cbj to bbbj

[Ref]

The pressure is mainly from the guys who want it, the ladies have the pressure to make money so they give in and take the risk, if they don't another lady will and take business away.

So because of competition, the ladies are willing to sacrifice their own personal safety? If this is the case, then they are not doing themselves (or their customers) any favours.

Would the same logic apply to rates? If the "Johns" stopped seeing the high-end girls, would they lower their rates to prevent the "Less-Expensive" girls from capturing the majority of the business? This may be easier than converting CBJ SP's to BBBJ SP's.

What concerns me with this theory is at one time, the majority of girls chose to perform a CBJ. However, because of competition, they have changed their minds about personal safety and have opted to perform BBBJ's. In effect, they have decided that $200 (or whatever amount they charge) is worth risking their life and well-being, as opposed to offering only a CBJ or perhaps changing their choice in occupation.

I guess we all have a price. In the end, it's the girls who pay.

 

[Lady Kyla]

Safe Sex Only

Well, there are still a lot of us that still maintain Safe SEX covered only and even with the toys.

I can tell you that there are still a lot of guys that will only go with an SP who does not do BBBJ and avoid the posts of people who give it.

Having said that it is an individual decision and I do respect the ladies and men who still play that way.

But be clear ........I and my girlfriends play SAFE only and do not apologize for it. I owe it to the gentleman who trust me to make sure I honour their decision to only be safe.

Interesting but there are a lot of great guys on TERB who do not post but play only SAFE..

SAFE SEX CLUB GUYS Welcome always.

 

[Jade4u]

That is soooo true a lot of men will not take the risk and will only see the sp's who do not take the risks as well. Nothing is guaranteed 100% safe except not doing sex, but there is men that chose to minimize their risks as well.

 

[pritty_kitten]

its amazing what that little head will lead a guy to do.

 

[The Daulfin]

its amazing what that little head will lead a guy to do.

Well, it is also amazing what a spending habit will lead a girl to do.

 

[DoingWhatIDoBest]

This is what science says about the risks:
http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

thanks for the link.
* Chlamydia
* Gonorrhea
* NGU
* Herpes
* Syphilis
* HPV (warts)

sure sounds like a great menu to me that I would want to go for. (I THINK NOT!) So anyone seeing GFE/BBBJ in someones ad should remember that /BBBJ equals Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, NGU. Herpies, Syphilis and HPV (warts) the next time you looking to get that "better felling". Why you other guys would want to take the chance to have a moment of pleasure is beyond me.

And another thing.

The next time you are dying to dive in and give the lady the pleasure of your tongue skills, here's something to know: HPV has been linked to Cervical Cancer. If you really want to please a woman, skip the DATY.

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/cervicalcancer/a/hpvcervcancercn.htm

 

[daKoolGuy]

Seems you got time to kill. Get a bbbj.

When and how exactly did this shift happen?

I remember 6-7 yrs ago, SPs were alot more health concious; if you got a bbbj from an SP you better go play the lottery because that day was indeed your "lucky" day. Now bbbj's are so prevalent they are a mandatroy pre-requisite for what seems like most hobbyists.

Anybody know what spurred this change? Any theories?

What do you care man, as long as you are getting it. You wanna do a thesis or something?

 

[james t kirk]

That's it, no more sex for me.

It's just too damn risky.

 

[Mongrel4u]

What do you care man, as long as you are getting it. You wanna do a thesis or something?

This is a discussion board you jack ass.....I'm "discussing"

 

[The Daulfin]

Spending habit? We are not all trendy shopaholics!

I didn't say that but the fact remains that a girl risks her health by providing a BBBJ in exchange for monetary gain, whether reflected in a higher rate of charge or getting a client who wouldn't see her otherwise. The only reason to do that is if the money were more necessary than the risk to health posed by the activity. So irregardless of what she would then spend that extra money on (car payments, mortgage, shoes, drugs, etc), it is still a habit of spending that money that has led her to take a risk on STDs above and beyond the norm.

