I really wish women would stop trying to appeal to potential customers by referring to them as "daddy", or still worse, "boo" or similar terms. I'm not your daddy, woman, and frankly, it's disconcerting and disrespectful.
"Daddy" language
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Girls repeatedly using the word "babe" or "baby" also turn me off.
They seem to use it more in their advertising than in person. Usually, the woman who is the most gushy in her ads, is ice-cold in person.
I agree. Once they meet they can decide what to call you, if anything. It's all about marketing to be real right?
I really cant stand being called BABE or BABY by clients. You are right, its disconcerting and disrespesctful and tells me A LOT about the person. HARD PASS lollll. (my #1 pet peeve)
Once saw an SP and she asked if I was into daty except she made a word out of it instead of the initials. She realized quickly from my shocked look that I thought she said daddy and that it wasn't my thing.
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Never had an SP call me daddy, but once had a friend with benefits in the throes of passion suddenly start saying fuck me daddy! It was distracting, but not enough to interrupt the action ...daddy went to town ?. Wasn't my thing but if she was into it, why not.
Had a few dancers call me daddy over the years, and I found it signals different things based on the age of the dancer.
When its someone a lot younger and I could literally be her daddy, then it gets into this age thing that doesn't work for me. Usually I'll change the tone by saying something like "I'm not your daddy, but he might be around here somewhere so let's not get caught doing x, y, z." Really changes the tone to something more playful.
When its a woman my age (I'm about 40) calling me daddy, I find its her way of saying that I can be in charge, that I have permission to do more if I want. Which is a lot of fun too.
To be honest I take it as a compliment. They are searching and testing to see what I like, hoping that if I get turned on then it'll makes them more money (They're usually right).
When its someone a lot younger and I could literally be her daddy, then it gets into this age thing that doesn't work for me. Usually I'll change the tone by saying something like "I'm not your daddy, but he might be around here somewhere so let's not get caught doing x, y, z." Really changes the tone to something more playful.
When its a woman my age (I'm about 40) calling me daddy, I find its her way of saying that I can be in charge, that I have permission to do more if I want. Which is a lot of fun too.
To be honest I take it as a compliment. They are searching and testing to see what I like, hoping that if I get turned on then it'll makes them more money (They're usually right).
I don't like when they use daddy language. My father never taught me French so I won't understand what they are saying.
It's just as uncomfortable to be asked to call someone daddy as I'm sure it is when it's offered up without prior conversations
Its usually about control.
I'm down for dirty name exchange but there has to be some precursor conversation first.
Its usually about control.
I'm down for dirty name exchange but there has to be some precursor conversation first.
Well.... let's respect that some gents really appreciate a little adulation...after all this Sunday is FATHERS' DAY. Which ladies are offering to make you feel 'special'? As usual, this is just tongue in cheek... or wherever. Geez, and all I ask for on FATHERS' DAY is to be reminded how I became a father.
If someone called me that, I would immediately associate them with some bitter old woman, working at a diner with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth. Definitely not for me.
Totally understandable if it's the first or second time meeting.
Do you really expect the provider to remember your name after meeting you not even 15 minutes and you're both now totally naked?
Probably 3rd or 4th meeting, I'd expect them to start remembering our "name"
Do you really expect the provider to remember your name after meeting you not even 15 minutes and you're both now totally naked?
Probably 3rd or 4th meeting, I'd expect them to start remembering our "name"
TBH any diminutive/pet language from the get go sets my teeth on edge - babe, hun, luv, etc...
To each their own, but not my speed.
To each their own, but not my speed.
