounds. People, especially your parents will forget the discovery and move on. They will always love you for the daughter that you are to them not because of your profession. If they don't, then either they are very old fashioned, or they were too proud once before. These types of moments really tests the bounds of bond between family members.

 

[steviewonder]

i dont think ill of you, that is the funniest part...i couldnt care less about you. i am just giving the reality of the situation, like it or not. I dont know you, your motives, etc.
my intention was not to belittle you, you have done that yourself.
my family...there is none.
I want to feel superior to someone? lol. its so simple what I said, everyone has to rush andstart teeing off...I LOVE this board, lol...so many silly people on here.

Good thing you don't have a family! If I was related to you I would disown you for being an ass!

 

[kenpachi]

connected does have some valid points. He is just voicing it. It might make him sound like a jerk, but at the end of the day, it's all business as ususal.

 

[Art Mann]

Good to see that after months away that nothing has changed. connected is still on here saying things, just to be heard, and goating people into arguing with him, just for the satisfaction of the attention that it brings a sad and lonely sociopath...

Eventually, time heals most wounds...

If it's any comfort, Miss Noélle, time also wounds most heels.

 

[dj1470]

Shame that it takes only a few characters to come in and use these forums for their own selfish entertainment to cause many to become disinterested and move on. No one can stop connected and the like from coming on this board...but no one can stop many of us to stop posting reviews or contributing because of their behavior.

Absolutely the reason I have tried to mellow.
But it's hard when people post stupidity or just plain wrong information.

 

[STASH]

Sorry Noelle about this problem and loss of your privacy with your family. I wish you well and hope it works out for you.
connected is an asshat and apparently disconnected from sympathy for a persons feelings.
He'd use you to fuck but could care less if your hurtin...............jerk.

 

[fun-guy]

Please bear with me while I process a recent event. For those who are looking forward to meeting me in the next few days, I must inform you that we will have to postpone. I am also in a state of shock and am not in the right state of mind to be meeting with clients for the next few days. Thank you in advance for your patience while I deal with this, and if I don't respond to your inquiries right away please understand why.

you made your bed, you lie in it.

you should of thought of their feelings before you started doing this, not after it.

I'm really not sure where this mini-lecture about taking responsibility and accepting consequences is coming from. I made this post merely to inform my clients of the situation and to explain why there is going to be some schedule changes and perhaps a lack of response to messages and e-mails for the next few days.

Actually connected, read the OP's first and subsequent post after your comment, it's pretty clear. She didn't start this thread asking for help or what to do in this situation, she merely was informing clients of her current state and not to be concerned if she doesn't respond in a timely manner....very professional on her part.

Don't know why you felt the need to lecture her, she didn't ask for that, she asked for your understanding if she doesn't get back to her clients, quite simple actually. No need to make this a bigger issue than it is.

 

[Saskatchewan]

tact? class?
coming from a bunch of guys paying for sex...and women getting paid to fuck anyone with $100 in their pocket....seriously???

reality too hard for some of you to snap into?
she made a choice...something she wanted to keep secret and was found out...must feel some shame in doing what she does, if not she would be open to tell her family. Obviously her parents will love her, they are her parents. 99.5% of the parental world unconditionally love their kids, murderers, rapists, theives and all.

DO NOT come on here acting all tuff and mighty...have some real class and tell your spouse' what some of you are doing...

I agree with you connected. Nobody these days wants to be accountable for their own decisions in life. That said, I feel for the poor girl, and wouldn't want to be in her position. If its true what she said, then she only has one option here. Namely, to realize the gig is up, and quit the biz. Its what her parents would want, and if she is a good daughter, then that is what she should do without hesitation.

 

[Noelle Frost]

This thread really has become quite something! At least I won't have to rent any DVDs for a while, lol. Interesting to see that people are still making assumptions about the situation. Not accountable for my actions? I don't technically HAVE to do anything for my parents, but I think I'm handlin this pretty darn well if you ask me. To be clear, they don't want me to quit if I dont want to. They respect my independence. They just want to make sure I'm being as safe as I can be, and are attempting to move forward. I am helping them do so by being open with them about the situation and explaining what exactly goes on in the world of Noelle. Things will be okay and I'm not going to quit. For those who think that makes me a bad daughter, I wish to hear no more of your patronizing lectures. If you can't resist, the ignore function will be my friend.

