The funny thing is I take a good shower after so there should be no trace evidence on my person. However, I am always thinking about any affection displayed when saying goodbye - that's the killer. I've always said a single guy will have no real issue - a guy who's in a relationship will probably not want the good-bye kiss/hug for fear of lipstick/perfume/smell of lovely getting on their person.
clients and SPs, what are some of your pet peeves during sessions?
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If you choose to buzz even a minute before the set time- you will walk in on the real gfe experience.
I'm paying due to self esteem and confidence iissues which if solved, can lead to better free experiences. It takes time and effort to solve those things, which is why I'm paying. Doesn't mean I still can't list it as a peeve tho
I say you are paying for me to clean up the mess we make. LOL
Square edge nails are the bomb, but I agree - don't leave marks. I don't like them left on me, so I won't leave them on others.
The early thing is a toss up for me. Part of me does not like it because I live where I work and I want people to equal in their discretion. Showing up 20 mins early, parked in my visitor's parking - not so discrete. I always try to be ready 15 mins early just to be on the safe side. I would rather get the call early, then have them waiting in the parking lot and just waiting for the time so they can text. I get clients to call no matter what. I could be seeing them for 2 years on a weekly basis and they still have to call upon arrival.
Square edge nails are the bomb, but I agree - don't leave marks. I don't like them left on me, so I won't leave them on others.
The early thing is a toss up for me. Part of me does not like it because I live where I work and I want people to equal in their discretion. Showing up 20 mins early, parked in my visitor's parking - not so discrete. I always try to be ready 15 mins early just to be on the safe side. I would rather get the call early, then have them waiting in the parking lot and just waiting for the time so they can text. I get clients to call no matter what. I could be seeing them for 2 years on a weekly basis and they still have to call upon arrival.
perfume!!
some ladies bath in it
saw a lady once and when I was saying goodbye..romantically:wink:..she hugged me and held on for a good 30-45 seconds..nice but her perfume got into the fabric of my coat...and thats all I could smell and I was heading to pick up the S/O...had some fast thinking to do that day!
some ladies bath in it
saw a lady once and when I was saying goodbye..romantically:wink:..she hugged me and held on for a good 30-45 seconds..nice but her perfume got into the fabric of my coat...and thats all I could smell and I was heading to pick up the S/O...had some fast thinking to do that day!
wait an SP asked for a tip? never heard that one before.
Mine is not taking a shower before we get down .I once had to shower again in a span of 20 minutes just to get the girl to shower. She came into the hotel room sweating as it was in the summer.Asked her if she want to use the shower she refused(said did not want to get her hair wet).
Wow - given that most ladies are adamant about men showering upon arrival, as they very well should be, great to know some out there don't follow the practice themselves. If I were in your shoes I would have insisted and if she continued to refuse politely asked her to leave and take back any/all monies.
I've never been asked by an SP for a tip but MPA's have in a few cases asked. Last time I will see them.
I saw a note posted above about us paying the lady so she cleans up the mess we made after. I thought that was funny considering another SP posted something about cleaning hair out of the shower. Is there anything else we are required to do during our paid time? Should we make the bed, fluff the pillows, clean the toilet, do the laundry? Ladies, please follow the MP model - cleaning the shower before and after an appointment is your responsibility. You don't have to but I'm sure guys who see a dirty shower will not be happy and will write about it in reviews.
I'll admit there is the occasional perfume that is horrible. But most of the time if a lady uses something that smells nice and flowery, I find it intoxicating. The only thing is spray it in areas that I'm not going to lick cause it's definitely not the most palatable thing.
?????????????. Sounds more like you are going for therapy. I guess if you have to pay a psychologist for self esteem and confidence issues, that would also be considered a pet peeve, whether or not you got a release at the end.
I did that my first time (Sorry Amber if you read this) but she said nothing and we proceeded and I paid at the end. I would have been fine if she had taken CE's approach but I guess she trusted me?
Didn't make that mistake twice though.
No need to apologize. I Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I can always find room to improve.
Xo
Amber aka Jessica Rabbit
You are right some MPAs do . About the shower issue I did not ask her to leave (thought she might make a scene) so asked her if we can cut short the appointment and she agreed.
I find that situation crazy, I work part time at a spa and after EVERY session with the client because 1) I have to shower anyways and 2) it puts them at ease that I do indeed shower between every client. Plus I think it adds to the experience, I gotta get that oil off your back ahah
That's the thing, in the MP world, there wouldn't be a debate (granted some jerks shower improperly or skip it and pretend they did). But this is an SP who showed up for an outcall covered in sweat and refused to shower. I get that tampa shortened the appointment kind of as a way to avoid a lengthy appointment with an unshowered girl but it's disgusting (and somewhat hypocritical).
I once walked a few blocks in the summer to an appointment and was unfortunately dripping wet once I knocked on the door. The SP was kind enough to try and greet me but I still politely refused. I don't want a sweaty person touching me so I don't expect her too and didn't want her loveliness messed up.
Oh whenever I go into an outcall I chat for a few seconds to get freshened up because I expect the reverse. I thought that was the norm?
You and me both, sister. I figure an outcall is exactly the opposite of an incall. If I book a lady for an outcall, I tidy the place up and shower/get ready just before she arrives. I greet her, have the money in plain sight, and give her the opportunity to take a shower and freshen up while I undress, perhaps revealing a nice neglige and lie on the bed ready and waiting (obviously joking about the neglige). Perhaps I should book an outcall one day, if only to test this theory...
Yes everyone needs to check to make sure the towels are clean... I ask the sp almost every time, and do a quick sniff test b4 the towel goes anywhere near Me.
some guys use towels to wipe their a$$cracks/holes dry... during asian incall sf2 once the provider was wiping me dry and was wiping me wayyyy to deep in a$$ crack/a$$hole area... gross. U would figure to dry off that area effectively people would use toilet paper....
I glared at the towel and put in on the bathroom floor bedside the toilet to make sure the same towel would not be used post session.
