I'm not judging anyone. I'm a musician and done some seriously stupid shit in the day like being drunk off my ass and taking a piss on my on my rig on stage ( you can guess what happened!). I just think it's nuts! I'm the last person to judge anyone!
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Must have made one helluva light show though. Golden pyrotechnics? :yo:
I'm not judging anyone. I'm a musician and done some seriously stupid shit in the day like being drunk off my ass and taking a piss on my on my rig on stage ( you can guess what happened!). I just think it's nuts! I'm the last person to judge anyone!
Oh, totally acknowledge that. Hell, I once saw a board member boast (claim) that they had received bbfs from a couple ladies. And if Twitter is any indication, ladies are receiving a disturbingly high number of inquiries about it.Lots of judgement going on here. Great to think so many want to be safe but most working ladies can tell you how many bbfs inquiries they get a day, and the number is WAY higher than zero. So why is it only board guys who proclaim not to do it? Numbers don't seem right.
Also, you never know why a sex worker might take that risk. Survival sex work is real. Maybe she doesn't have the luxury of saying no? Does not make her an awful person, and hell, if you have an issue with it, glove up. Insist on cbj. Do you.
I also realize that desperation might drive some ladies to offer it on their menu. Doesn't make me any less disgusted at the predators who take advantage of this.
Good observation. One did get pregnant very shortly after such an event, quit the business and now has a kid!They are trying to spermjack you-don’t fall for it.
I have seen cip in reference to cfs and not bbfs. A few sps out there dont even let you finish in cfs in their pussy.
Good observation. One did get pregnant very shortly after such an event, quit the business and now has a kid!
Then you have to pay child support for the next 18+years.
Always wear a condom and rinse it out and take it with you.
True, one lady I went to see had that policy in place.I have seen cip in reference to cfs and not bbfs. A few sps out there dont even let you finish in cfs in their pussy.
As someone who enjoys CIM, COF and COB, I didn't mind and finished the first SOG with CIM after taking a trip to The Motherland.
Initially, one of my all time favourites was that way, until she got to know me better and trusted me.^^This. I can think of at least one SP with this policy.
Over the many years I have been in this hobby I have had many offers - some from well known and even super star SP's.
I have had it offered from strippers (in the club), MP's, and Sp's both incall and out.
I'm no Brad Pitt so I have no illusions that it was 'just for me'. So far I have always managed to resist - but once I almost gave in to a long time regular.
I'm sure there are a multitude of reasons - from they think they have to in order to keep clients, to heat of the moment lapse in judgement. The long term regular explained it as she was just so comfortable with me and at the moment was just very horny and turned on. She thanked me afterward for actually resisting.
Moral of the story if there is one? It's out there - more common than most think (or know). Just be careful yourself and even if you find out you have been with a provider that has done it - as long as you used protection you should be fine.
I have had it offered from strippers (in the club), MP's, and Sp's both incall and out.
I'm no Brad Pitt so I have no illusions that it was 'just for me'. So far I have always managed to resist - but once I almost gave in to a long time regular.
I'm sure there are a multitude of reasons - from they think they have to in order to keep clients, to heat of the moment lapse in judgement. The long term regular explained it as she was just so comfortable with me and at the moment was just very horny and turned on. She thanked me afterward for actually resisting.
Moral of the story if there is one? It's out there - more common than most think (or know). Just be careful yourself and even if you find out you have been with a provider that has done it - as long as you used protection you should be fine.
I had one (now 'retired') regular spontaneously initiate with no warning; I realized seconds later, washed quickly, applied protection and continued. She later explained her impulsiveness along the same lines as above.The long term regular explained it as she was just so comfortable with me and at the moment was just very horny and turned on.
That incident aside, I've scarcely been offered and certainly have never partaken otherwise.
Only once has this ever been "offered" to me, and I say "offered" in quotes because it was more strongly implied than it was just flat out offered.
It was my first time seeing the SP (who has since retired). She clearly had some other mental health issues going on and for some reason saw it fit to open up to me about them after our first round.
She proceeded to tell me that because of said mental health issues, she has a craving for risky sex and she finds her work to be a place where she can indulge in that occasionally.
I read between the lines and extracted myself from that batshit situation immediately.
It was my first time seeing the SP (who has since retired). She clearly had some other mental health issues going on and for some reason saw it fit to open up to me about them after our first round.
She proceeded to tell me that because of said mental health issues, she has a craving for risky sex and she finds her work to be a place where she can indulge in that occasionally.
I read between the lines and extracted myself from that batshit situation immediately.
I know the lady I went to see who had a "No CIP during CFS" rule said that it was because the risk of condoms breaking.
I have to admit that I enjoy the intimacy of finishing inside a lady during CFS but as someone who also enjoys PSE elements, I'm fine with a COF/CIM/COB finish too.
I have to admit that I enjoy the intimacy of finishing inside a lady during CFS but as someone who also enjoys PSE elements, I'm fine with a COF/CIM/COB finish too.
I can certainly understand the fear, but that level of risk aversion isn't particularly suited for this industry, to say the least.I know the lady I went to see who had a "No CIP during CFS" rule said that it was because the risk of condoms breaking.