Secondly, I'd rather make money through these means (which I quite frankly enjoy) while I volunteer and work on personal projects in addition to finishing my degree (hey, did y'all realize I have a life outside of escorting? What a thought!). I don't need to take all of my parents money in order to live, because they don't have any. That's called respect for your parents. I also don't have to work a minimum wage position for a company that practically expects me to lick shit off a linoleum floor while wearing a hair net and suffering second degree burns from grease, or harass people into purchasing shoes that were made by a child laborer in Cambodia. Again, I'm still finishing my degree, so I'm qualified for very few positions until then.

My parents are not old fashioned and again, they want me to continue as long as I'm safe and happy. If your next doubt is that I'm not safe and happy, again I question why you feel entitled to assume that you know anything about my psyche or the daily happenings of my life, and I also question why you are willing to enable these unhappy/unsafe women by paying them for sex.

And to the overwhelming majority of you who have been supportive, thank you!

 

[Vash-T-Vay]

Thousands of woman every day in this province alone fight for escorting to be recognized as a real job. There is no need to be ashamed or thought as being a " good daughter" in revealing what you do as a means of income.
The privacy to this industry lies because of how judgmental people can be and harmful to those that take part in this industry.
Some are considered old fashioned for there beliefs. But some voice their " beliefs" to hide the fact they are partakers in this hobby .
No matter what you do, someone is always going to critisize you for it.
Any escort in this business did not wish when they were 7 years old to be in this business.
We all started it for one reason or another. Which is of no ones business. As it is no ones business that we do it.
I find it quite humorous that some on here that pay for it or so harsh in their comments. For some reason their thought is that they are better cause they pay for it. No one on this board is better than anyone else.
Noelle,
It's great that you posted an honest reason for your absence.
In the future I recommend not being so honest with this board. There are those who will always want to ruffle feathers and it's really not worth it.

 

[connected]

wow you guys are seriously f'd...i made a comment..MY OPINION, which I am entitled too. Now I am a jerk, sad lonely sociopath, blah blah blah, etc. etc.....LOL

this is entertaining, and it would be a lie to say it was not. BUT, its not the reason I posted MY OPINION...I never intend to ruffle feathers. I am a man of my own opinion and not afraid to voice it. I do not follow others lead, I dont do status quo. Just because I dont sit here like a goofy 9 yr old boy with a teacher crush acting lovey dovey with the sp's in town like half of the retards on this board do, tryig to earn extra terbie points, like its going to get some a free session, makes me out to be the bad guy...WHY is that?

So if not having an opinion and being afraid to voice it makes me a better terbie, you can shove it...futurelegend. what kind of a dick calls themself a legend? a sad lonely sociopath?

 

[train]

Don't know why you felt the need to lecture her, she didn't ask for that, she asked for your understanding if she doesn't get back to her clients, quite simple actually. No need to make this a bigger issue than it is.

He feels the need because he's a dick (read some of his other sweet posts) and thats what dicks do.

 

[Stoo]

My parents respect my decision but are just worried about me. They value me being independent and they appreciate that I no longer rely on them financially.

I was going to add, that whatever their reaction, it is likely born out of concern for your well being. My daughter is of the age where she could be working as an escort. On occasion, I have wondered what MY reaction would be. Obviously, to be judgmental would be highly hypocritical. I know that I would be constantly worried for her though.

Maybe you should invite a bunch of over to meet your folks, so they can see what a fine bunch we are?

Seriously though, I hope all goes well. I can't imagine how you are feeling...

 

[kenpachi]

I was going to add, that whatever their reaction, it is likely born out of concern for your well being. My daughter is of the age where she could be working as an escort. On occasion, I have wondered what MY reaction would be. Obviously, to be judgmental would be highly hypocritical. I know that I would be constantly worried for her though.

Maybe you should invite a bunch of over to meet your folks, so they can see what a fine bunch we are?

Seriously though, I hope all goes well. I can't imagine how you are feeling...

If your daughter was an escort, she would be making 10 time that of an average joe. An average joe makes 18-25 bucks an hour. Your daughter will be making 240+ bucks. Would be jealous that your kid makes more than you at a young age? If I had a daughter who was an escort, I'd go and kill all her clients. That would make an awesome thriller movie...

 

[Stoo]

Regardless of what she was making, it wouldn't diminish the worrying. Going out on a limb here... no daughter, right? The father/daughter relationship like no other...