 

[to-guy69]

The influx of EE providers opened up "menus" competition wise.

 

[Aardvark154]

So anyone seeing GFE/BBBJ in someones ad should remember that /BBBJ equals Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, NGU. Herpies, Syphilis and HPV (warts)

How about that important modifier a risk of. Also what ever happen to the idea of routinely getting tested for STD'S. Needless to say I realize that this is far easier for those who are not married than for those who are.

The next time you are dying to dive in and give the lady the pleasure of your tongue skills, here's something to know: HPV has been linked to Cervical Cancer. If you really want to please a woman, skip the DATY.

Again I would hope that most SP's have already or are making plans to ask their physician about getting inoculated with the new vaccine.

 

[DoingWhatIDoBest]

How about that important modifier a risk of. Also what ever happen to the idea of routinely getting tested for STD'S.

It not just about someone getting tested but to limit the percentage of potential exposures of anyone effected. One chooses to get tested regularly. Why take unnecessary risks in the mean time? You couldn't possibly come with a come-back on something that is so black and white. You either do everything you have control over to avoid unnecessary risks ans practice safer sex or you don't. Getting tested regularly is great but won't mean nothing if you see a few girls before your next visit to the clinic. In the meantime, you have spread whatever you catch to the other girls. Unless everyone gets tested after each girl/client they see, it really is pointless to argue that any service a girl offers will not produce a chance of infection. The list of STDs that can be spread is right in front of you. It's available for everyone to educate themselves. Are you, and others like you, going to dispute what the Doctors have written? Are they lying?

If the guys wanting to participate in risky services didn't make it so hard for girls who want to play safe as the norm, there wouldn't be so much demand for it in the first place. Everyone has their wants and needs, both client and SP. It just baffles me that one would want to engage in services that can be extremely risky to get a better feeling.

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

Ditto. I'd rather get a HJ than a CBJ.

That's actually my new policy. While I've been out of the hobby for a few months, the last time I saw a girl I had her put her ass in my face and then asked her to jerk off my cock using her forearms. There's no doubt it's more pleasurable than a CBJ which is just the stupidest thing ever created.

 

[Hustler Hollywood]

That's actually my new policy. While I've been out of the hobby for a few months, the last time I saw a girl I had her put her ass in my face and then asked her to jerk off my cock using her forearms. There's no doubt it's more pleasurable than a CBJ which is just the stupidest thing ever created.

No offense, but I would rather get a CBJ than have some broad jerk me off using her forearms.

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

No offense, but I would rather get a CBJ than have some broad jerk me off using her forearms.

LOL, not just her forearms, her HANDS too.

Sorry for the wording, sounds like an amputees special, I know.

 

[Mongrel4u]

No offense, but I would rather get a CBJ than have some broad jerk me off using her forearms.

amen...probably cost you the same too

 

[Mongrel4u]

LOL, not just her forearms, her HANDS too.

Sorry for the wording, sounds like an amputees special, I know.

even with her hands.. i'd still rather have a CBJ

 

[Hustler Hollywood]

LOL, not just her forearms, her HANDS too.

Sorry for the wording, sounds like an amputees special, I know.

Thats sounds more reasonable then.

The thing that I don't understand is how some girls are CBJ-only but allow facials?

Then you have the chicks that don't like facials but prefer CIM?

Whats up with these chicks?

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

Everybody has their own thing. Remember the girl on here who didn't allow DATY because of disease transmission, but then allowed BBBJTCIMSW?

All I know is that I have recently become a convert to the dangers of BBBJ and feel it just ain't worth it. But everybody goes through their phases.

Funny enough, I've found more BBBJ's and bareback offers in the dating scene than in the SP world. It's just INCREDIBLE how many women don't use protection of any kind. Shocked the hell out of me after I finished inside their warm pussy without a cover or a care (kidding, heh).