Except when it isn't. The one time I "ran" a red was at 2 in the morning. It was on a stretch of Yonge Street north of the 401. When I checked the lights, they were green. It wasn't until I was very near the intersection that I realized I had looked at the next set of lights, and not those for the intersection I was about to enter. Coming to a full stop would have left me somewhere in the middle of the intersection, so I made a hard right turn instead.
I think you and several others are assuming he was pushing an amber. At 1.3 seconds, that's a serious push. Could be his scenario was akin to mine or something similar. Doesn't make him blameless, nor do I think he's saying that. He's simply asking for some help.
Your example is an example of a fuck up on your part. Fuck ups happen. We all make them and it's in fact easy to do. But the vast majority of people who run reds do it knowing full well that they should be stopping, not hammering it to avoid stopping. 1.3 seconds means that the light was red for 1.3 seconds BEFORE he even entered the intersection.
Let's do the math shall we......
At 60 km/hr, that's equivalent to 16.7 metres per second.
In 1.3 seconds, that means that the light went full red at 1.3 seconds x 16.7 metres / second = 21.7 metres before the intersection. That's 71 feet. The light was red when the OP was 71 feet from the intersection. Red, not amber. That's a lot of distance.
Add in 3 seconds of amber (which is on the low end. Depending on the intersection, the amber can be up to 4 or even 5 seconds.)
So total time from green to red = 4.3 seconds.
Same math again.....
That's 72 metres or 236 feet.
Plenty of time to stop.
Buddy didn't stop because he hit the gas in order to get through the intersection. The law actually states that an amber light means stop. It does not mean hammer it to get through the intersection. If you hammer it and there happens to be a cop there, you will get pulled over and you run the very real risk of getting a ticket.
A quick google search revealed that every year in the USA, 800 people get killed when someone runs a red. 15,000 are injured.