Common stereotypes and misconceptions [escort edition]

[Vera.Reis]

Interesting because I always read on merb that there’s not enough ebony women in agencies and that it’s not representative of Montreal.

Ignore people like this, they think they something about how businesses work but they don't. I'm not going to home depot looking for Louboutin shoes, I know I won't find it there. That's why agencies think they won't make money with women who aren't thin, white and in their 20s. Clients looking for other demographics know to look for Indys as they are very rare at spas and agencies.

If businesses sold whatever would make money we wouldn't have specialty stores, each business would sell all kinds of things. The businesses hiring has far less to do with a proper market analysis, and more to do with having created an expectation amongst consumers about what is to be found there.

 

[Darts]

I doubt I have as much experience with sex trade workers as some members here claim.

I'll just say they come from a variety of backgrounds. Very hard to stereotype them.

One of my most interesting experience was with a woman (I guess in her 30's). She is Portuguese and owns a small office cleaning company and escorts on the side. Has a young son who is a huge Raptors fan. So, I gave her a couple of Raptors tickets.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I doubt I have as much experience with sex trade workers as some members here claim.

I'll just say they come from a variety of backgrounds. Very hard to stereotype them.

One of my most interesting experience was with a woman (I guess in her 30's). She is Portuguese and owns a small office cleaning company and escorts on the side. Has a young son who is a huge Raptors fan. So, I gave her a couple of Raptors tickets.

Talking about stereotypes, as a portuguese person can I say this is the most stereotypical type of company for a portuguese woman to have cleanliness is in our DNA, so I'm sure it's very successful.

 

[Darts]

Talking about stereotypes, as a portuguese person can I say this is the most stereotypical type of company for a portuguese woman to have cleanliness is in our DNA, so I'm sure it's very successful.

A few years ago I was still in the office when a co-worker called from somewhere in the wild to say he needed some files in my possession and would come down to the office to pick them up. I said it after 6PM I have to leave but I'll put them outside my office with a note saying they are: "Not garbage, do not take."

Yup, you guessed it. Fortunately, we found them in the large garbage bin in the basement and my excellent career was saved.

 

[Y_Diner]

Really convenient to seemingly ignore the backlash from clients on to the "how to be a good client" list yes it's only one side, very good.

Okay Ms. You’re right. Of course. You win.
Hopefully you become a lawyer soon, you come off as a misandrist. My friend completed her law degree in 3 years at Ossgoode, then little extra time for her articling/internship. Thought I read on a now deleted thread that you have been at it for 8 years? I’m sure I’m wrong. I you finish soon.

 

[Vera.Reis]

A few years ago I was still in the office when a co-worker called from somewhere in the wild to say he needed some files in my possession and would come down to the office to pick them up. I said it after 6PM I have to leave but I'll put them outside my office with a note saying they are: "Not garbage, do not take."

Yup, you guessed it. Fortunately, we found them in the large garbage bin in the basement and my excellent career was saved.

for next time "não é lixo" will do the trick lol

 

[Vera.Reis]

Okay Ms. You’re right. Of course. You win.
Hopefully you become a lawyer soon, you come off as a misandrist. My friend completed her law degree in 3 years at Ossgoode, then little extra time for her articling/internship. Thought I read on a now deleted thread that you have been at it for 8 years? I’m sure I’m wrong. I you finish soon.

As normal you read wrong, I have 9 years post secondary, I'm in my second year of law, basically everyone completes law in 3 years. And it's Osgoode =)

 

[Karly_Summers]

I have social anxiety too. Coming from the other side of the coin this job and the experiences i've had have actually helped me not overthink my interactions with most people like the barista or my peers in class. I am just as happy to set boundaries now in my personal life as my work life which was a huge struggle for me before. I also find it easier to relax into a conversation. I think getting to meet such a range of people has also given me more confidence in my day to day life. You guys have really helped me flourish in my personal life and for that i'm thankful
-Karly Summers

 

[Karly_Summers]

When a spa or agency owner decides whether or not to add someone to their roster the primary consideration is will this person make me money. They know the market demand-that's it.

I had multiple agencies not even bother to contact me back before Mirage did and i'm grateful they have always been so sweet and welcoming with me and took a shot. I think we should listen to providers experiences and learn from them to make the industry more inclusive for everyone
-Karly

 

[Y_Diner]

As normal you read wrong, I have 9 years post secondary, I'm in my second year of law, basically everyone completes law in 3 years. And it's Osgoode =)

Good for you sweetheart!
And yes I know you enjoy being right.
Perhaps if you read my post again you’ll see I wrote the words “ I thought”, and I could be wrong” which would imply I was not sure. Thanks for clarification. Perhaps you should not practice selective reading senora (accent on n)
And yes I made a spelling mistake and my phone did a wrong autocorrect. You sure love pointing out peoples mistakes.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Good for you sweetheart!
And yes I know you enjoy being right.
Perhaps if you read my post again you’ll see I wrote the words “ I thought”, and I could be wrong” which would imply I was not sure. Thanks for clarification. Perhaps you should not practice selective reading senora (accent on n)
And yes I made a spelling mistake and my phone did a wrong autocorrect. You sure love pointing out peoples mistakes.

Just when some's sassy with me =) I'm sometimes wrong, but rarely here lol

 

[LC18]

The thread “how to be a bad client” is still up

 

[Darts]

Thanks.
I'll keep that in mind for next time. LOL!

Sorry for interrupting the thread. Just wanted to mention that SP's come from all kind of backgrounds. I thought it was a fair trade. 2 Raptor tickets for 1 hour of her service.

 

[MarcoHardOnFire]

I don’t think people here really understand probability. There is a significantly higher probability that you will encounter a drug addict, someone with father issues etc… as a prostitute. However, this doesn’t mean its valid to assume any specific escort that you are meeting falls into these categories.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I don’t think people here really understand probability. There is a significantly higher probability that you will encounter a drug addict, someone with father issues etc… as a prostitute. However, this doesn’t mean its valid to assume any specific escort that you are meeting falls into these categories.

I think you do not understand statistics, shows some data or move along.

 

[Darts]

One of my most interesting experience was with a woman (I guess in her 30's). She is Portuguese and owns a small office cleaning company and escorts on the side. Has a young son who is a huge Raptors fan. So, I gave her a couple of Raptors tickets.

I had downloaded her ad from back when. I decided to re-visit her ad last night and remember she is one of the few escorts who post full face pics.

 

[Escortlover24]

Going off topic it makes no sense to me that in German speaking countries like Germany, Austria and Switzerland there is a huge demand for black women and can charge double or alot more, when browsing escort agencies, massage parlors and other erotic places black women charge 200 euros versus the 150 euros white women charge, or 100 euros for 30 minutes versus the 50 euros white women charge. There is not a huge demand among German Canadian men or German American men for black women. Alot of black Brazilian and black American women love to work in Germany.

 

[LC18]

Going off topic it makes no sense to me that in German speaking countries like Germany, Austria and Switzerland there is a huge demand for black women and can charge double or alot more, when browsing escort agencies, massage parlors and other erotic places black women charge 200 euros versus the 150 euros white women charge, or 100 euros for 30 minutes versus the 50 euros white women charge. There is not a huge demand among German Canadian men or German American men for black women. Alot of black Brazilian and black American women love to work in Germany.

I have a lot of German, Russian, Hungarian clients. I’m happy cause I love the accent

 

[Escortlover24]

Why are German men obsessed with black women that's my question.