Changes to industry??

But I disagree with you here. So long as they are using a moniker, or you phone number, or some other non-critical identifier, why shouldn't they discuss you behind closed doors? That's what we do here about them. I mean, the same rules should apply. I would never discuss something personal on here about an SP, and would expect that courtesy to be returned. But if all she's saying about you is that you're a good client, what has she done wrong?

If the conversation was about me as a client only then I don't think anything was done wrong.
Unfortunately the conversation between Lady A and Lady B was about a private conversation between Lady A and myself that shouldn't have been repeated.
 
If the conversation was about me as a client only then I don't think anything was done wrong.
Unfortunately the conversation between Lady A and Lady B was about a private conversation between Lady A and myself that shouldn't have been repeated.



A private conversation should never ever be shared. In or out of the business.
 
Re: Fake bookings by other escorts. I have had one escort that is on this very board, who is highly reviewed, start texting me, asking questions like a man client, attempting to book. She forgot that she offered me to do duos with her about 6 months before hand so I knew it was her as I had her private phone number.

When confronted, she said she was asking for a client that she could not see. It was Bullshit. I asked if she takes third party booked appointments, and she said no. So I ask "then why would I?" She never replied back of course.

I don't use my number or email in my ads anymore. All clients need to be screened because shit like this happens. It is not just bad men we need to look out for.
 
A private conversation should never ever be shared. In or out of the business.

That is correct BUT that happens all the time on this board and in private life. Even the OP has told others about "private" conversations he has had with an SP. so where do you draw the line? Lesson learned, keep to yourself what you don't want to be shared.

I am still learning. Sent a couple of PM's to SP's here and one published it and she was banned temporarily because of it. Another thought she should tell everyone that I sent a PM. Note to myself, never trust that SP and based upon her stupid posts I learned what an idiot she really is.
 
That is correct BUT that happens all the time on this board and in private life. Even the OP has told others about "private" conversations he has had with an SP. so where do you draw the line? Lesson learned, keep to yourself what you don't want to be shared.

I am still learning. Sent a couple of PM's to SP's here and one published it and she was banned temporarily because of it. Another thought she should tell everyone that I sent a PM. Note to myself, never trust that SP and based upon her stupid posts I learned what an idiot she really is.

That would be me. Yes - Just said - "I already told you in your unsolicited PM, " That was the big "TELL EVERYONE".

So I am bad - for shame. I know.

Doesn't matter that I don't/didn't want the "flame war" debate to be brought to PM in the first place. Who the fuck cares about unwanted/unsolicited messages right? Ok bub! LOL


PS - love the irony though. You say the OP shared and that was bad, yet you just did as well. That damn line keeps moving all over the place. But what an idiot I am for pointing out that type of shit right? LOL
 
That would be me. Yes - Just said - "as I told you already in PM" That was the big "TELL EVERYONE"

So I am bad - for shame. I know.

Oh, thank you for reminding me. I was actually thinking about someone else. You are not worth giving a second thought so that is why I never thought anything of it. But yes, you cannot be trusted
 
One thing that has not changed, many men seems to be able to tell ladies how they should run their business, or how their business works, or the amount of money they make, the amount of clients they see, etc etc. LOL

Oh, thank you for reminding me. I was actually thinking about someone else. You are not worth giving a second thought so that is why I never thought anything of it. But yes, you cannot be trusted

Of course I can't...... :crazy:
 
That is correct BUT that happens all the time on this board and in private life. Even the OP has told others about "private" conversations he has had with an SP. so where do you draw the line? Lesson learned, keep to yourself what you don't want to be shared.

I am still learning. Sent a couple of PM's to SP's here and one published it and she was banned temporarily because of it. Another thought she should tell everyone that I sent a PM. Note to myself, never trust that SP and based upon her stupid posts I learned what an idiot she really is.


What conversations have I told and to whom?
I would love to hear you back up this accusation
 
I can back up charlottle. Girls who ask for references are only doing it to as charlotte said to ensure that the client booking the appointment is not fake. It is the same reasons guys ask for face shots. We never ever store clients names, emails, contact numbers without their consent. However I am pretty sure that every lady does have a BLACK LIST which contains a list of guys who ask for unsafe services, negotiate prices, or are no shows. As an sp I can tell you that clients on the BLACK LIST are never ever contacted and quite often forgotten about. Us sps are more at risk of being robbed/ attacked/ raped and stalked. Clients however DO NOT have that problem. Anyone that provides references or information the INFORMATION is NOT STORED. It is only for us to make sure you are legit , some guys have a problem with it and others don't. If you give references and don't want her to store your information simply tell her you will provide it but u want it deleted right after the encounter. I am sure any level headed sp would have no problem deleting your information.
You stated you're not asking for verification to make lists and store information anywhere. So you say and okay we should believe you, we have no reason not to. Can you speak for everyone else who does or will do this procedure? I don't think you can. As stated in my post, "This industry was build on discretion, this is a two way street and should always remain as such for both sides of the industry. Is a SP expected or would ever show their ID to a client...I think not. I'm sympathetic to risks that both sides of the industry face, yes they differ but are risks non the less." I know I don't need to tell you what discretion and procedures mean nor equal rights where discretion is concerned for that matter.

You keep downplaying risks punters take and highlighting yours. We are all well aware of the risks they have been the same for years, they are nothing new.

WIR
 
What conversations have I told and to whom?
I would love to hear you back up this accusation

Do these qualify? You posted these on this board and they were told to you while having a private conversation. Correct???

