I agree with the dry fingers bit
but she's way too angry....
Angry, or just being honest? I think it's refreshing to hear what an SP really thinks.
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Angry, or just being honest? I think it's refreshing to hear what an SP really thinks.
We're all adults here, you don't have to say 'number 2'. Doodie or mud butt would have sufficed.
LOL. Not all. But, let me ask you this - how many SPs do you think truly enjoy their job? I mean, actually love what they do?
I can count on one hand the number I have gotten to know and I would say that they do. Most enjoy the job for the freedom that it offers...but get out (or would get out) at the first opportunity.
Also, I've heard similar comments from other sexworkers. Imagine spending your days with men fawning all over you, treating you like a princess, showering you with gifts and praise....generally being nice guys...but you know that half or more than half of them are married...with kids. Don't you think that would affect your view of "happily ever after"?
Cynical? Hellzya. And I can't blame them.
Does anyone really enjoy their job? Its called work for a reason. SP's get paid a premium for putting up with bs. Bouncers, Cashiers, etc dont.
You don't have to love your customers to do your job but it certainly helps if you have at least a minimum level of mutual respect to make it tolerable.
The client version of this attitude would treat the SP like lowly piece of shit with no care how the SP feels or her comfort level since you are paying for her services.
I agree I think of it as the time we spend together, pleasing each other and sharing passion.... It is beyond compensation..its about enjoyment... if you don't like what you do..change it
I agree I think of it as the time we spend together, pleasing each other and sharing passion.... It is beyond compensation..its about enjoyment... if you don't like what you do..change it
Yes, 100 percent said perfectly.
How many people in general you know truly enjoy their jobs? I don't know many and I certainly don't enjoy mine. I can also say I don't enjoy a lot of things I do, but I refuse to let the ones opposite to my mindset fuck with my head and emotions. I think the same thinking applies with industry girls. Some choose to look at the positives while others get dragged through this emotional and mental mess and let the cynics spread into their minds like a plague. Don't get me wrong, we need cynics to provide the balance, just as we need the optimists and the ppl in between. I am also not trying to take away from what they go through and can't compare my dislike to theirs, but the point is that we all find ways to deal with it. I also don't like separating what I do and always treat them like I would anybody else I meet and see them as equal.
People see this industry with many perspectives, with the cynical and negative ones being more popular. I think if this kind of mindset was really prevalent with them, many girls wouldn't last as long.
I think we as clients will never know what goes on in their heads or with their emotions. Each girl is so unique and so different, even though we are comfortable labelling them or boxing them in or think we know them.
Your statement about the married men is a powerful one and I can see how it can fuck with them, as we tend to give them our best sometimes and treat them like they are the only ones that matter ATM and just disappear from their life after the session sometimes for months then appear out of the blue and pretend like it was just yesterday we saw them. I can see how this is really bad since it makes it hard on them especially when the connection and chemistry is there. I am guilty of doing this too and I have at times given these girls the best of myself that I have never shared with anybody else b4 and then just disappear after the session. So yea, I can see how this can fuck with them experiencing this day in and day out, however pointing this in an effective way might actually make it harder for them.
I don't really know if my way is the way to keep them happy or contribute to their enjoyment of their profession. However I am not convinced that pointing out these powerful things will make this easier for them either.
You can find beauty in almost anything as long as you give your mind the chance to accept it as is.
Virtually every job/career has its upside and downside. For an SP, being rammed with a jumbo cock is one of the downsides. Making $500 an hour is a major upside.
For a hockey player, getting hit with a 100 mph slapshot in the groin is one of the downsides.
For a hockey player, getting hit with a 100 mph slapshot in the groin is one of the downsides.
As clients, we will never know them. But, if you have the opportunity to become friends or trusted confidants, it can be eye opening.
I'm reminded of a post by a long-retired SP here. She said that it was all nice and good that men fawned over her all day long, putting her on a pedestal and making all kinds of promises...but at the end of every day, she spent her nights alone.
It's a job, but it's incredibly intimate and personal and lines are easily blurred. We're only human.
it is wonderful to be wanted and desired and hear sweet words from men however, as was mentioned above, we spend our nights alone.
Every job has its ups and downs (pun intended) but having a bad day does not mean we hate our job. I love what I do and for the most part I thoroughly enjoy the time I spend with my guys but yes, there are those that make me glad I am being paid. Would I continue to work if I hit the Jackpot? Of course not. I would be getting laid often by a variety of men on my terms however and enjoying every minute of it
Sophia Sinclair
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It is wonderful to be wanted and desired and hear sweet words from men however, as was mentioned above, we spend our nights alone.
