Cleanest/Safest SP?

[mark_toom]

I have been frequent on this board for about a month now but never once posted, so I thought I'd give this a try:

As fun as this hobby is, it's also as dangerous.

I have seen 4 SPs so far in my life, and each time after I finish a session with a SP, I start to panic almost about if I had picked up a virus, so I get STD tests done each time....So far so good

I have never done any uncovered activities and don't plan to.
Even wearing a cover, there are many STD's that can be contacted with out a cover. Hence this Topic.

I haven't much time to finish this post, but I was wondering if any of you have seen an SP that is very cautious about cleanliness and safety. Please post your comments and who it was.

Or if you are a SP reading this, feel free to also comment or PM me.

I hope I made this post in the right category.

--Toom

 

[blopar]

A bit off-topic, but where do you go/recommend for STD testing? Some folks have recommended the Hasslefree Clininc, but curious about other options.

 

[lionhead]

Well, 100% safe is NOT TO GO !

 

[AMWBT]

On being so worried

Are you the guy who, after seeing me months ago, in the spring I think it was, called me about 12 times after the appt. to ask how "safe" I was, after I'd explained about getting tested, and offered even to show you those test results? The guy who, even after the calls, just showed up at my door unannounced when I wasn't there, just to ask again? The guy who, after that, went to a hospital emergency room and told them some cock and bull story (I've always wanted to say "cock and bull story"!) about how you were walking along the street one day and some crazed drug addict rushed out and stabbed you with a hypodermic so they'd test you for AIDS without your having to explain that you'd cheated on your wife? The guy who spent, (he told me,) several hundred dollars on some kind of AIDS treatment, just in case?

If this was you, or if you've ever felt like doing any of these things, or even considered doing anything like this, then please, please, PLEASE, do all SPs everywhere a big favour and get yourself another hobby. No offense, and sure, everybody needs to be concerned with safety and so on, but realize there is no such thing as 100% safe sex, and that anyone who partakes of the sex trade is exposed to a certain amount of risk and that's the end of it. You can either deal with that or you can't.

 

[Gentle Ben]

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As fun as this hobby is, it's also as dangerous.


--Toom

Seems as tho You know the risks already, many of us do, but we still enjoy the time with the Ldaies, most aren't as paranoid about it as you are, maybe you should find an alternative approach to satisfying yourself.

I have a freind that meets Ladies via telephone chat lines, he made a comment once "Ive never used protection with anybody I've met online, they don't even talk about it, so I don't think about it"

This same friend would go nuts if he knew I used the services of SP's, you know, they could see hundreds of guys a year, and might have disease!,

I'll stick to the SP's that see multiple Clients and use protection over Civillian Ladies that meet "Multiple guys" and choose not to use protection anyday !

 

[Malibook]

Toom, stick with the Palm sisters, or get some of these.
http://www.condomania.com/jump.jsp?itemType=PRODUCT&itemID=1302

Personally, I have absolutely no desire for sterile mechanical sex even if it is free.
If there is no DFK, BBBJ, and DATY, I might as well just get a BBHJ massage or just pull my goalie.

 

[DonAngelo]

I have seen 4 SPs so far in my life, and each time after I finish a session with a SP, I start to panic almost about if I had picked up a virus, so I get STD tests done each time....So far so good

...you have to be more rational about this. Being paranoid doesn't mean you are safer. Regardless if you continue doing this or not; a vacination against Hepatitis A, B is a good idea and make sure your other vacinations are up to date, including diphtheria, flu shot and a pneumococcal vaccination. Do this not just to protect yourself, but to proctect the SP's and your family and friends as well, because most of those diseases you pick up while conducting everyday life.

A safe option for you would be just to go to a MP. I personally think you are very safe with a reputable SP.

 

[DonAngelo]

Re: Re: Cleanest/Safest SP?

I have a freind that meets Ladies via telephone chat lines, he made a comment once "Ive never used protection with anybody I've met online, they don't even talk about it, so I don't think about it

I met a lady from Lava once in a North York Hotel and she didn't want me to use a condom; but no way!!! This is really going on, and that's really, really freaky...

 

[WhOiSyOdAdDy?]

I would like to nominate mark_toom for "Tool of the Year"

 

[zydeco]

Welcome to TERB mark. If you actually are feeling panic after each session -- you might want to consider a new hobby. Good Luck.

 

[shack]

I was wondering if any of you have seen an SP that is very cautious about cleanliness and safety.

Martha Stewart

 

[plyrs99]

i second his nomination for TOOL OF THE YEAR!

no offence buddy, but you truly are an idiot! get yourself a blow-up doll, or use the palm sisters, otherwise, grow up, stop posting crap like this, and get a life.

while you do everything you can to minimize the risks in this hobby, you have to be well aware that you put yourself at risk of exposure to anything, everytime you have sex. nevermind an SP or an MPA, it could very well even be with your SO. you dont know what they are doing behind your back all the time, it does happen.

short of trying dolls or your palms, join a monastery.

Plyrs

 

[DonAngelo]

A bit off-topic, but where do you go/recommend for STD testing? Some folks have recommended the Hasslefree Clininc, but curious about other options.

I go to a regular walk in clinic and tell them that I'm not covered by OHIP, live outside Canada, my Drivers License address is the address where I stay while I'm in Canada and just met a new GF and we have decided to get mutually tested. You have to pay for the test in advance of course, but that is the only drawback there is.

 

[spatial_k]

Do you also freak out after sleeping with non-sp's? Or are all the girls you date virgins?

There's always a risk. I agree with whoever said paranoia does not equal safety.

 

[BiggieE]

If you're THAT worried about STDs, you should stay home, watch porno, and DIY....

 

[drlove]

There's always going to be some degree of risk. However, as long as you and the lady practice safe sex (a given in this day and age) you should be fine.

I think it's prudent to be tested two or three times a year, but anything over that is unnecessary, IMHO. Also, on your next visit tell the examining doctor point blank what you're doing. Ask to discuss related issues important to you. Perhaps this will assuage some of your fears surrounding the hobby.

 

[WhaWhaWha]

Try the phone girls, or rent a porno. No risks of anything transmitted this way is there?