Lots of judgement going on here. Great to think so many want to be safe but most working ladies can tell you how many bbfs inquiries they get a day, and the number is WAY higher than zero. So why is it only board guys who proclaim not to do it? Numbers don't seem right.
Also, you never know why a sex worker might take that risk. Survival sex work is real. Maybe she doesn't have the luxury of saying no? Does not make her an awful person, and hell, if you have an issue with it, glove up. Insist on cbj. Do you.