Every job has its ups and downs (pun intended) but having a bad day does not mean we hate our job. I love what I do and for the most part I thoroughly enjoy the time I spend with my guys but yes, there are those that make me glad I am being paid. Would I continue to work if I hit the Jackpot? Of course not. As many people wouldn't. I would be getting laid often by a variety of men on my terms however and enjoying every minute of it.
+ 100
I get why she's so angry. I get trolled everyday. Sometimes from when I first wake up and the entire day I only get inquiries from idiots. That doesn't mean my anger is directed at everyone. Just the idiots. The people who are too dumb, unattractive, rude or just plain bad at sex to just go out and get a girlfriend. I mean, I've heard it all. I stopped putting my number in my ads because of all the freaks that have completely lost touch with reality trying to contact me and book a session. I've even had people contact me... chat me up for a few days and say something like "I thought this was free. I'm not paying for an escort!". They were the ones that sought me out and contacted me from my ads that were very obviously for an escort. They chatted up and escort and thought they would get a girlfirend. The requests for BBFS are always absurd and they always become argumentative and rude when you say no. I mean, I'm just trying to protect myself. These guys always talk to me like I am the scum of the earth and that they wouldn't touch me with someone else's dick (but they wanted to fuck me without a condom previously and they end up contact me again a week later). I mean everytime someone acts up and starts talking to me like i'm a piece of shit. I know that I should expect an apology in an email 2 to 7 days later. I know that these guys will always be alone, they are my bread and butter but it makes it really difficult not to get angry and hold a grudge against everyone.
I personally get treated like sh*t everyday, so good for her for speaking her mind!
I didn't agree with all of that , but I found this part really funny..
"I have to voice this in the loudest possible way because I STILL get it…and I quote “I’m only here to please you, tell me what you like…that’s all I want…” barf, barf, barf….If you gave me what I wanted it would be 5 bills and your back, on the way out the door. Why are clients SO damn concerned with ‘making me cum’? The fact that they say they are only there to please me really really annoys the shit out of me. They are there to masturbate into me, and this is VERY different, ladies and gentlemen, from making love with your significant other. So guy’s please who the fuck are you kidding? We are emotional creatures, and just a little more complicated then just you plugging away at us and expecting for us to ‘cum’. Gross"
I personally get treated like sh*t everyday, so good for her for speaking her mind!
I didn't agree with all of that , but I found this part really funny..
"I have to voice this in the loudest possible way because I STILL get it…and I quote “I’m only here to please you, tell me what you like…that’s all I want…” barf, barf, barf….If you gave me what I wanted it would be 5 bills and your back, on the way out the door. Why are clients SO damn concerned with ‘making me cum’? The fact that they say they are only there to please me really really annoys the shit out of me. They are there to masturbate into me, and this is VERY different, ladies and gentlemen, from making love with your significant other. So guy’s please who the fuck are you kidding? We are emotional creatures, and just a little more complicated then just you plugging away at us and expecting for us to ‘cum’. Gross"
Sophia Sinclair
Naughty but Nice
SF,
I don't know how long you've been doing this and believe you me, we all have those days but I think you will find that over time you will hone your screening process, learning to weed out the bad from the good. I know that when I first started in the SP end of the sex trade I contacted and entreated upon a mature, long time running and successful SP for any pearls of wisdom she could impart to me. Her main caveat to me was to always be polite, yet curt, as many guys will waste your time if you let them. Hang in there and I'm certain with time you'll get better at this, growing a thicker skin (advice I've had to take to heart myself) and won't get so frustrated.
I hope this helps!
I don't know how long you've been doing this and believe you me, we all have those days but I think you will find that over time you will hone your screening process, learning to weed out the bad from the good. I know that when I first started in the SP end of the sex trade I contacted and entreated upon a mature, long time running and successful SP for any pearls of wisdom she could impart to me. Her main caveat to me was to always be polite, yet curt, as many guys will waste your time if you let them. Hang in there and I'm certain with time you'll get better at this, growing a thicker skin (advice I've had to take to heart myself) and won't get so frustrated.
I hope this helps!
Sophia Sinclair
Naughty but Nice
Valeria that is one insanely hot pic
Agree 100% SP. That almost lifesize pic of her bum looks lickable both inside and out!
We always have terb when feeling lonely or just need to let it off sometimes or connect. Chances are very high you'll find somebody who will understand how you feel or what you're going through. Even though I don't know you I do care what U have to say + others who are respectful on here. I know it's not what you wanna hear, but many times it made me feel better turning to terb to escape my reality. Also, just because you are with somebody like SO does not mean the loneliness stops at night. Sometimes, we find likeminded ppl at the most unexpected places
Nice response BTW, and I love them ups and downs too, but not too rough
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