With all due respect, sir.....You seem like a confused flake.Thing is, the more I talked with her, the more I was attracted to her. I was a bit selfish to be honest in continuing to date her as I myself have been trying hard to find someone, but eventually ( i.e after 6 dates ), I asked myself "Would I want to spend the rest of my life with her ? ". All things considered, the answer inside was a "No". I was going to tell her on the next date but couldn't. Then she invited me home.
Anyways, I'll text her tomorrow and hope to have a friend respond.
What are you talking about? They went out on 8 dates. He was trying to figure out if he wanted her or not. He gave it a month, made his decision, now its over. Shame on him? Hardly. He's entitled to date for a while and figure out if it has a future or not. Its called being human.Wow, I think the OP did lead her on. Shame on you. You gave her a false sense of hope and then stonewalled her when she made advances.
So you're shitting on him for making a decision too soon, and angie is shitting on him for not making a decision sooner. What the hell?With all due respect, sir.....You seem like a confused flake.
You were getting more attracted to her....but couldn't see spending the rest of your life together?
Perhaps it would take a bit more time?
Honestly I do not envy women having to deal with guys like that.
while an overwhelming majority of population is going in the opposite direction.If shes a cute bbw you should stay with it and both join the gym. Some turn out super hot.
Too bad, but at least you have given her closure. And for yourself.She contacted me and said she was sorry things didn't work out and misses me. I say no need to be sorry and I should be sorry to have hurt you. I didn't mean to. She says she doesn't think she'll be able to have a friendship. I said I understand and wished her the best.
This hurt me too but I feel I did the right thing and handled things decently.
It would have taken me faster to realize that it wouldn't work ( there were other factors ) if she lived/worked somewhat in the city and we met more often than once a week. Dating doesn't mean two meetups and you have found your soulmate, for me at least.
Really?! The rest of your life? Is that the approach to take?Thing is, the more I talked with her, the more I was attracted to her. I was a bit selfish to be honest in continuing to date her as I myself have been trying hard to find someone, but eventually ( i.e after 6 dates ), I asked myself "Would I want to spend the rest of my life with her ? ". All things considered, the answer inside was a "No". I was going to tell her on the next date but couldn't. Then she invited me home.
Anyways, I'll text her tomorrow and hope to have a friend respond.
Like I said, there were other factors. I was indeed thinking in terms of companionship and booty. Its just that I wasn't physically attracted to her, which fucked with my mind a LOT ! The companionship was growing but I just couldn't see myself fucking that booty for the rest of my life. ( Yeah, I know I sound weird ).Really?! The rest of your life? Is that the approach to take?
I thought people dated because they had fun together and had some things in common. Why think about marriage 8 dates in? Why can't it just be about companionship and booty in the beginning?
1. Don't need a car all things considered.Trod
1. buy a car
2. get in the sheets w BBWs from time to time she just may rock your world
3. a grown woman can manage her own feelings , you arent that precious to make some of the statements you've made
I know that, but attitude alone can't be the base of everything. You gotta have enough basic physical attraction which I didn't feel for her unfortunately.Lot of drama for so little action ... if you like a woman as a person, meaning you spend time together enjoyably, one kiss, (and at the risk of sounding like a Cialis commercial) one moment in the kitchen where you see or feel her in just the right way, the touch of her bosom, the way she touches your dick, the small of her back, a mind blowing blow job, a great fuck ALL have the potential to change the way you see her forever , or not. Weight, looks can change, attitude is forever and is quite sexually appealing
I pity people who can't think from different perspectives and assume they have all the experience in the world to preach. There is no set 'type' of woman. It is a mix of personal preferences. I hope you have some too.But you will never know. Because you want to spare her feelings? I pity people who have a "type" - based on looks alone. They deny themselves so many experiences and options. You know very little about a woman's whole appeal to you as a full woman without at least kissing, getting close to her physically. We are blessed with multiple senses for a reason , visual is just one piece of the puzzle. There are many many smouldering vixens out there who are larger than a size8.
Well, I'd rather end things if we both felt it wasn't gonna work out. Physical attractiveness was a big factor in that along with other things. Why spend the time and energy to bullshit someone into thinking they have a long lasting relationship ? Nice guys don't do that, jerks who pretend to be nice guys do that.You think you are a nice guy. I dont. i think you are facile in terms of your sense of "balance" .... you seem like 99/1, looks vs enjoyable company in your attractions. Nice guys see a whole woman and have the balls to give it a real shot , and if it clicks, it clicks and if it doesn't, it doesn't and you take it from there preserving her dignity and felinity. (btw you have a much higher likelihood of being friends w her if you at least showed her that she was desirable and fuckable )
I am not pretending, I actually did it and we both understood why.You of course have every right to shut it down before any physical intimacy but dont pretend you are doing it to spare her feelings.
Yes, one of the bottles.I'm betting she bought the wine too.
