Tina,
I havn't read the entire 8 pages on this thread, but i did read a couple.
From someone who has implants, I LOVE THEM and my LORD loves them. No i did not get them for HIM, in fact he tried to talk me out of it, now he can't get enough of them. That's all that's important. I didn't get them because of any self esteem issues or to please anyone else, I got them because I wanted them!!
If you want them get them!! As for size, whatever makes you happy, it does't matter what everyone else wants!
I started with a c-cup 8 years ago and went to a DDD cup (550cc). Recently again this year, I upgraded lol I am now at a 38-GG cup (900cc) and DAMN those bras are hard to find.... so i'm usually not wearing one lol
here's a couple recent photos to give you an idea.
PHOTO 1
PHOTO 2
I have an excellent surgeon that i've been seeing for 9 years and he's done all my work head to toe, most recently (last month) I had my lips done again. He can make them look AND feel VERY natural
here's his site - Dr. Mitch Brown
http://www.torontobreastimplant.com/
Good luck on whatever you decide.
Cheers
Goddess Vanessa