Like I said I talked with Val prior. We had an open discussion that others could read, hence where the info you think is private came from. So no private discussion with her was mentioned.
As for the mysterious unknown private conversation. Yes it was mentioned in private but as you can see her name was left out because we talked about posting what she said. So yes while it was private she knew I was posting but you also do not know her name.
Try and make things what you want, that won't make them truth!