"SP's are not fake booking other SP's? Really cause the SP I was with last night and I actually had quite the discussion about that very thing. She went on to in detail about it. But who is she to know that she is getting faked booked by other SP's. It's not like she is an SP and would know who booked her or anything"

"She claims to have another job and work as a volunteer somewhere. Yet she says everything is flexible and she can make her own hours on any of those "jobs". Personally I think she is just trying to make as much money as she can before she leaves.

It is unfortunate because we had talked elsewhere and she really gives off the impression she is a pleasant, friendly girl who wants to have an enjoy time for both her and her guest"

You are like that annoying fly in my dining room, buzzing around. Eventually I will squash it like all the other ones before it, lol. Mind you, you probably think the same thing. Such is life.
 
Seems to me that if you don't qualify for, or don't like her screening process, you can move on. Whining about it is annoying. I wouldn't like or let these Lady's tell me how to run my business, so I don't tell them how to run thier business.
 
"I can back up charlottle. Girls who ask for references are only doing it to as charlotte said to ensure that the client booking the appointment is not fake."
You can only speak for yourself, you can't speak for everyone. Repeating that you have heard such is "Hearsay".

"It is the same reasons guys ask for face shots."
It's not the same, you're selling and we're buying.

"... of being robbed/ attacked/ raped and stalked. Clients however DO NOT have that problem."
Are you kidding me? We as punters "...DO NOT..."??? Perhaps you don't read such threads. I can't believe you even stated this, honestly! I've been robbed.

"Anyone that provides references or information the INFORMATION is NOT STORED."
Do you know this for a fact? You can only speak for yourself here. Ask clients who do outcalls, they have a different opinion on this.


This industry was build on discretion, this is a two way street and should always remain as such for both sides of the industry.

WIR

1.) I'm not speaking for charlotte, I said I am backing her up and agreeing with her point.
2.) it is the same. Privacy goes both ways and if you don't understand that then you should not be in this hobby.
3.) I have been robbed if you go back to my first original posts you will see I already explained this so I am not going to go there. Btw being ripped off by non reviewed bp girls is totally different than being robbed.
4.) I don't know it for a fact as you said I can only speak for myself. With that being said lets ask ourselves this ; why the heck would an sp ( A well know reviewed sp) EVER have a reason to store your contact information ?


WIR - seems to me like you have some MAJOR trust issues . Maybe you should consider a different hobby if your letting paranoia take over. IMHO
 
Seems to me that if you don't qualify for, or don't like her screening process, you can move on. Whining about it is annoying. I wouldn't like or let these Lady's tell me how to run my business, so I don't tell them how to run thier business.

I agree 100%. What I don't get is why some SP's would criticize the screening process of others. If anything, it should make it easier for them that others have a tougher screening process as compared to theirs. Like you said, clients can dislike how a SP runs their business so move on to someone else.
 
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Do these qualify? You posted these on this board and they were told to you while having a private conversation. Correct???

"SP's are not fake booking other SP's? Really cause the SP I was with last night and I actually had quite the discussion about that very thing. She went on to in detail about it. But who is she to know that she is getting faked booked by other SP's. It's not like she is an SP and would know who booked her or anything"

"She claims to have another job and work as a volunteer somewhere. Yet she says everything is flexible and she can make her own hours on any of those "jobs". Personally I think she is just trying to make as much money as she can before she leaves.

It is unfortunate because we had talked elsewhere and she really gives off the impression she is a pleasant, friendly girl who wants to have an enjoy time for both her and her guest"

You are like that annoying fly in my dining room, buzzing around. Eventually I will squash it like all the other ones before it, lol. Mind you, you probably think the same thing. Such is life.

Considering you only have one quote from myself I don't know what or where those other two are you want to refer to.

As for the one quote I do admit is mine. Who was I talking to? Do you know anything about my conversation to know what was private and not meant to go any further? Of course you don't. You are just throwing shit against the wall hoping something sticks.

Are you done yet or you gone try and find something else yet?
 
Considering you only have one quote from myself I don't know what or where those other two are you want to refer to.

As for the one quote I do admit is mine. Who was I talking to? Do you know anything about my conversation to know what was private and not meant to go any further? Of course you don't. You are just throwing shit against the wall hoping something sticks.

Are you done yet or you gone try and find something else yet?

You said both in posts here confirming you have disclosed private conversations between yourself and another person to others on an open forum (and one with an identity attached). By the way, there are only two quotes not three sorry I placed The quote sign in the second quote in the wrong place but see link attached for where you disclosed a private conversation. This is not the first time you can't get your story straight. Just waiting now for more of your idiocy.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ntina-Delray&p=5322480&highlight=#post5322480
 
You said both in posts here confirming you have disclosed private conversations between yourself and another person to others on an open forum (and one with an identity attached). By the way, there are only two quotes not three sorry I placed The quote sign in the second quote in the wrong place but see link attached for where you disclosed a private conversation. This is not the first time you can't get your story straight. Just waiting now for more of your idiocy.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ntina-Delray&p=5322480&highlight=#post5322480

So why not quote them?
Like I said, I did one of them and you failed to say who's private conversation I divulged. And how do you know it was a private conversation to divulge, were you there? Do you know the context?
 
So why not quote them?
Like I said, I did one of them and you failed to say who's private conversation I divulged. And how do you know it was a private conversation to divulge, were you there? Do you know the context?

Do you not understand what you actually said in the thread I added

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ntina-Delray&p=5322480&highlight=#post5322480

Based upon what you have complained about, no private conversations should be disclosed but you did that.
 
Do you not understand what you actually said in the thread I added

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ntina-Delray&p=5322480&highlight=#post5322480

Based upon what you have complained about, no private conversations should be disclosed but you did that.

Do you not?
I never mentioned what we talked about. I clearly stated we had talked elsewhere, what makes you assume that was private?

There is no private discussion in that thread divulged.

Grasping at straws but you are still flailing