How about implied occasional unfaithfulness? cause it's just not as hot if you have permission.
Dating a Civilian Man? ;)
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I had a relationship with an escort. Meet her as a client and we hit it off so well we began dating right away. At that time, she was new to the business. It wasn't her job that ruined the relationship, it was the lifestyle that had her getting into drugs. One day I realized I was supporting her habit. I had to end it.
You watch too many movies .... first - not ever guy who looks like Richard Gere is looking for an SP.
Picture instead a guy that looks like this:
Even if this guy bought up all her free professional time - do you think her heart will be into the relationship ?
First - I believe that whether she continues to work, you cannot pay for her time - she cannot charge you for sex if you are really her boyfriend.
Second - It is unfair to ask her to stop work any more than you stop your work while you are dating her..
I think most SP's work for a purpose, why not take the time to find out what her goals are ? Find out if you can both work together as a team to give her those goals. Tell her you want to spend more time with her. If she offers you a chance to pay her for more time - you are a customer and so - walk away.
There isn't a good answer to this one.
I notice a lot of the guys have mentioned unfaithfulness. Given the likely percentage of men on this board who are unfaithful to their SO (if they have one)... that's a little rich.
As much as we'd all like to think we're beyond various morality plays and jealousies, we're not. And a girlfriend working as an SP pushes a lot of buttons.
No, "Pretty Woman" isn't a good plan for how to date an SP. Not even if you have that kind of money. Not for every lady, at least. Some don't want that. Going in with a plan that doesn't take into account the particular lady you're with, whether a Pretty Woman scenario is what she wants or not, is ridiculous.
There is no one-size-fits-all plan on how an SP should date a civilian, or how a civilian should date an SP. It's just silly. The only thing I think any of us can do is to wish these ladies the best of luck and that they and their potential SOs can figure out a way to make it work that works for them.
I notice a lot of the guys have mentioned unfaithfulness. Given the likely percentage of men on this board who are unfaithful to their SO (if they have one)... that's a little rich.
As much as we'd all like to think we're beyond various morality plays and jealousies, we're not. And a girlfriend working as an SP pushes a lot of buttons.
No, "Pretty Woman" isn't a good plan for how to date an SP. Not even if you have that kind of money. Not for every lady, at least. Some don't want that. Going in with a plan that doesn't take into account the particular lady you're with, whether a Pretty Woman scenario is what she wants or not, is ridiculous.
There is no one-size-fits-all plan on how an SP should date a civilian, or how a civilian should date an SP. It's just silly. The only thing I think any of us can do is to wish these ladies the best of luck and that they and their potential SOs can figure out a way to make it work that works for them.
I've dated SP's. it's been fun. SP's and I have also fallen in love. Not fun as it always ends up with a double standard one way or another. Nuff said.
I can see this happening . Boyfriend says to girlfriend SP . Honey I like to go out tommorrow after work and see Mary for a quick one . I'm kind of short this week . Could you give me a few hundred bucks to make it possible . This is right after the Sp gets home from work .
What would happen here ????????
Nothing is hidden . Open relationship . Shouldn't be a problem for her to give him a few hundred dollars even though she worked hard all day making that money . Girlfriend doesn't love her clients . Boyfriend doesn't love Mary .
What would happen here ????????
Nothing is hidden . Open relationship . Shouldn't be a problem for her to give him a few hundred dollars even though she worked hard all day making that money . Girlfriend doesn't love her clients . Boyfriend doesn't love Mary .
Good sps are like acadamy award actresses they make there sections so real the fucking, sucking , swollowing cumming and some acually get off on you as a client .So I am wondering what is left or what do you do different as a sp for the one you call boy- friend lover. For sure any normal man that cares about you for sure will get jealous .I think you would have to go out with a guy like from a swingers Club that acually gets off on what your doing !
I could be wrong, but I'm guessing the "Pretty Woman" scenario is what a lot of SP's would kill for in a client. A good looking guy, who knows how to treat a lady, practices impeccable hygiene, is an occasional hobbyist, is financial self sufficient, and looking for a life partner.
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So if my BF is a mechanic, do I get him to fix the car, or do I ask for money to take it to another mechanic to get it fixed????
Same thing no?????
In my experience, and what helped me realize the difference. Is that sex is JUST sex, it is not love or intimacy. Being able to realize that there is a break between the two is fundamental in a SPs life.
I know as a man, my knee jerk reaction is to think "mine...my woman", and get posessive. But that is short sighted and detrimental if you want to date a lady that realizes the division of the two.
She works with sex, it is her trade. However she cares about you, she's with you, she chose you...
I don't think it can be made any clearer than that.
But since posessing your mate seems to be an evolutionary trait and part of tbe primitive subconscious brain. It is hard to steer your mind from it, hard but not impossible.
I remember the first time I went to go see the woman I was dating that was worki g as an SP and the receptionist told me she was occupied.
A terrible disturbance fell on me and I walked around town for who knows how long fuming.
But when she called me, to ask if I was coming to our room that night. I felt so relieved and realized I had nothing to be angry about, she wanted me and spent her nights with me.
There are other deeper reasons that apply, but in reality the most grand evident reason to never feel jealous when in a relationship, any relationship is just that. She chose you
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Thats me, thats me!!!!!!!wrong Ridgeman. Take out the "looking for a life partner" part and you've got the description of an excellent client.
You would spend an obscene amount of money in a Rodeo high fashion store on a girl who is so aloof in her attitude to you that refuses to kiss you ?
Run away from the movie concept of a Pretty Woman john - delusional for all involved.
Soooo your saying the s.p. want to date : Hot & Rich Guy ....... well that pretty much sums up every single Toronto lady not just s.p. They get a good dose of it on t.v. & then go out with sperficial mentality & inflated egos ...... on the look-out for Mr. Hollywood.I could be wrong, but I'm guessing the "Pretty Woman" scenario is what a lot of SP's would kill for in a client. A good looking guy, who knows how to treat a lady, practices impeccable hygiene, is an occasional hobbyist, is financial self sufficient, and looking for a life partner.
hehe, I was thinking the same thing!love how, in your scenario... you have HER paying for HIM to go have sex???? WTF ? what planet are you from? He wants to pay for sex why can't he use his own money? That's fucking hilarious.
Huh? He wants to f*ck another woman with his girlfriends money? Ya serious dude?
No, what if he is only a Ford mechanic, and you drive a Mercedes?
Or say, my gf-sp is asian, but I have a fantasy to bang a black chick?
Not the same at all.
