Lastly and most disturbingly, discretion. Discretion is a key to this industry, everyone should know this but seems some no longer care. I went and saw Lady A and a couple days later I am talking with Lady B and Lady B mentions me seeing Lady A. WTF? I wasn't blacklisted, I wasn't a bad client, Lady B wanted to see me after what she heard but why is Lady A even mentioning seeing me? I know some guys might find it flattering that ladies are talking about them to other ladies, I find it disturbing since discretion is what this industry is about.
Top that off with, I contact another SP and she asks for my full name, occupation and age before booking. First off, occupation is something you never need to know. You can ask but there is no circumstance for "your safety" you need to know it. Second, why do you need my full name? I remember when any part of a name was optional. So I respond with John Smith, lawyer, 55. She tells me if I am not going to be serious then she wont see me. So I tell her when she give me her real full name and age then I will do likewise. She says I am being rude to her and this is for her safety and she needs discretion. Sorry honey but it's a two way street, if you won't give me your real name then you can't expect me to give you mine.