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Contacting SPs in this forum

When it's generally ok to contact SPs

  • SPs should only be contacted if you're thinking of requesting a service from her soon.

    Votes: 26 59.1%
  • It's generally ok to contact an SP through PM just to say her pic looks nice or something like that.

    Votes: 18 40.9%

  • Total voters
    44

Scott75

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Jan 29, 2012
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A little bit ago, I was PMing an SP in this forum. I originally messaged her because she had responded to a message of mine in the forum, so I figured that could be a good enough reason to message her. In the message, I told her that I would have made a friend request but I was somewhat unsure if she'd take it well, so I didn't. She said that was fine, so I did. She then asked me if I thought that many guys here were afraid of contacting SPs and I said that I could only speak for myself, and ofcourse I personally am not able to actually pay for anything right now. This did get me to thinking though. What do people think: Do SPs generally only want to be contacted for services here? Or do you think it'll generally be well received if you contact one just because, say, you like their pic? Anyway, all Poll answers welcome.
 

shack

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Oct 2, 2001
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Unless you are harassing them, I don't think they mind getting messages. Could be future business.
 

legmann

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Dec 2, 2001
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I do it to court/flirt with an SP I'm already interested in and hope to book; some contact SP's just to 'chat' and waste time.
 

Partyman1970

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Nov 13, 2011
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I appreciate this is NOT a dating or general chat forum & thus escorts are here to solicit biz. , not friends. Thus I feel it only appropriate to chat them up briefly if serious about persuing their services.
 

Knight Rider

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Aug 23, 2008
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I would contact an SP by PM, but only if I am hoping to or planning on scheduling an appointment with her.
 

rld

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Oct 12, 2010
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I suspect it varies from SP to SP.

Personally I only contact them if it is about business.
 

Scott75

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Jan 29, 2012
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Ok, thanks everyone. Based on the poll, the view seems to be about 3 to 1 that if you're not thinking of booking something with them soon, probably best not to contact them.
 

Fuck Face

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Jul 30, 2011
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Whenever I'm hammered, I PM the ladies and tell them I wanna tongue punch their fart box.
 

MojoRisin'

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Jul 14, 2003
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SPs are just normal people like the rest of us here on terb right? So if you would send a pm to me or any other terb then why not send one to an SP here on terb too? As mentioned if you are nice and polite why not? IMO if an sp doesnt want pm unless its to book then it says alot.
 

Rockslinger

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Apr 24, 2005
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When I was young and foolish, I sent a PM to an SP saying I could never get through on her workphone. She replied giving me her civilian phone number. I called and she picked up and said she couldn't talk because she was in a restaurant with her civilian friends. End of story.
 

wigglee

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Oct 13, 2010
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i imagine they get their share of losers trying to "connect" on a personal level because they don't have any coin......dudes, go to a laundrymat and strike up a conversation, or take a yoga class!
 

Aardvark154

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Jan 19, 2006
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While I wouldn't just PM to say I really like your photograph, otherwise if you have something to say related to a thread which is more appropriately discussed privately rather than publicly why are you treating an SP any differently than you would anyone else on TERB?
 

frankcastle

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Feb 4, 2003
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I wouldn't approach a SP on terb unless I had some interest in booking them in the near future.

The forum allows them to interact with us on general topics but I draw the line there.
 

frankcastle

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Feb 4, 2003
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A little bit ago, I was PMing an SP in this forum. I originally messaged her because she had responded to a message of mine in the forum, so I figured that could be a good enough reason to message her. In the message, I told her that I would have made a friend request but I was somewhat unsure if she'd take it well, so I didn't. She said that was fine, so I did. She then asked me if I thought that many guys here were afraid of contacting SPs and I said that I could only speak for myself, and ofcourse I personally am not able to actually pay for anything right now. This did get me to thinking though. What do people think: Do SPs generally only want to be contacted for services here? Or do you think it'll generally be well received if you contact one just because, say, you like their pic? Anyway, all Poll answers welcome.
Reading an earlier post I think you mentioned that you won't be hobbying any time soon.

So effectively you are like the tire kicker who goes to a car lot. This is their place of work so be mindful of that.
 
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