I recently returned after a hiatus from hobbying and I am shaking my head at what seems to be a new direction this industry is taking. There are a few things that really make me wonder how bad things are really going to get.
Bait n switch. When I started seeing ladies, it was only the Asian ads you would book to see a 23 year old Japanese model only to have the door answered by a 30-40 year old looking Chinese woman which meant she was really 50. Sure there was the occasional other lady that would post a body pic of someone else with almost the same features. Or someone would post their pics from five years ago but it wasn't as common as what it's like now. In one night the other day I had three bait and switch. First one I booked, I even asked if the pics were her because she almost seemed too good to be true and she assures me the pics are 100% her. Get there and they are not so I call her on it and she claims for her safety she has to use someone else's pics, yet she has another ad posted with her actual pics. So clearly she is 100% full of shit, so I walked out. Try to see option B and she is a bait and switch so I walk on her and then ditto for option C. After I leave option C I get a text from her calling me an asshole for leaving, so I respond saying use real pics and she doesn't respond. Needless to say I went hope after option C.
YMMV. A few years ago, ymmv would be something that seemed more common in either younger SP's starting out or the cheaper ones. Now it seems like even "reputable" ladies are ymmv. I saw one lady that had nothing but glowing reviews and guys would rave about the service she provided. Seemed like an easy slam dunk for a good time. She is easily in my top three, if not number one worst experience ever. Issue almost immediately upon entering the door and I should have cut my loses and left right then but I stuck around and it just got worse.
Make matters worse, some of these ladies now are even openly talking about how if you do X you will get better service. Seriously? You say your rate is X so X is what you get an there shouldn't have to be Y or Z included to get good service out of the appointment.
Lastly and most disturbingly, discretion. Discretion is a key to this industry, everyone should know this but seems some no longer care. I went and saw Lady A and a couple days later I am talking with Lady B and Lady B mentions me seeing Lady A. WTF? I wasn't blacklisted, I wasn't a bad client, Lady B wanted to see me after what she heard but why is Lady A even mentioning seeing me? I know some guys might find it flattering that ladies are talking about them to other ladies, I find it disturbing since discretion is what this industry is about.
Top that off with, I contact another SP and she asks for my full name, occupation and age before booking. First off, occupation is something you never need to know. You can ask but there is no circumstance for "your safety" you need to know it. Second, why do you need my full name? I remember when any part of a name was optional. So I respond with John Smith, lawyer, 55. She tells me if I am not going to be serious then she wont see me. So I tell her when she give me her real full name and age then I will do likewise. She says I am being rude to her and this is for her safety and she needs discretion. Sorry honey but it's a two way street, if you won't give me your real name then you can't expect me to give you mine.
Bait n switch. When I started seeing ladies, it was only the Asian ads you would book to see a 23 year old Japanese model only to have the door answered by a 30-40 year old looking Chinese woman which meant she was really 50. Sure there was the occasional other lady that would post a body pic of someone else with almost the same features. Or someone would post their pics from five years ago but it wasn't as common as what it's like now. In one night the other day I had three bait and switch. First one I booked, I even asked if the pics were her because she almost seemed too good to be true and she assures me the pics are 100% her. Get there and they are not so I call her on it and she claims for her safety she has to use someone else's pics, yet she has another ad posted with her actual pics. So clearly she is 100% full of shit, so I walked out. Try to see option B and she is a bait and switch so I walk on her and then ditto for option C. After I leave option C I get a text from her calling me an asshole for leaving, so I respond saying use real pics and she doesn't respond. Needless to say I went hope after option C.
YMMV. A few years ago, ymmv would be something that seemed more common in either younger SP's starting out or the cheaper ones. Now it seems like even "reputable" ladies are ymmv. I saw one lady that had nothing but glowing reviews and guys would rave about the service she provided. Seemed like an easy slam dunk for a good time. She is easily in my top three, if not number one worst experience ever. Issue almost immediately upon entering the door and I should have cut my loses and left right then but I stuck around and it just got worse.
Make matters worse, some of these ladies now are even openly talking about how if you do X you will get better service. Seriously? You say your rate is X so X is what you get an there shouldn't have to be Y or Z included to get good service out of the appointment.
Lastly and most disturbingly, discretion. Discretion is a key to this industry, everyone should know this but seems some no longer care. I went and saw Lady A and a couple days later I am talking with Lady B and Lady B mentions me seeing Lady A. WTF? I wasn't blacklisted, I wasn't a bad client, Lady B wanted to see me after what she heard but why is Lady A even mentioning seeing me? I know some guys might find it flattering that ladies are talking about them to other ladies, I find it disturbing since discretion is what this industry is about.
Top that off with, I contact another SP and she asks for my full name, occupation and age before booking. First off, occupation is something you never need to know. You can ask but there is no circumstance for "your safety" you need to know it. Second, why do you need my full name? I remember when any part of a name was optional. So I respond with John Smith, lawyer, 55. She tells me if I am not going to be serious then she wont see me. So I tell her when she give me her real full name and age then I will do likewise. She says I am being rude to her and this is for her safety and she needs discretion. Sorry honey but it's a two way street, if you won't give me your real name then you can't expect me to give you mine.
