Clothing requests for the session.

[Teal]

I always wanted to request a lady wear yoga pants. Because yoga pants make any ass look bigger. How do providers feel when a client makes a request like that? Do you think they're pushy or demanding?

I thought about this when an agency asked me about any special requests. I went "Uh... no?" Not used to being asked that.

 

[Don]

Clothing requests are very common and usually not a big deal to providers.. as long as it is not too wacky.

The bigger issue is finding a provider who takes it seriously enough to come through.

 

[Teal]

Clothing requests are very common and usually not a big deal to providers.. as long as it is not too wacky.

The bigger issue is finding a provider who takes it seriously enough to come through.

So sometimes, they 'forget'?

 

[keekaas]

I always wanted to request a lady wear yoga pants. Because yoga pants make any ass look bigger. How do providers feel when a client makes a request like that? Do you think they're pushy or demanding?

I thought about this when an agency asked me about any special requests. I went "Uh... no?" Not used to being asked that.

Can't see how it could be considered demanding. Isn't this about living a fantasy? That's why I'm here. My special clothing request would be a lady dressed as a Candy Cane. Now that's sexy.

 

[Art Mann]

My usual request is no clothes. Let's just get naked and fuck!

 

[GrandBlasterK]

My usual request is no clothes. Let's just get naked and fuck!

Agreed, but at least allow her to wear a pair of heels man! She'll feel empowered while you pound her.

 

[Art Mann]

Nah ... ditch the heels ... makes Asian Cowgirl too precarious.

But I did forget to mention .... Ladies, you can leave your hat on!

 

[AllisonElm]

I think it's all about how you ask!

This would be a good way to go about it:

"If it's not too much trouble I've always loved the look of ___________ and would love you to wear that during our session! Of course if it's too much trouble or you prefer not to take wardrobe requests I understand, (I didn't see any mention of it on your website) please just wear whatever you feel sexy in!"

Also if you have something really particular in mind you could offer to buy it, or offer to reimburse her for picking it up especially for you. I'd ask the lady for her size, though many indy providers list that on their website. (Something like yoga pants would likely not be a problem as most ladies have these - but something really specific like an equestrian outfit might be a different story.)

If the woman is independent, she may have something about wardrobe requests on her website.

If a provider doesn't take requests, and a certain piece of clothing will make or break the enjoyment of your session, just find someone who is okay with requests. I totally understand why some providers wouldn't want to take requests. It's a personal decision!

 

[Don]

So sometimes, they 'forget'?

Yes but more often the issue is that they make a half hearted effort to come through. What I mean is that I always make outfit requests (lingerie and such) and because the request is important to me, my request is detailed (specific colour, type, etc). Then the SP and I will come to an agreement on what she feels she can handle. But when the time comes for the appointment, they come with say the wrong colour or forget a part of the outfit or decided some part is not worth the effort and assume an alternate is good enough. I admit that I am a stickler for details so I'd probably get annoyed more than most.

My suggestion is to find independents who advertise that they handle outfit/role-play requests. They tend to put more priority into the outfit requests.

 

[Sanders1]

watching a fit, in shape SP walk up the stairs in yoga pants... awesome view!

 

[Ridgeman08]

watching a fit, in shape SP (fill in the blank)...

Blank: pretty much anything...

AWESOME VIEW!

:eyebrows: :thumb:

 

[TheHulk]

Personally I don't like ladies opening the door nude. Stripping each other slowly is sexy. Outfit wise if shes fit definitely yoga pants and a skimpy tank top. Skirts are hot too

 

[thumper18474]

I remember seeing Candi in Oshawa one time...I enter the place ..she is wearing a Black and pink #..sheer..and SHORT...as we walked up the stairs to play...all I could stare at was her gorgeous bum..sticking out the bottom of her nightie...gotta say..that view has stuck in my head..and want her in that..next time we get together!!!!

As far as wardrobe requests...I like the contrasting look....
If she has tanned/dark skin...I want something light..white ..pale yellow...pink
If she has fair skin...something Dark...like a Deep blue...or black......Easily removable...(I like to unwrap my toys .....slowly......)

 

[Celticman]

I remember seeing Candi in Oshawa one time...I enter the place ..she is wearing a Black and pink #..sheer..and SHORT...as we walked up the stairs to play...all I could stare at was her gorgeous bum..sticking out the bottom of her nightie...gotta say..that view has stuck in my head..and want her in that..next time we get together!!!!

As far as wardrobe requests...I like the contrasting look....
If she has tanned/dark skin...I want something light..white ..pale yellow...pink
If she has fair skin...something Dark...like a Deep blue...or black......Easily removable...(I like to unwrap my toys .....slowly......)

I have always wanted to see Candi, but the no DFK does not work for me. She sure looks hot though.

 

[Celticman]

I never forget I just bought a super sexy "red" outfit for one guy in London and an even sexier "skintight latex or something" outfit for another. Hehehe

The only time I've been stumped by an outfit request was for a pair of overalls ... can't find a pair in my size. In purple. Would get SPJ embroidered on the lapel if I could find them.

I would be surprised if any SP puts more effort into outfits. Jessica goes out of her way to actually ask what you would like and does her best to make it work.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I've not had an issue with clothing requests ever. I like the lingerie greeting. Who doesn't like unwrapping presents! :eyebrows:

 

[abv]

Jessica goes out of her way to actually ask what you would like and does her best to make it work.

Ain't that the truth.

 

[Celticman]

I've not had an issue with clothing requests ever. I like the lingerie greeting. Who doesn't like unwrapping presents! :eyebrows:

Ridge, hopefully you do not revert to your childhood and rip the packaging apart to get at the goodies

 

[Ridgeman08]

Ridge, hopefully you do not revert to your childhood and rip the packaging apart to get at the goodies

Nope... I'm a gentle kinda guy... slow and sensual is my style...

(I've had my clothes ripped off on occasion though... :Eek: :eyebrows

 

[Ridgeman08]

ummmm ya .... sorry 'bout that

It happens... (And I REALLY like the way you said sorry... :eyebrows