cbj to bbbj
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I like my clients smart, classy, and without handles like "daKoolGuy".
Amazingly enough, I don't offer bbbj, and yet....and yet...make a living.
Bbbj is like a lottery for stupid; the winning ticket will come up eventually, and if you're an idiot, you got a chance to win. Count me out, thanks.
Amazingly enough, I don't offer bbbj, and yet....and yet...make a living.
Bbbj is like a lottery for stupid; the winning ticket will come up eventually, and if you're an idiot, you got a chance to win. Count me out, thanks.
The various bareback markets will find their providers and customers. Anyone who says they are bowing to the pressure and compromising their principles is either lying to others or themselves. We all make our choices before the money changes hands and have to own up to our responsibility. If you cannot make your living within your personal boundaries you are in the wrong business.
Personally I desire BBBJ and facials. I don't apologize for anyone when I ask for it. I don't feel the least bit bad after I get it.
Personally I desire BBBJ and facials. I don't apologize for anyone when I ask for it. I don't feel the least bit bad after I get it.
Fair enough. I can respect that. If you're willing to accept that risk, as either a provider or client, that's your business. What gets exceedingly old is the endless downplaying of the risk often seen in these bbbj vs cbj threads...good ol' transparently self-serving peer pressure didn't work on me in junior high either...WhaWhaWha said:
Hey Ms. Fatale, I noticed that your siggy says GFE = Genuine Friendly Exquisite. But GFE really = Girlfriend Experience.
GFE = DFK, DATY and BBBJ.
I think that girls who perform BBBJ provide better customer service.
GFE = DFK, DATY and BBBJ.
I think that girls who perform BBBJ provide better customer service.
Lady, You sure showed some class here by getting 'personal' when I expressed a totally personal opinion without intending to point any fingers.Vancouver Femme Fatale said:
Heck, you are not even in my time zone.
Maybe you find some other handles classier ,for example, "Mongrel4U" ?
Sez you. Get back to me when you know what the hell you're talking about...uh...Hustler Hollywood...Hustler Hollywood said:
*snort*
GFE is about an approach to escorting, not a list of menu items.
Sorry daKoolguy, and Hustler Hollywood...I find an amazing correlation between guys with 'big swingin' dick' nicknames, low post counts, and a propensity to beak off about things they don't seem to really know much about. It's a peeve. If you took that personally, and I offended you, you'll need a way thicker skin to feel comfortable expressing opinions on an escort review board.
Hate to tell you, however, even with a condom, there are still very real risks.
In fact, there are those in the medical community who are on record stating that condoms are largely ineffective against HIV since the pores in the latex are something like 5 times the size of the HIV virus and hence, the virus can pass right through the latex.
This is a scientific fact by the way.
You might think you are safe, but you are only safer. And even then, only marginally.
Mind you, condoms do protect against Syphillis, Ghonorhea, Chlamydia, etc. Though they do NOT protect against warts or Herpes al that well.
In fact, there are those in the medical community who are on record stating that condoms are largely ineffective against HIV since the pores in the latex are something like 5 times the size of the HIV virus and hence, the virus can pass right through the latex.
This is a scientific fact by the way.
You might think you are safe, but you are only safer. And even then, only marginally.
Mind you, condoms do protect against Syphillis, Ghonorhea, Chlamydia, etc. Though they do NOT protect against warts or Herpes al that well.
As an observation [please, really it's only an observation] I find it interesting the vastly different attitude about BBBJ in Montreal and Québec City where it is the norm.
james t kirk said:
Absolutely. The protection we have is flawed, as are most things. However, just because my car doesn't have airbags which would protect me better it would be stupid to decide, therefore, that there's no point in wearing my seatbelt. Nothing will protect you against everything in all kinds of situations we face every day. You make your own choices about risk reduction...it's important to base those decisions on good health information rather than so-called market pressures. I think marketing pressures are more in play. I don't need pimp attitude in my life. That's why I'm indie.
Believe me, I value that I have the kind of life where I can prioritize my health over somebody else's need or ability to pay for something I find unsafe. And I have that kind of life because I made it that way.
Oh I know what I'm talking about. GFE = Girlfriend Experience. It includes DFK, DATY, MSOG and of course BBBJ. To upsize to a PSE you'll need facials, CIM and greek.Vancouver Femme Fatale said:
Safe GFE is considered CBJ instead of BBBJ.
And since when do post counts matter? Is that how some people here measure themselves?
GFE is, again, an approach to escorting, not a list of services. Use the search button. Please. It's seen as a rookie move to insist it's some contractual damn list.Hustler Hollywood said:
As to post counts, they don't usually matter unless they are part of the dread BSD-type nickname/low post count/beak off trifecta.
Actually, Hollywood, I'll drop the snark and lay it out to you in financial terms.There is a tendency to think that review boards are the centre if the pooning universe. They aren't. They make up a small percentage of the market, and in particular, my market. The vast majority of my clients are not members of review boards, not posters, and most don't even lurk. They are older family men who are more concerned about safety, and also usually more likely to be better-off financially.These clients are more concerned with the total quality of time spent with me rather than specific sexual acts. The same men who want more safety are the men who want to book three hour minimum or overnight appointments.
Going for the BBBJ one hour market and turning off safer multi-hour clients is a really stupid move financially. I hope it makes a little more sense to you, looking at it from that perspective. I've been in this business for more than four years, and I pay attention to what the clients I want to attract need to feel comfortable with me.
And I give one hell of a CBJ
Oh yeah? OH YEAH? Just to prove I'm a real GFE, I'm offering more bareback than the Calgary Stampede, greek in a clown suit, and Texas Holdem' with farm animals for $5.00 an hour. At the same time! That'll show YOU!WhaWhaWha said:
